Caring for Scorpios

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SirHorns
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Awhile back I asked how to help a Scorpio Moon friend I had out.
She still hasn't gone through the "death/rebirth" thing yet.

Is just being honest and there when she comes to talk, all I can do?
I don't baby her.
Do try to logic things out or at least notice triggers and causes for things.
Though that's about as useful I can be, I think.

Any other outlets for emotions? Boxing only does so much and she also feels bad if he unloads too much.
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blockquote>Posted by SirHorns
Awhile back I asked how to help a Scorpio Moon friend I had out.
She still hasn't gone through the "death/rebirth" thing yet.

Is just being honest and there when she comes to talk, all I can do?
I don't baby her.

Any other outlets for emotions? Boxing only does so much and she also feels bad if he unloads too much.



Yes. You seem rather impatient with her ability to change and I am not very clear as to why. It's not your journey to take. If it becomes to much for you to tolerate (perhaps the reason for your impatience), it's your time to take a break.

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Do try to logic things out or at least notice triggers and causes for things.
Though that's about as useful I can be, I think.
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Does this mean you do all the mental work her? Is she asking for this or is it being imposed?
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Posted by Whatu
It never ends, just do your own shit and if you are going to invest energy in a woman then use it on one who you love and is willing to receive that energy openly. It sounds like you really care for her, do you like her in a romantic way? like at all, even in a weird surprised energy sense like the "friend zone".

whats her sun sign?



I do, she lives with family and has a good relationship with them. So I'm not centering my life on that.
I do, somewhere between good friend/family type love. Which is why if there was anything I could do was help aside from being a rock of support when she seeks one on a rare occasion.

Virgo Rising/Leo Sun/Scorpio Moon

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Nah, I suppose I am surprised how long this journey lasts for her.
It's not imposed, just normally happens since she observes things out and we go from there.