Do Scorpios ever take their ex's back?

I've been reading online that Scorpios NEVER take their ex's back is this true—??

Honestly nothing we had a small argument and he broke up with me out of anger, now he's just being stubborn. He still answers my calls , he's giving me mixed signals :s

It's been 2 weeks ands he still seems pretty angry dunno wat to do 😢

So I just have to leave him alone? How long should I leave him for b4 I contact him

They do if they really like you. They need time to gather themselves. I would suggest letting the scorpio know that you do care and that you still wabt them then back away and let him think. Loyalty is big to them so prove yourself if you really care about this guy. He may not answer righr away but dont take it as he doesn't want you right away he may be waiting to see if what you've said is true

They do if they really like you. They need time to gather themselves. I would suggest letting the scorpio know that you do care and that you still wabt them then back away and let him think. Loyalty is big to them so prove yourself if you really care about this guy. He may not answer righr away but dont take it as he doesn't want you right away he may be waiting to see if what you've said is true

Nessa stop being desperate. Just go away for a couple of weeks, allow him time to miss you (he will miss all the good things and forget the bad if enough time passes by).

If he doesn't contact you first then contact him and keep it short and DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE ARGUMENT/BREAK UP. Why? Because if enough time passes he'll seriously forgive and possibly forget why he even broke up with you in the first place.

When you call (that's if he doesn't reach out to you first) be pleasant and don't rehash all the BS that got you in this position in the first place. Keep it short, 5 minutes. Why 5 minutes? Hearing your happy, pleasant voice will compel him to move in your direction, he'll realize how much he truly misses you and he'll pick up again with you but you have to kill the desperation vibe and just be your loving, fun, genuine self.

If he see you being content he'll most likely try to mend things with you but you have to stop showing him you're hurting and desperate to fix it because giving a Scorpio male that much power over you will only make him want to stay in the very position he is in now so stop giving your power away and just go do something else, be happy and stop being a hot mess b/c it's not attractive.

So call him one last time, let him know you miss him and you hope for reconciliation, tell him you're going to give him some time and you hope to hear from him soon therefore he can expect that you won't be calling, begging anymore, he'll have enough time to get his thoughts together and he'll most likely reach out to you soon but whatever you do stick to not contacting him for at least a couple of weeks---no longer than 6 weeks should go by before you contact him again.

He has to see you being okay with his decision to leave/break up before he'll stop stonewalling you.

to you, the argument was small, but obviously it wasnt small to him. which is why he broke up with you. when a person starts off a response with honestly what comes out next is so far from being honest. in fact, this break up was in the making. no sane person just ups and breaks up with someone from a small argument. sounds like he had been adding up your tab for some time and that small argument broke the camel's back.

now, he is angry and stubburn. thats your opinion. to him, he is hurt and tired.

how many times has he done this? to say that a person is stubborn is a character reference. in that, its a repeated behavior.

I would say yes my scorpio friend still likes her ex and probably would get back together with her if it wasn't her that was stopping that.

The argument may have been small to you but obviously it upset him to the point of leaving you.

Would you elaborate as to what the argument was about?

If you give vague information you will receive vague answers.

I have to agree with others that the argument may be small to you but not to him. What pattern are you displaying constantly that create tension that lead into arguments? Are you jealous? Do you nag and nit pick every little thing? Are you asking him about other females? What were you arguing about?

I never take them back

I think I nag him too much but I've apologised so I dunno wat else to do

Posted by Nessalovesjosh
Honestly nothing we had a small argument and he broke up with me out of anger, now he's just being stubborn. He still answers my calls , he's giving me mixed signals :s

You are in the Scorpio forum. Most scorps don't dump for "small arguments", so either be honest and tell us what you did, so we can answer your question with more depth or continue with the victim mentality and get nowhere, by wasting time.

When we were arguing he was saying that he's too nice too me so maybe he feels I don't appreciate him or something?

Oh you're a nag, that definitely won't change, it's part of your personality but you can work on appreciating him more by just nodding while he talks to affirm your'e listening, say thank you more but to be honest men hate nagging ass females so the odds are stacked against you, he may not come back but if he does come back then try harder to be more aware of your behavior or the end result will be him dumping you again.

You lingering around him after he's broken up with you is a form of NAGGING. Instead of you accepting his decision to leav you instead choose to nag him about your feelings and nag him with unwanted calls.

Get the hint, it's over and just maybe once the nagging stops he'll stop thinking about avoiding you and at some point focus on the good aspects of your relationship and naturally come back your way.

