Do Scorps fall hard & fast

I met a Scorpio a couple of weeks back at the bar. We talked for a couple of hours touching on all sorts of subjects. We exchanged phone numbers. He texted me the next morning "good morning sunshine" and then called a few hrs later to ask me out. I had plans so I politely declined. My plans fell through and I was bored so I gave him a call and let him know that we could meet for a drink or something if he wanted. He had plans at that point. HOWEVER, he broke away from his friends after a couple of hrs to come and meet up with me. It was a short interlude and he was going to head back over to his buddies house.

Sooo... I see him out a couple of nights back. I happened to be talking to a few of the guys in the bar. My girlfriend comes in (whom he had never met) and realizing we were friends pulled her aside and said he was upset about me interacting with other guys (I was a little tipsy and rather flirtatious). He told my girlfriend that we had been dating - recall, we only met out once previously after our initial encounter. My girlfriend and I share almost everything, but I really don't talk in depth about these things (she's Aries and talks way more than me, about her thoughts, feelings, everything - she's even acknowledged that I don't 'share' the way she does). I had discussed Mr. Scorpio in passing with her, but not in great depth, so it came as a surprise to her that "we were dating" - it came as a surprise to me too.

So, moving forward, Mr. Scorpio expressed his interest in ME to my girlfriend and said that he was looking for someone he could spend his life with. He asked her if she thought he was "barking up the wrong tree". My girlfriend simply told him I was good hearted and that I recently ended a 4 yr relationship.

I spoke with Mr. Scorpio on the phone briefly last night (I apologized for the prior evening which he seemed to greatly appreciate). He said that we need to sit down and talk and see where we are going. I agreed to meet him over the weekend, but, I'm feeling very uncomfortable with such a topic. I just met the man a few weeks back - we've hardly even spoke on the phone.

So, is this typical Scorpio behavior? (I don't know is moon)

I dont think he has fallen hard yet, but I personally experienced the effects of a CAP man on me and I can understand where he is coming from. I am Scorpio. His intentions for you sound serious to me. For me it takes 2 weeks to know if I am going to fall in love with someone or not. The rest depends on your life style compatibility, such as family background and education.

Best wishes.

He did tell me he felt an immediate magnetism...

In any case, I think I'll circumvent the whole where we stand and where we are going conversation by letting him know that given the fact that I just got out of a 4 yr relationship I am not ready to jump right into another one.

Of course, it really comes down to I want to be the one controlling the pace!

Hi

Posted by snow__child
But you can't control the pace, he won't let you.

Btw, I think it sounds really arrogant when people give that "I am not ready to jump into anything"-speach after they??ve just met you. What makes you think he's all that into YOU? Just because he says he likes you now doesn't mean he will still like you tomorrow. You??d just be making a fool out of yourself.

He wants to discuss where 'our relationship' is going... I don't think it's arrogant at all, it's implying taking things slow and it's better than a flat "I don't know".

Posted by XFoosMe
but when someone falls fast like that you have to wonder if its got more to do with the idea of you than you yourself.

exactly!

There was a definite spark with Mr. Pisces... and it was mutual (given the fact that he saved my phone number in his phone without asking me for it based on some contact info I had left at his store with regards to an order). Scorp is good looking and all, but it wasn't a mutual spark. He didn't call me so that we could have 'that discussion' he seemed so intent on having. I'm fine with that, I really didn't want to go there.

Given the fact Mr. Pisces was calling almost daily and not asking me out gave me the sense that he just wasn't that into me - maybe I was just a means of passing the time. He did take me to lunch today as I posted elsewhere. When he brought me back home, I told him that I had been ready to give up on him - maybe he sensed that and that is why he made the effort to put everything aside in his busy schedule and take me out. Then again, it could be the fact I told him last night about my profile on a dating website (it came out of him talking about his profile being on there - not me trying to see how he would respond as I have a tendency to do).

I don't think you'll have to worry much about Scorpio when he finds out about the "others".

We don't play that game. 😄

More then 3 people and we start to label.

We are judgemental but at least we can admit it.

😉 😛

Yes I do. Yes yes yes I do. 🙂

I don't think I can hide my jealousy well at all. I feel it oozing out of my every pore and boy do I hate that. It makes me seeth all the more at myself and my competition.

But with a ring on my finger and only a month to go before I'm Mrs. Aries I find it a little more amusing then before..... a little more anyway 😉

Scorpio moon Tash. It happens. I hate the feeling though. It makes me feel ashamed but sick at the same time for having to watch any thing that ruffles my feathers.

I'd rather not have to watch that kinda stuff either. I would have stuck around but I'd have been in a BAD mood for days after that.

LOL Arch. It's the most unromantic story EVER!!! No wine and candlelite dinners or even a bended knee. He just kinda grunted to get my attention while we were watching tv and handed me the ring. I was just looking at him like....... um what the hell dude? LOL
"well do ya wanna get married or what?" Was basically what he said. LOL I made him sweat for awhile. I was kinda surprised because he hadn't been back from Iraq for very long and we weren't even officially dating really.
We've been on and off for about 3 years now with several breaks and we've both even dated inbetween but we somehow find our way back to each other. This time it's solid for a little over a year and engaged.

