
spica
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Posted by DapperDon
Scorpios are overrated and you don't need to think this hard.




Posted by DapperDon
"And they don't want to say anything that they can be held responsible for later down the road"
That's not true at all, yes I'm a Scorpio sun but really in a Capricorn's body. A sexy Capricorn body with a handsome face. To answer your question straight up, I will say this: I feel it's great we live in a society where we can ask questions. Because without questions you just have a statement. And statements don't make the world go 'round. *smiles directly at you*
I'm Dapper Don and I approve of this message.

Posted by seavixen2
"Neither can Scorpio force anyone to do anything they don't want to, except, unless its a Cancer, Aries, Pisces, etc..
Scorpio certainly can't force a Libra type."
That sentence alone renders this thread not serious.

Posted by pigeonpiePosted by spica
"And I don't know if anyone is ever the "eagle type" all the time. I think human nature consists of all the negative traits that the lizard has...you would have to be a zen master not to bounce back and forth from time to time.."
Of course, but to reach the eagle type is not easy at all. I dont think I have ever seen..
except for Napoleon Hill, that is.
I think my avatar is the true representation of a Scrop.click to expand

Posted by DapperDon
I happened to down a bottle of vodka straight out the bottle. I don't know what's wrong with me lately. I never used to drink but it's the only time I'm happy. Losing your girl and money contributes a lot to depression I noticed.




Posted by spica
"NO ONE can force a Scorpio to do anything they don't want to...everything must be done by their free will. Certainly a Libra can help direct and be a good role model for a Scorpio in the positive aspect...but almost any other sign can too. Scorpio can only transform himself and he has to want to. "
Neither can Scorpio force anyone to do anything they don't want to, except, unless its a Cancer, Aries, Pisces, etc..
Scorpio certainly can't force a Libra type. So there must be some compromise there.

Posted by DapperDon
Go fuck yourself for not answering me on time!

Posted by DapperDon
Okay, I'll be serious for you right now, Spica. Scorpio men are so deep and penetrating like a good porno. Sorry, that's the last joke. But anyway Scorpios are so deep and penetrating. Shit. Hold on let me put it to you this way:
Scorpio men can be represented by the god of the underworld. In ancient mythology, Hades had a wife that betrayed him. He showered her in love and lavish gifts. We have a dark understanding of people and the negative thoughts you see are in fact our views, yes, granted. However, we view people this way to justify our own actions. We are really good people at heart. Our intentions are pure but the process and action of how we execute our plans can be a bit "gray" if you know what I mean. I brought up the Hades thing because it is a perfect example of how and why we do things, which is what you wanted to know.
In conclusion: the process is easily perceived as evil. But the result and intentions are great and magnanimous.

Posted by pigeonpiePosted by DapperDon
Scorpios are overrated and you don't need to think this hard.
That's why I've jumped ship to Libra, for now.click to expand

Posted by DapperDon
Spica you said he is depressed when he's without you and without money. I personally understand that money is very important, perhaps more so than anything but true love. I am attracted to power and I know this only comes from influence, which only comes through money. There was a time when I lived in a Geo Tracker but still dressed in a suit. I'm rambling for no reason right now so bear with me I think I'm in story telling drunk mode. Would you like to hear some Scorpio stories and confessions?

Posted by Days22Posted by spicaPosted by seavixen2
"Neither can Scorpio force anyone to do anything they don't want to, except, unless its a Cancer, Aries, Pisces, etc..
Scorpio certainly can't force a Libra type."
That sentence alone renders this thread not serious.
Scorpio is about control. I have seen Cancer/Scorp and Aries/Scorp dynamics. I have nt seen Pisces/Scorp, however, except on boards. How would you think Pisces can control Scorp then?
same way we control libras
with our dicks...
kidding
kidding
why would we want to controlclick to expand

Posted by heroic_guy
In this case I say spica "you have to be the change you wish to see in this world."
I am in a great relationship with a scorpio, I am aries. And there are so many areas we both must grow together on in order to make this a valued relationship. Nothing is bad right now, but if we don't bond then we won't be able to overcome differences.
I am relied upon to be upbeat in this relationship with my scorpio, not because I feel I have to be, but i was told that they like that about me above others. So in that regard my scorpio has clued me in on a way to be supportive in that manner.
Mind you, the silent times brief as they are, seem like eternity to my kind and I am forceful and up front, and have to be cautious where I would otherwise mow over someone's process. So I must grow to be more patient and cooperative, and actually that is a good thing, why shouldn't I grow to be a more patient and cooperative person in a relationship 😄
Do I want more from my Scorpio at times when I don't understand the silent moment, of course it would be easier for me, but I have to take in account the "we" aspect, and I can't belittle the scorpio mannerisms if I am to expect others to respect my brash, forward nature.
In other words I have to grow too, especially if I want US to grow.

