Do you trust your gut feelings?

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Was there a time when your gut feeling was telling you something and you knew there was something coming?

As a scorp, I can be labelled as 'paranoid'. After this feeling, I act cautiously. I sometimes say things that are to come, which is seen as being over-emotional or negative, but I realize over time there WAS something wrong?

Do you think we have this strong gut feeling giving us a forewarning OR do you think WE ourselves cause the end result because of our paranoia?


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Posted by Hypnotic1o1
interesting.. the other day, someone told me people tend to take their toughts for (concrete) reality..
when in facts, thoughts are just.. thougts..

scorpios are very suspicious.. random event happens.. scorpio reads the situation..
then scorpio mistakes his/her perception of the situation for.. concrete reality..

I used to talk to this scorpio from my school.. when I asked her a question, most of the time, she would be on her guard and take time to answer..
I was thinking: wtf ?? don't you have a little trust in me ?

sometimes, random dude/girl gets tired of all the suspiciousness.. and decides to walk away..
scorpio thinks he had seen this coming..when in fact, he/she kind of pushed the person into making that decision..

or

it's like .. scorpios like to see how far they can go with the "suspicion test"..
if your guts are telling you someone is going to betray/hurt you, why don't you stay away from him/her ?
do y'all like.. danger ?

when random dude/chick decides to leave, scorpio can say:
see, I know I couldn't trust you.. I should have listened to my guts 😢😢

touching..
popodoom podoom..



i COMPLETELY AGREE with what you wrote Hypnotic. My Scorp did the same sort of things, kind of pushed me away and i think he know he did it...but i think i surprised him by coming back 🙂 we'll see how things work out....i'm really hoping for the best 🙂
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Thank you all... 🙂


I also agree with hypnotic that scorpios can misread into things, perhaps over-analyze and annoy people with our so called 'negativity'. However it turns out that my suspicion was somewhat just. It was a 50/50 conclusion. I think I over-read into an event, but I was very accurate that there was something wrong.

For now, only time will tell...



hey... hugs, eden 🙂

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To All Scorpios,

WoW... all this time I had doubted myself that I was not intuitive anymore. I thought my life experience started getting in my way, that I started comparing past events with my recent relations. Regardless what kind of contact you have, your gut feeling tells you what is to come. This last incident was quite the eye opener for me. Again.

NO. It is not our negativity... It is other people's negativity we catch on
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I always used to trust my feelings, Uni. But over the years, you get to hear so much criticsm of how 'sensitive' I am; how I make a mountain out of a molehill, and that I am impatient. This last incidence proofs to me, whatever my initial feeling about a person is, that is what will end up to become.


With my first serious relation, I stayed away from that guy (my so-called friend), thinking he was emotionally unavailable. After 2 years of him intensely flirting with me, I gave in. I got hurt in the end. He turned out to be emotionally unavailable.


The second (the recup guy), I felt he will cheat on me. I never took him seriously anyway, but we had a relation and he ended up cheating on me. I never told him my suspicion.. even when breaking up, he didnt know why I left him. I just told him that he is not trustworthy and I walked out.


This last guy fell in love with me instantly. That's what he told. I was always suspicious of his sudden love to me. Once I had a falling apart with him for he acted like a coward. He convinced me that he experienced technical difficulties. I believed him. In the end, he acted like a coward. I now doubt his proclaimed love that it was rather in his head then in his heart.