@Octoberbaby91
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Could you give up sex?
Can Scorpios and Others Give Up Sex for Religious Reasons
Giving up sex for religious or personal reasons can be challenging but is possible with strong commitment and support. Many people find that celibacy enhances their spiritual growth and personal clarity. The difficulty varies based on individual beliefs and experiences, and some celebrities and individuals successfully maintain celibacy for faith or personal growth.
good question. when i was younger, sex was the number one important thing in my relationships. it was bad... not the sex but my cravings for it. i couldnt wait to jump my partner's bones. if could have sex every day, all day, i would have. but as i got older, it became less of a need as i discovered more important things in life. sex without love became empty. i felt dirty and guilty for being such a nymph, so i stopped dating and having sex. i haven't had sex for about 4 years now. i am seeking my spiritual path instead of being guided by desire. i agree with that couple's choice. the world is oversexed anyway. nothing is wrong with waiting.
i may never marry, and if i never have sex again, i would be fine with that. im searching for enlightenment. odd for a scorpio to say, i know.
It's tough definitely I do want to see if we are compatible sexually it is a soul bonding experience. I didn't make up mind to wait till marriage but I have been thinking about just being in the relationship for a solid year or when it gets serious even if we end up being engage I need to see how it turns out before we say I do. Sexual sufferance would be the worst if the sex is boring and I'm not satisfied.
Posted by LadyYin
good question. when i was younger, sex was the number one important thing in my relationships. it was bad... not the sex but my cravings for it. i couldnt wait to jump my partner's bones. if could have sex every day, all day, i would have. but as i got older, it became less of a need as i discovered more important things in life. sex without love became empty. i felt dirty and guilty for being such a nymph, so i stopped dating and having sex. i haven't had sex for about 4 years now. i am seeking my spiritual path instead of being guided by desire. i agree with that couple's choice. the world is oversexed anyway. nothing is wrong with waiting.i may never marry, and if i never have sex again, i would be fine with that. im searching for enlightenment. odd for a scorpio to say, i know.
I stopped because of the same I felt dirty and needed to be enlighten more. I pray daily and I want a man of God just like that to lead me in the right direction. 4 years oh my that sounds like a heavy masturbation period. I am curious to know if you masturbated since you're not having sex. It is odd and it can become an obsession. I have even felt a strong energy with the guy I was seeing when we had sex a lot it almost felt like a strong magnetic force that was binding us together and it got stronger and stronger. I remember one time he walked behind me and the energy felt so strong he asked me a question and I couldn't even answer. Energy is very well and I still wondered what that meant. Anyway yeah it is hard but it gets easier and I stay busy so that helps.
That's what I'm doing not having casual sex idk about holding out till marriage yet I need to test the waters before I say I do but I will not be shacking up or having a man baby that is not my husband. I'm a relationship girl I could never do casual I tried after a rough break up I was with the guy for 3 years and the relationship drain me. I thought I could do casual but I don't think it was casual since if you slept with the same guy for 2 years lol
If you have a deep enough connection with someone sex doesn't matter, been in a sexless relationship before. Wasn't all that bad actually.
No.
I deserve to have sex.
What I don't deserve is how people equate women's sexuality to something wrong or horrible and in turn create an environment where women are shamed out of their sexualit or worse: have it used against them. What I don't deserve is the all too common one-sided sex that focuses on a man's pleasure and ignores women's all together.
Sex is natural. Abstinence is not.
Good for you though. I really hope it works out for you!
. I am curious to know if you masturbated since you're not having sex..
im not going to lie. no one is perfect. i did masturbate more than a few times until i learned how to turn my mind off from desire. after that, no more. i was and still am determined not to be ruled by sex or lustful feelings. do i still get horny? yes, but i engage myself in other things so i dont fall into temptation. it does get easier over time.
I deserve to have sex.
What I don't deserve is how people equate women's sexuality to something wrong or horrible and in turn create an environment where women are shamed out of their sexualit or worse: have it used against them. What I don't deserve is the all too common one-sided sex that focuses on a man's pleasure and ignores women's all together.
Sex is natural. Abstinence is not.
