Who wins: Scorp sun vs a Scorp moon

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Geminthesun on Tuesday, May 20, 2014 and has 55 replies.

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@Geminthesun
13 Years

I've been going thru all these threads and see a bazillion posts about scorpio men problems and silent treatments
and I wonder what it would take to beat one at their own game!

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@Geminthesun
13 Years

Posted by Rabbit
Posted by Geminthesun
I've been going thru all these threads and see a bazillion posts about scorpio men problems and silent treatments
and I wonder what it would take to beat one at their own game!

You haven't understood anything you read then.

You don't defeat a Scorpio man.

THEY defeat THEMSELVES.

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I do get it but it doesn't appear that way w all these damn threads.....the receiving ends are still miserable....that means no one won then.

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12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Geminthesun
I've been going thru all these threads and see a bazillion posts about scorpio men problems and silent treatments
and I wonder what it would take to beat one at their own game!

It's not a game to them - at least it doesn't start out that way. It's just their nature. Treating it/them as such will only get you sent back to start. Repeatedly. With less and less cards in your hands each time.

Best thing is to either wait for it to pass, or, if you can't, tell them how you interprete that particular behavior and how it makes you feel.

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12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Damnata
whoever has a water venus will win most of the time.

water venus = emotionally manipulative AND aware of it. most people don't use that though, I know I don't.

Sometimes they do though. Just to see if you're paying attention or see if you have enough strength of character to call 'em out on it. 😈

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@Geminthesun
13 Years

It's hard to call it a game when all I am guilty of is reacting according to his actions while at the same time trying to respect his space.
It just seems like common sense to me is all. But as I can see it's just that complicated. My feelings are 100% genuine.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Andalusia
Posted by Damnata
whoever has a water venus will win most of the time.

water venus = emotionally manipulative AND aware of it. most people don't use that though, I know I don't.

Sometimes they do though. Just to see if you're paying attention or see if you have enough strength of character to call 'em out on it. 😈

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Even with the strength of character, if they don't respect you beforehand, they'll just laugh at it.

But yeah 😄

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@Geminthesun
13 Years

Posted by Damnata
whoever has a water venus will win most of the time.

water venus = emotionally manipulative AND aware of it. most people don't use that though, I know I don't.

Interesting. I'm not water venus that's for sure. My venus sign is Taurus.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Geminthesun
Posted by Damnata
whoever has a water venus will win most of the time.

water venus = emotionally manipulative AND aware of it. most people don't use that though, I know I don't.

Interesting. I'm not water venus that's for sure. My venus sign is Taurus.

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I love my water venus. But if I acted on some fucked up scenario, I'd go all the way.

It's just..volatile. You cannot predict it and that's not good for love. Awesome for business though.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Geminthesun
Posted by Damnata
Best way to win a mind game, for yourself:

Don't play it, walk away.

Even though I know you are 100% right! it just hard to except. Now I suppose I don't have a choice.

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The way I'd do it..no matter how you act or what you say..as long as you're ok with yourself, you'll regret nothing.

I do avoid mind games like crazy because it's a sign of immaturity and I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt. The hype of winning doesn't win over genuine interaction. It is what it is.

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@Geminthesun
13 Years

We'll put Damnata.....did u say you were a Virgo (sun sign)? Regardless, this is exactly why forums are so damn interesting and helpful....sometimes some of us to be reminded and brought back to reality!

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Rabbit
I don't normally reveal my scorpy bits too much but...

You can't play games with a Scorpio. We see you doing it, we know you're doing it, and we're just plain better at it than you.

Why?

We already know all the games and have already played all those games ourself.

We've played so many games in fact, we know how other people react to those games. So when we know someone is running game on us, we know exactly how to counteract it.

It's a contest you can't win. The Scorpio might not win it either...but you can be damn sure he's not going down without taking everyone else involved with him.

Same with Virgos.

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LilliLou
😄 at Melly and Dam- you should co-author the Definitive Scorpio Handbook with Rabbit

Lol, awh thanks, Lilli-Boo. Although I'm hardly an authority. I don't necessarily understand the motivations behind Scorpio behavior - I just accept the fact that it's there.

🙂

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@ryu8
13 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Damnata
and +1 billion on Scorpios defeating themselves.

It's an art they take to perfection.

I tend to re channel certain negative energy into positive energy that will benefit me some how. Example: Put more energy into work.
this negativity I am feeling then becomes positive.
thus defeating anything negative I was once feeling.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by ryu8
Posted by Damnata
and +1 billion on Scorpios defeating themselves.

It's an art they take to perfection.

I tend to re channel certain negative energy into positive energy that will benefit me some how. Example: Put more energy into work.
this negativity I am feeling then becomes positive.
thus defeating anything negative I was once feeling.

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Yup. Channel it into business, sports, competition.

Not love.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Nemesis
everybody does this. maybe not even on a level they're aware of. but every relationship - as there is no unconditional love - has subtle and not so subtle power and mind games - it's about balance. challenge. growth.

The problem is people tie it to ego where they have to win at all costs.

We're not all pisceans Nem 🙂..I have a long way to go before I reach that node.

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@Aii
12 Years

I'm Aqua sun/Scopio moon. My man is Scopio sun/Aqua moon and he win all the time.

Scopio sun win!!

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@Clarismoris
12 Years

Posted by Damnata
Posted by Rabbit
I don't normally reveal my scorpy bits too much but...

You can't play games with a Scorpio. We see you doing it, we know you're doing it, and we're just plain better at it than you.

Why?

We already know all the games and have already played all those games ourself.

We've played so many games in fact, we know how other people react to those games. So when we know someone is running game on us, we know exactly how to counteract it.

It's a contest you can't win. The Scorpio might not win it either...but you can be damn sure he's not going down without taking everyone else involved with him.

Same with Virgos.

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Thats why im sun in virgo, moon in Scorpio! Thats worst! Lol

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@trine
14 Years

Scorp moon on a water/earth sun- Scorp moon wins.

Scorp moon on a fire/air sun- Scorp sun wins.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Rabbit
I don't normally reveal my scorpy bits too much but...

You can't play games with a Scorpio. We see you doing it, we know you're doing it, and we're just plain better at it than you.

Why?

We already know all the games and have already played all those games ourself.

We've played so many games in fact, we know how other people react to those games. So when we know someone is running game on us, we know exactly how to counteract it.

It's a contest you can't win. The Scorpio might not win it either...but you can be damn sure he's not going down without taking everyone else involved with him.

I am not sure this is true when up against a moon in Scorpio.. I have never been out smarted by a Scorpio, it's more what I have allowed the games they would try to play. I tolerate it b/c I understand what they are doing. I have let go of some of my friendships when they keep the mind games going over being just upfront.

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