Posted by pigeonpiePosted by spicaPosted by pigeonpiePosted by spica
"And I don't know if anyone is ever the "eagle type" all the time. I think human nature consists of all the negative traits that the lizard has...you would have to be a zen master not to bounce back and forth from time to time.."
Of course, but to reach the eagle type is not easy at all. I dont think I have ever seen..
except for Napoleon Hill, that is.
I think my avatar is the true representation of a Scrop.
So you're a Scorp?
No, a scrop 🙂
I like the sound of it better 🙂click to expand

Posted by scorpiopicsPosted by spica
"NO ONE can force a Scorpio to do anything they don't want to...everything must be done by their free will. Certainly a Libra can help direct and be a good role model for a Scorpio in the positive aspect...but almost any other sign can too. Scorpio can only transform himself and he has to want to. "
Neither can Scorpio force anyone to do anything they don't want to, except, unless its a Cancer, Aries, Pisces, etc..
Scorpio certainly can't force a Libra type. So there must be some compromise there.
Yes we can. We just suggest the opposing side FIRST
( or sometimes give you what is needed to balance )
and then you are compelled to act on exact opposite
believing that you are totally in control of it all
... and there is very little you can do about it.
(Uh-oh...I think maybe I wasn't supposed to tell.)
Uh ...Nevermind. That's all a bunch of crap above.
We can have absolutely no bearing on your actions,
thoughts, feelings, desires - you are in control.click to expand

Posted by DapperDon
I heard an inspiring quote today that said, "Love like you've never been hurt" but it seems stupid even though its the right way to live.

Posted by DapperDon
Lol! You're right but screw that. My next woman better be a complete fucking doormat who takes orders who enjoys being slapped and long walks on the beach.

Posted by fall&risePosted by DapperDon
"And they don't want to say anything that they can be held responsible for later down the road"
That's not true at all, yes I'm a Scorpio sun but really in a Capricorn's body. A sexy Capricorn body with a handsome face. To answer your question straight up, I will say this: I feel it's great we live in a society where we can ask questions. Because without questions you just have a statement. And statements don't make the world go 'round. *smiles directly at you*
I'm Dapper Don and I approve of this message.
Heavenly combo, is it not? Capricorn/Scorpio combo is a dynamic one. Those two signs suit with each other very well. Shortly, it is just magical.click to expand

Posted by scorpiopics
Yes we can. We just suggest the opposing side FIRST
( or sometimes give you what is needed to balance )
and then you are compelled to act on exact opposite
believing that you are totally in control of it all
... and there is very little you can do about it.
(Uh-oh...I think maybe I wasn't supposed to tell.)
Uh ...Nevermind. That's all a bunch of crap above.
We can have absolutely no bearing on your actions,
thoughts, feelings, desires - you are in control.click to expand
haha!!! I DO THIS.. yes.. we cannot control people's mind, their personality.. their beliefs.. we just can't... but we can control the environment.. knowing them fully and how they react to certain environmental condition give us (scorpio) the upper hand.. manipulate the environment to get the behavior you want from people. A person thinks its his/her decision..but really, the environment that was altered by the master caused the person to react that way... (humans are interesting)
Posted by spicaThe user who posted this message has hidden it.
Hmm..click to expand

Posted by scorpio740
sorry to all my fellow Scorpios for revealing our secret.. (>.
Dont worry its actually common knowledge about Scorpio.
Actually Aries women do it too.

Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
LS, in my experience - libras (the women) are the most agressive people around. They??re giving me a fucking headache at work. Everytime I work with a libra I just don't understand what they are going on and on about. In the beginning I thought they were evil, but now I realise that they actually aren't mean - it's just that they live their lifes with co-dependency as nr.1. rule. Every little thing they do must be analized and approved through interaction with other people. I just think they make such a freaking circus out of everything. Why not just go ahead and do it, so what if noone else agrees. But that's just the capricorn in me talking. I'm sure the libras at my work think that I'm a hertless machine, but see that's what I mean - there isn't probably anything wrong with any of us - we just simpy dont "get" eachother.

Posted by LovelyScorp
scorpio's absorb moods of the people around them. whether they like it or not. I just discovered this recently and have been able to work on controlling this tendancy within myself.
if you are sad, they are sad, if you are angry, they are angry, if you are happy, they are happy, if you are negative, they are negative.
so look in the mirror and ask yourself what you are feeling today, then look at your scorp and you will see your reflection.

