Cusp Scorpio-Libra female - I am really confused!

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aqua_guy
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Hello,
I am hoping that you Scorpio ladies out there can help me decode this girl's behaviors because I am really confused right now. (She was born on the cusp of Scorpio/Libra). I already from the Libran ladies what they think, I just want to know what you Scorpio ladies have to say about this 🙂. Thanks

So I know her for about 3 months. I know her through her friend. Her friend told me that I should asked her out, but I was a bit late and some other guy asked her out. They got a long well so I was just cut my loss and moved on. Well, she broke up with him a month ago (the only reason I knew was because she was all of a sudden seemed to be really interested in me). So I asked her to go play racket ball with me one Saturday. At first she told me that she had a lunch date with her girl friend and that she would be interested in playing the Saturday after Thanksgiving. I told her that would be too far ahead. She then said that her lunch date would end at 4 and we can go play after. She did not have a racket but she went and bought one that after noon! We had a great time and at the end she said that we should play again.
After Thanksgiving, she seemed pretty excited to see me again and asked me if I want to play again. I said we can play on Tuesday. When she came, she told me that she had a racket ball class that morning so she was kinda tired. We had a good time still. After the game, I asked if she would like to go skating with me on Friday that week. I told her that I would make some dinner. She said that would be fun.
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Anyway, Friday came, I surprised her with a very nice candle light dinner (I heard Libran like dine and wine). She seemed to enjoyed it a lot and we had a great time. Then we went skating. This is when I start noticed something was wrong. She seemed to have fun and smiled a lot, but refused to let me help her skate (i.e. hold her hand). It's not like we are holding hand and walking down the street. It's pretty normal for me to hold girls' hands to help them balance or to pull them. Her reason was that, in the past, she had fallen a few times whenever someone hold her hands. I took her home early because her skates were rubbing against her legs. Anyway, she told me that she had a great time and thanked me for taking her skating.
As we parted, she hugged me (that was like the first physical contact for the whole date). Before this, she was really playful, hitting me on the arm, etc?. Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to go play racket ball the week after. She said Friday (today) would be good.
Well I saw her on Sunday and she acted like she was not into me at all. Anyway, I called her last Wednesday to see if she wanted to go see a play with me. She did not answer the phone so I left a message. She texted me back ?Hey, do you need something?? I texted her saying that I wanted to go see a play wither her this Saturday. She said she was headed to Salt Lake. I said we can go see it on Friday, and she said ?I don't think that would be a good idea?. So I said ?Yea, that's a bad idea. Forget I ever asked. Are you still good for the game on Friday or is it bad too?? She said ?racket ball is good, 3:30? I said ?yeah, 3:30?. Well today she texted me ?Hey, I'm kinda tired today. I don't think I'd do very well at racket ball. Do you think we could find a time before you leave next week? Or are you too busy?? I was going to tell her in person that we can play whenever she feels better. When I stopped by her place, she was asleep (I am not sure she was or not, since her room door was closed and her roommate told me that she is asleep). So I texted her back ?I understand. I can play next week but it's best if you let me know when you are good and ready. It's no fun when you are not interested?
Okay, sorry for the long posting but I just want to provide as much details as possible so you Scorpio ladies can help me. At this point, I don't care whether I have a chance with her or not. I just want to know why she behaved in such a strange way.
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I did not talk to her since last Friday, after I texted her. She did not text back, so I was like ready to moving on (not playing game, just really wanted to move on). Well, guess what, I saw her today and she all smiley and friendly and commented me on my coat. She was like ?I really like you coat, did I tell you that?? (It's not the first time she saw me wearing it, but she never said she like it before). Later on, she apologized for canceling the game. Then she said she really want to play before I leave town. I told her I will be leaving on Tuesday. She said we can play on Monday. I said I have exam on that day (and so does she). I was not really care whether we play or not, honestly. Anyway, she seemed really enthusiastic about it so we finally agree that we will play at 4 after our finals are over.
What do you think of that?
Thanks!
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Alright...

I'm not a chick, but since they're all a bit silent I thought I would give you a Scorpio opinion nevertheless...

I thinkk she wants to be your friend. I'm not sure you wanna keep it to racket ball only if you wanna get closer to her. She'll become your racket ball partner at most... However, she didn't want to go to far either... the play deal.

Maybe you wanna check her out in a casual non-activity way, where conversation is in focus.
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It sounds to me like she's interested .. women hate to admit this and other females will probably not like me saying this .. but, we have mood swings due to pms. This is what it sounds like to me. She was into you, having fun, enjoying your company .. then for a couple days, she was in Her Little Mood (tired, grumpy, sleeping a lot) .. then when the PMS was over, she was back to being her sweet self, eager to spend more time with you, even complimenting you on your coat.

Men just have to deal with that because we can't help it .. it's nothing personal against the guy .. it's hormonal. Her sudden change, and the classic signs of tiredness/bitchiness .. she was just pms'ing.
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Update, lol:

So we did end up playing racquetball this afternoon. when we came, all the courts were full so I asked her if she want to wait. She was okay with it so we waited for like half an hour. During that time we talked a lot. I told her that I appologized if the whole "candle-light dinner" thing made her feel uncomfortable. I told her that I was not going to propose that night. I told her that I just wanted to surprise her and had fun, nothing else. I also to her that I knew she just broke up with her boyfriend so I would totally understand if she was uncomfortable. I told her that it was unsensitive on my part, although unintentionally. The whole time I told her that, she was just smiling and giggling. She then told me not to worry about it, that she had a great time. Although one part she said "I don't think you should do that to other girls", I am not sure what that mean, but based on her reactions, I think she appreciate that my trying to explain to her. She then showed me the scar on her leg from skating. I felt like a jerk! But the she said that she had fun and that she like them, they are her "battle scars", all of this was delivered with a big smile. I also brought up the play, told her that if she does not like that, then I appologize and I will never ask her to see a play with me again. She smiled and told me that she had a piano recital that night. She then asked me if I went skating that Saturday and I told her yes, I had a great time. She then proceeded to tell me what she did on Saturday, but it sounded like she tried to explain why she could not go out with me (I could be bias here)

Anway, after half an hour, we decide that we just gonna leave. She then asked me if I want to play tomorrow instead! She has two finals tomorrow and have to work until 4, but she is willing to play at 5 if I would like to! Anyway, a court was free by then so we ended up playing and having a good time, lol.

I am giving up trying to decode this girl! I am just gonna take it as it comes from now on, lol
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Yesterday evening, I facebooked her a link to a sudoku puzzle asking her if she could solve it and let me know how long it took her (She has a sudoku book and on her facebook as well). Well, no reply, whatsover (I know she saw it since she replied to her friends' posts)

This morning, I text her "good luck with finals". No response. If a girl I like text me that, I would at least reply "thanks". lol.