I'm nervous 😢 Sometimes it's really really good but when we fight......... WW3!! It's very passionate ALL the time.... good and bad. IT's never going to be boring that's for sure!!

Thanks for the congrats~!! 🙂

He was being an asshole but he was trying to protect me. He's a soldier and he got deployed alot due to what his job in the army is. He thought breaking things off with me while he was gone would make it easier for me to deal with.... like I wouldnt worry about him as much and he wanted me to have a life while I was gone. He was silly like that but he was being protective.

His last tour he lost 7 guys over there and he said it made him think about the things in life that he took for granted me being one of them. So.... he decided if he made it home he was going to take a shot and hope I wasn't mad enough at him to say no. Of course I wasn't mad.......that much 😛

Posted by Gingerscorp
He was being an asshole but he was trying to protect me. He's a soldier and he got deployed alot due to what his job in the army is. He thought breaking things off with me while he was gone would make it easier for me to deal with.... like I wouldnt worry about him as much and he wanted me to have a life while I was gone. He was silly like that but he was being protective.

His last tour he lost 7 guys over there and he said it made him think about the things in life that he took for granted me being one of them. So.... he decided if he made it home he was going to take a shot and hope I wasn't mad enough at him to say no. Of course I wasn't mad.......that much 😛

Red, that's a story for the books 🙂

Congratulations 🙂 Make sure to keep a section in the chapel for the DXP freaks. LOL can you imagine the lot of us congregated at the ceremony? Make sure you have some cute bridesmaids in your wedding party for some of us 😛

Only if your really somethin🙂

Winter... Seriously I know. It was pretty funny but I was about ready to crap my pants!! Talk about a surprise. Well.... he is an Aries I guess 😛
He now says he's REALLY sorry for doing it like that and if I wanted he'd do it right.

NAH!! That is probably the most unique way to propose that I've ever heard. It's MY story. And I love it 🙂 At least he didn't put my ring in some bread. Knowing my clutzy ass... I'd have choked on it or swallowed it and then I'd have to have waited on it to pass 😛 Ewwwwwww....

VH... Yeah it's a great story. He's a really good man. It's so odd and wonderful how he tries to put everyone else's happiness ahead of himself and is still the most egotistical arrogant man I've met. It's a perplexing combo. 🙂
A DXP wedding (a real one 😉 ) Wow. That would be wild.

Honorary Bridesmaids...
Xtina
Fiesty (Gingers in da house!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Ewe
Saywha?
Winterborn 😉 For that extra spice
*ponders* I wonder how Bling would look in a dress

My ringbearer is PP 🙂

Thanks ..................

tease 😄

Sorry Rumi!!
Of course you too. 🙂 And you have to keep VH in line 😉

I've already thought of you DA.
With both our Irish roots and your way with words you could conduct the cerimony.... Guiness in hand and all. 🙂

ACK, my thread has been hi-jacked! 😉

Congrats GS... wish you the best!

I've only fallen in love once in my life, and I am 42. I have twitterpated millions of times.

Wow. That's a smoking hot wedding party!

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Posted by Gingerscorp
More then 3 people and we start to label.

We are judgemental but at least we can admit it.

😉 😛

clear and right to the point.
I'm crazy about ya Ginge. 😉

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Well......... I've been hanging out with an Aries for too long 😉

Sorry for the hijacking lildoll. 😢 I'm just a happy bride to be.

Posted by Gingerscorp
Sorry for the hijacking lildoll. 😢 I'm just a happy bride to be.

Red, you're going to make a STUNNING bride. You'll have to share some pictures with us clowns in the cheap seats 😛

Aw geez *blush* thanks. 🙂 I will be sharing our pics for anyone who wants to see them.

It's going to be really low key.... just like I like it. It's about us not about the flowers or the cake... it's all about us and my breathtaking dress 😛

It's a really beautiful dress. 🙂

My dress. Sorry it's just a link 😢 But yep! That's it 🙂 I'm so excited for him to see me in it.

http://www.divinasposaamericas.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=1&pos=7

Thank ya! 😄 It's a little sexier then normal wedding dresses but I think I kept it sexy/classy at the same time. It's perfect. Yes... amazing
The first time I saw it I knew it was mine.

We SO highjacked this thread again. 😛

Thanks Winterborn 🙂 That's much better then a link.
I seriously glow every time I even look at that dress 🙂 I love it.

Absolutely gorgeous!

(and I don't mind the hi-jacking... it wouldn't be DXP if it wasn't hi-jacked 🙂 )

LOL er thanks.
Well chica is a model and I'm not but I look pretty good in it if I do say so myself. 😛 I've been busting my ass at the gym for it.

Silly Aries boys. Oh well I'm use to that blunt honesty🙂

But still I'm giving you a wedgie for that AA 😄

*Assisting Ginger in giving AA a wedgie*

You will knock his socks of in that dress woman!

He's probably enjoying his wedgie. It's the closest a girl has ever been to his naughty bits. 😛

Thanks lildol;🙂

hmmm.....gorgeous dress for a gorgeous bride!

you will look exquisite ginger (better than the model for sure)

I'm ornery like that 😄 😉

Red...

Absolutely beautiful dress. Your Aries will be proud.