I recently went through a huge work project with a scorpoio man. I am a pisces woman. The project was to promote him and we were not as successful as we would have hoped. He seems to be coping fairly well and has seemingly been more upset that I was so sad because it did not work out for him. We became close during it, traveled together, talked and texted frequently each day. He told me a lot about his upbringing, family and goals, I told him some of mine also. We laugh together easily and I often just feel his eyes on me in that Scorpio way. It has become as intimate relationship, but without sex. We are both older. He has been married and divorced twice. I am very attracted to him and would like to have a relationship with him. Thing is, he has been seeing a woman for 8 years. they do not live together. According to his sister, she has twice given him ultimatiums to marry, last November, and then this October. He told me that the girlfriend is the one who wants to marry. Just brought it up maybe the second day we spent together. The only thing I have ever asked him is if he is in love with her. He said, evading my eyes, that he loves her. He has mentioned her since only once or twice to me, but with affection in his voice. Suddenly, yesterday, he told me that they are going to marry by the end of the year. His sister, who keeps supplying this info without me asking in any way, then called me and asked me to please go after him to steal him away from this other woman. The older sister and he are very close and she has no use for the girlfriend. I also get the feeling that the sister has no idea that he is planning to marry by the end of the year. Is this something I should pursue with him? Is he testing me to see if I care for him? Upset I could not successfully help him with the project? Or, is he using me to make the other woman jealous? Any insight appreciated.