My mom never did, she alwsys says that she never go backwards and she stayed true to that. Scorps I have known only did it if its a sex thing.

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I just know that I wouldn't want to constantly be walking on eggshells in fear of someone leaving me over my words. That's not any kind of way to have a relationship. *shrugs*

+1

That's why I don't think it's the nagging at all. Scorpios are not like other signs, little shit like that isn't enough to turn us off unless the feelings were superficial to begin with. Of all signs, we are the ones most likely to accept other people, nagging flaws or not.

If she did something drastic like cheat or lie habitually or steal from him, etc. then I can see him icing her out. Something as simple as nagging? Doubtful. It was something else.

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^This there's more to this. To put myself in his shoes. If I bounced over something like that. It would mean I have already checked out WAY b4 this happened. Leave him alone. Call or text once saying you miss him and care about him....AND THEN LEAVE HIM ALONE. He will have to chase you back there is nothing can do now !

Posted by Nessalovesjosh
When we were arguing he was saying that he's too nice too me so maybe he feels I don't appreciate him or something?

What caused the argument? I'm sure that^^ may have been an afterthought thrown in. What did he do for you that you did not acknowledge? None of this makes sense to me.

Hey aquarius girl, if I was you I would listen to "pp"s advice instead scorpio/non-scorpio females...No offense to anyone but females can't speak for men.

Posted by nov13thscorp
Hey aquarius girl, if I was you I would listen to "pp"s advice instead scorpio/non-scorpio females...No offense to anyone but females can't speak for men.

Well I'm going to, especially when it sounds like bullshit.

Posted by nov13thscorp
Hey aquarius girl, if I was you I would listen to "pp"s advice instead scorpio/non-scorpio females...No offense to anyone but females can't speak for men.

+ one

I may of done something but he won't tell me so I dunno how to fix it, I met up with him he was acting distant but he told me to keep his spare key so I'm confused

Chill and stay busy. Act like the breakup didn't phase you. Keep convos short and.be sure your ending the meetings first! If you see him around give him nods and smiles nothing more. Again Stay busy! ! Talk about all kinds of new shit your into if ytall meet again.


Send from my HTC. Excuse the spelling errors

Posted by oldskoolflavor
to qualify as a young scorp quality GF, it's like you have to be:

- 65% masochist, 35% sadistic (or the opposite depending on the scorpio)

ahahahahahah

I agree with some previous posters. Let him know you sincerely care and definately get that point across then sort of leaving him alone. He will come back if he knows you care even if it is only to say goodbye but at least you will know one way or the other.

Posted by aanchalp
I agree with the others,it takes more than just an argument for a scorpion to leave a person.So therz gotta b more.
Few quick questions for you:-
-In the 5 month relationship that you guys had, did he turn cold/silent/withdrawn ever?If yes,did he tell you why?
-How did he usually respond when you nagged him?
-What was last argument that supposedly triggered him leaving you?Please be specific.Would be great if you can post the argument verbatim.

Well one time he broke up with me because he said he don't trust me but he got back with me straight away and we didn't talk about it again. The morning we had the argument I asked him wat time he's getting me from work cow he picks me up everyday and he started going off on 1 saying he didn't say he's coming today bla bla bla. And that he's in a argumentative mood and I said I don't wanna argue then he just said he's done

And he said I shouldn't call him he only wants to text :s

Yea I guess so it just sucks waiting

"Well one time he broke up with me because he said he don't trust me but he got back with me straight away and we didn't talk about it again. The morning we had the argument I asked him wat time he's getting me from work cow he picks me up everyday and he started going off on 1 saying he didn't say he's coming today bla bla bla. And that he's in a argumentative mood and I said I don't wanna argue then he just said he's done"


Ok, now I see. So your concern with a Scorp taking an ex back really isn't the issue here. It's clear he has the habit of dumping you and then taking you back when he feels like it. Why in the world would you stay with someone who treats you this way? Do you enjoy being thrown away like trash repeatedly? How does it feel to sit and wait each time for him to have a use for you again? Resentment? Low self esteem? You can't really blame him 100% . 50% is you allowing this behavior to repeat from teaching him it's ok by taking him back. Time to think of yourself for a change and say enough don't you think? Cuz clearly the only person he's concerned about..is himself.

lol just tell him you found someone hotter to fuck who's better in bed. He'll be pissed. I've said to my ex before.