Posted by TerrifyingGentlenessPosted by spicaPosted by TerrifyingGentleness
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Dude, I will be the first to admit that I have not figured out you people at all. You libras are a mystery to me. But somewhere deep inside, I suppose I don't really hate you - why, I even kind of.. think you??re cute (0,5% of the time). As for water being more pliable then earth, hmm... idk - scorpios are so fucking stubborn. I??ve never managed to shape a scorpio, nor a taurus fo that matter, nor a leao or an aqua. I think it's the fixed signs who are annoying little stubborn shits. The rest of us signs know the meaning of the word "compromise".click to expand

Posted by LovelyScorp
we are not victims by any means. that is totally NOT what I'm trying to say.
see what I mean?


Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by DapperDon
Scorpios are overrated and you don't need to think this hard.
I felt him on this. I think ANYONE is overrated to be thinking this hard.
However, I work with two older libra women that are married to scorpio men. Both women are sweet as pie.. never met the husbands, but from what I hear from the wives, the men are good and solid.click to expand

Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by spicaPosted by LovelyScorp
we are not victims by any means. that is totally NOT what I'm trying to say.
see what I mean?
Yes I do see what you mean. My mum is Scorpio, I know the miscommunication. But I also know how males and females, especially of scorpio differ.
And my point here is really to ping points here and there to see if I should stay with my faux scorp. See what I mean? I am just taking it or leaving it. I dont force anyone to cleave to my demands.
I think you already know your answer. you are looking for validation.click to expand

Posted by TerrifyingGentleness
Spica, in theory I should be able to relate somewhat to libras - I have a libra mars (sneaky, sneaky 🙂 ) but I don't... The women are a mystery to me. Libra men are unrealible, but handsome and they are usually very sweet and act like gentlemen, wich is a big turn on for any woman with selfrespect 😉 The problem arises when you get past that initial stage of getting to know eachother. There's nothing there to hold on to - but I suppose in my case - alot of it has to do with my unwillingness to let anyone in. I don't trust men and never ever open up to anyone. In other words - I can't really blame it all on the libras...

Posted by pigeonpiePosted by LovelyScorpPosted by pigeonpie
Air+Water = Zodiac bubblebath
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Posted by spicaPosted by pigeonpie
Air+Water = Zodiac bubblebath
Hmmmm.. bubblebath, eh?
HAhaha. Yes !
That's how I like to see it anyways 🙂
Or maybe a waterspout vortex ?
whoosh!🙂click to expand

Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by spicaPosted by LovelyScorp
we are not victims by any means. that is totally NOT what I'm trying to say.
see what I mean?
Yes I do see what you mean. My mum is Scorpio, I know the miscommunication. But I also know how males and females, especially of scorpio differ.
And my point here is really to ping points here and there to see if I should stay with my faux scorp. See what I mean? I am just taking it or leaving it. I dont force anyone to cleave to my demands.
I think you already know your answer. you are looking for validation.click to expand



Posted by LovelyScorp
that was REALLY passive aggressive. good job in proving my point. 🙂


Posted by LovelyScorp
I have lots of faults, I wear everyone of them proudly. Along with all the silly mistakes I've accumulated in my lifetime.
grace and dignity. i'm trying to learn that.
but this threads not so much about me, babe. don't waste the space.

Posted by LovelyScorp
...and validation isn't always a bad word either.



Posted by LovelyScorp
You are TOTALLY overthinking my words (as usual).
I don't know you. How could I POSSIBLY insult your character?


Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by spicaPosted by LovelyScorp
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Love you, be you, be positive CONSISTENTLY and your scorp will follow. promise.
I've gotta go.
I enjoyed talking with you, really did 🙂
Thanks for your kind words.
Yes Scorp men like happy shiny things as a contrast to their more negative outlook.
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Some things I noticed:
1. His icon is the grim reaper.
2. He automaticaly thinks negative given any random (entirely salvageable) situation
3. His sticky glue can never be washed off and is stuck forever.
4. I think he lives in brimstone and hellfire on earth.
Thing is,
I am Libra (sagittarian houser). I absolutely hate seeing the dark things in life. I don't like how hell looks like and don't like spending my life there, together with Hades.
I like to know, if the Scorpio hell can ever be transformed heavenward?
I read that Scorpio man (or faux Scorpio) Libra woman is a karmic combi, and Libra woman usually can help IMPROVE Scorpio's destrcutive tendencies.
I used to think Scorpio man- Cancer woman is the best combi, but after knowing some Cancers, I realise that they sorta worship scorpio (same as Aries), and Scorpio doesn't GROW because they accept both the good and bad part of scorpio and never contest it.
Libra, however, forces Scorpio to GROW in the best and most positive direction, because that check and balance scale in Libra ALSO extends to scorpio and hell no can Scorpio have their damn way with the cold, hard Libra scale type!
Side note:
1. Scorpio types are SILENT. WHY?
2. And to be an EAGLE scorp, somehow, I totally understand that Scorpio needs to go SKYWARD and not be stuck in the MUD. They need to use their HEAD (Logic) more than their dark, destructive emotions.