xomelindabelle
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Don't berate me for another Scorp question lol :P
Posted by seraphHaha very true indeed! I need to relinquish my pride a bit more. I just don't ever want to seem annoying to people. So I seldom text unless you text me first. It's bad lol
Why not just go ahead and text, and they can respond when/how they're ready, and you can go from there.
It's just a text. You aren't trying to invade Poland.
Posted by FrostAndBiteI am, I just let go of my worry and sent him a text; was breezy and direct and said what I wanted to. So we'll see how that works.
a Scorpio just wants you to be authentic. Don't play by any rules. Just be.
Posted by seraphlol I absolutely do. I make things a lot harder than they need to be lol my indecisiveness and second-guessing of myself gets in the way too much. I need to learn to let shit go.Posted by xomelindabelleI'll bet you find your own indecision about way more annoyingPosted by seraphHaha very true indeed! I need to relinquish my pride a bit more. I just don't ever want to seem annoying to people. So I seldom text unless you text me first. It's bad lol
Why not just go ahead and text, and they can respond when/how they're ready, and you can go from there.
It's just a text. You aren't trying to invade Poland.
than what you only think others might feel. 😉click to expand
^ The indecisiveness comes from my Libran moon and ascendant.
Posted by seraphI did say MY Libran moon, not yours 😛 lolPosted by xomelindabelleSpeak fer yerself. 😄
^ The indecisiveness comes from my Libran moon and ascendant.click to expand
Posted by Rabbit😆Posted by seraphWho told you about Poland?
Why not just go ahead and text, and they can respond when/how they're ready, and you can go from there.
It's just a text. You aren't trying to invade Poland.
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Frankly xomb, I do not have one preferred method of communication. In most cases, I rather use whatever means that is efficient or convenient to the situation or individual. Although the foundational rule stands, you are free to contact me as much as you would like. However, unless if you are an important or integral core part of my life, do not expect immediate or constant attentive responses. If you guilt trip me or victimise yourself in such instances, hoping to force a response from me. Then you will be met with further silence, at worst, permanent silence.
a. if I like you its no trouble
b. I am lazy and forgetful... its rude, but it just is what it is...
c. I sometimes get antsy at the thought of having to make small talk, but I actually love talking to you once I get there
4. I like light, breezy, funny and weird (in any order)
5. I like to feel important and needed (hehe! grandiose fixed signs...)
6. I can blow things out of proportion and feel like I am always the one getting in touch when it might not actually be the case. then I get resentful. its silly.
my 5c worth 😄
b. I am lazy and forgetful... its rude, but it just is what it is...
c. I sometimes get antsy at the thought of having to make small talk, but I actually love talking to you once I get there
4. I like light, breezy, funny and weird (in any order)
5. I like to feel important and needed (hehe! grandiose fixed signs...)
6. I can blow things out of proportion and feel like I am always the one getting in touch when it might not actually be the case. then I get resentful. its silly.
my 5c worth 😄
Posted by TheLadyScorpioFair enough, makes sense. I've never guilted anyone, let alone a Scorp into responding to me. That's just downright needy and irritating, I'd never want to project that onto anyone. Especially a Scorp. I'm almost TOO stubborn to text him first majority of the time. Even though he has told me to contact him 'whenever'. Sometimes I wonder if he really even means that. He tends to keep things EXTREMELY light with people, so it could just be friendly talk.
Frankly xomb, I do not have one preferred method of communication. In most cases, I rather use whatever means that is efficient or convenient to the situation or individual. Although the foundational rule stands, you are free to contact me as much as you would like. However, unless if you are an important or integral core part of my life, do not expect immediate or constant attentive responses. If you guilt trip me or victimise yourself in such instances, hoping to force a response from me. Then you will be met with further silence, at worst, permanent silence.
Anyway I have texted first at times, but I feel like I open myself up to being too vulnerable when doing so. Too much drama for just one little text lol
So I've let it go. He claims to want me to text him and miss me consistently, and yet he makes no actual moves or effort to spend time with me, in all the years he's known me. He knows where to find me, hence his probable loss of interest. And I've seen him go after things and people he wants with insane diligence. And in this case, it's not me. Practically not even friendship-wise, because he makes true effort with certain friends, I've seen it. So I'm cutting my losses. If he was interested in something more than attention when he's lonely, he'd make that clear. He has his people, I'm just not one of them. I've accepted that.
Posted by FrostAndBite+1 ... yep
a Scorpio just wants you to be authentic. Don't play by any rules. Just be.
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