If my ex cheated NO, arguing that led to a breakup I'd be willing to reconcile, everyone argues but depends on the content of that argument

Ok I finally read through the responses cause I was too lazy b4 & I'll admit I've been guilty of being in this situation. I did this to my ex because I didn't wanna really be with him again. I did the push & pull scenario. I was playing mind games going on dates with others & then when I was bored or lonely pull him back in, always using the excuse I didn't trust him. I really didn't cause he put me through A LOT he's a Capricorn....The whole keep my key thing in my opinion is just to keep u hanging on. If a scorpio loves u there's no way they'd risk losing u,but if they're just keeping their options open & you're there as a backburner they'll give u a lil attention here & there. Scorpios are black & white either we give u 100% or we don't.

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Posted by Nessalovesjosh
I may of done something but he won't tell me so I dunno how to fix it, I met up with him he was acting distant but he told me to keep his spare key so I'm confused

Then he's not done with you yet. RELAX.

If a scorp was really done and ready to move on, he would NOT let you keep his key. Not a scorp alive that would let that fly, male or female.

This!

No matter what he says, this action tells you everything you need to know because NO WAY IN HELL OR HEAVEN would he leave it in your possession if he didn't still want you in his life - *no one* would, much less a Scorp. (Not even as a test because it would render him too vulnerable, that type of access.)

Just think of what a key to his door symbolizes, you'll be less confused. It might benefit you more at this juncture to think about what you truly want than thinking about what he is or isn't doing, for your own peace of mind.

Good luck to you.

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Your both right thanks for the advice!

All my friends keep telling me I should sleep with someone else to make me feel better but that's the last thing I want to do... I'm going out with some work mates this weekend but I don't want him to think I keep going out because I'm single and I wanna 'mingle'

He's not done. He will take you back... until the next time he decides to dump you. If this is the kind of relationship that you want then go for it.

It's weird cos 2weeks ago when he broke up with me I was suicidal But everyday I feel like I'm getting more used to it and in general men are more resilient after break ups then women, so won't we both just get used to not being with each other.... As for 'treetrunking' someone else to make myself feel better, that's not my thing il feel even worse than I did before and il feel like a dirty skank.. And I would probably feel like I'm cheating on him tbh which sounds stupid but yea

From dealing with the men, if they have the chance or opportunity and you didn't do anything real deceitful, or cheat then yes. Even if they don't get back together most of them are always trying to keep in contact, or find a way to string a woman along. I don't find Scorpios to be so unforgiving or hold grudges as it's been said to be. The men or the women. Even with betrayal they will still be curious, and may try to initiate contact and speak to their ex. They have a real problem of letting go. They don't forget any of their ex's, and often still hold onto feelings, or memories even if it will never be.

All this waiting around just sucks, I feel like I wanna talk to him I've see him twice since we split up, the first time he was normal and the second he was really distant, the last time wenspokemwas on Monday and i really just wanna text him but I'm gonna wait till he contacts me first which seems to be taking forever , maybe I'm just being impatient if I knew that 100% we were getting back together then waiting wouldn't feel so bad, but right now I feel like I'm waiting for something that may or may not happen

Posted by Nessalovesjosh
All this waiting around just sucks, I feel like I wanna talk to him I've see him twice since we split up, the first time he was normal and the second he was really distant, the last time wenspokemwas on Monday and i really just wanna text him but I'm gonna wait till he contacts me first which seems to be taking forever , maybe I'm just being impatient if I knew that 100% we were getting back together then waiting wouldn't feel so bad, but right now I feel like I'm waiting for something that may or may not happen

Waiting around for what? For him to return briefly and dump you again? Is there a shortage of real men around you?
C'mon..treat yourself better for a change. Shake this lizard off.

What letitbe said.
Go out and enjoy your life, and don't be so quick to let him in cause he will come back trying to see if he still can come in.

What if..after 6 years of relationship and had a kid..I leave him and hurt.him badly..2 weeks later.he's basically in another relationship. I had a bad reaction to the news and he all of a sudden says it's serious relationship..? When 2 days ago he was talking to me.. Is there any hope. It's been a month and 3 weeks..

Posted by Ariesgurl2610
What if..after 6 years of relationship and had a kid..I leave him and hurt.him badly..2 weeks later.he's basically in another relationship. I had a bad reaction to the news and he all of a sudden says it's serious relationship..? When 2 days ago he was talking to me.. Is there any hope. It's been a month and 3 weeks..

Why did you leave him?

this is true. I am a Scorpio and I have never been back to any of my ex's.. Because I feel so deeply I have to completely cut someone off to get over them and once that cut off happens its no coming back from it.

i do not take exes back. there is no good reason to. we're exes for a reason. i'd rather move forward instead of backward. i thank my aqua rising for being able to detach so easily.

Do you feel a Scorpio moon would be the same way?