Good for you though. I really hope it works out for you!
i abused sex. abusing something that is meant to be natural, good, and pure turns on the guilt. i know i was not right so i had to fix that. you just don't know how much i had sex on the mind. i literally thought about it and engaged in it constantly. it was beginning to rule my life. i am not trying to bad mouth sex. the problem was me. i'd rather step back and abstain than to keep going to bed and letting sex rule me. i had to learn to do better. i hope you understand, madam.
I deserve to have sex.
What I don't deserve is how people equate women's sexuality to something wrong or horrible and in turn create an environment where women are shamed out of their sexualit or worse: have it used against them. What I don't deserve is the all too common one-sided sex that focuses on a man's pleasure and ignores women's all together.
Sex is natural. Abstinence is not.
Good for you though. I really hope it works out for you!
Hell yes to this. I just had sex last night.
@LadyYin I understand. Having sexual urges is a part of being human I just think it's better to save yourself for someone who actually invest in me and want a deeper bond beyond sex.
@magneta_azura I see your perspective yes it is a part of our nature but it is important to control these desires. My focus is on self control rather than abstinence more than anything. Too many men with false motives all for a 15-20 minute temporary pleasure and just want to dispose a woman like they are trash. I just find it better to fall inlove with person heart and mind before becoming physcial. Not everyone deserves that precious part of you it is important for women to treat it like a jewel that is hidden beneath the deep ocean rare and hard to find. Until then I will refrain from sex until I get that real bonding expierence. I want a man of God to lead me and show me the way to true abundance.
. I am curious to know if you masturbated since you're not having sex..
im not going to lie. no one is perfect. i did masturbate more than a few times until i learned how to turn my mind off from desire. after that, no more. i was and still am determined not to be ruled by sex or lustful feelings. do i still get horny? yes, but i engage myself in other things so i dont fall into temptation. it does get easier over time.
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Women fail to understand the repercussions of being an easy lay. I'm not talking about STD's or unplanned pregnancy; I'm talking about how they expect to be taken seriously as relationship material once they've decided they've had enough fun and want to settle down.
Any man looking for a relationship will kick you the curb when he finds out you used to be the town bicycle.
I have zero respect for men or women who do it. If you don't respect yourself then why should I?
Women fail to understand the repercussions of being an easy lay. I'm not talking about STD's or unplanned pregnancy; I'm talking about how they expect to be taken seriously as relationship material once they've decided they've had enough fun and want to settle down.
Any man looking for a relationship will kick you the curb when he finds out you used to be the town bicycle.
your rant doesnt apply to me. i've always been a lesbian. so when i would have sex, it would be with women only. so any man looking for a relationship is auto cancelled out. i've always had steady partners. no town bicycle here. but thanks for trying with your 'women's theory.' lol.
I deserve to have sex.
What I don't deserve is how people equate women's sexuality to something wrong or horrible and in turn create an environment where women are shamed out of their sexualit or worse: have it used against them. What I don't deserve is the all too common one-sided sex that focuses on a man's pleasure and ignores women's all together.
Sex is natural. Abstinence is not.
Good for you though. I really hope it works out for you!
Apologies to to you, LadyYin. I keep forgetting the quote button is the top of a persons post, not the bottom; ended up quoting the wrong user.
I was replying to MagentaAzure. I
I on the other hand can show a great degree of self-control am rather disgusted by the notion that being a male that I'm supposed to want to screw anything that moves.
Only time I brought an easy woman home was when I trolled the shit out of my buddies ex who cheated on him numerous times. She thought I'd throw her nasty ass the D, so I invited her over one night. She slept on the floor for three nights in a row (yes she stuck around that long thinking I was going fuck her), on the third night she attempted to climb into my bed and got pushed back onto the floor, at which point I went to sleep. Woke up at 2am and played some video games with the TV blaring just to show her not all guys will pay attention to her and give her what she wants, then I went back to sleep. Woke up at 5:30, told her to pack her shit and dropped her skank ass off in front of 711 in the middle of the ghetto.
Best weekend ever!
oh, ok, hemi. i understand. my apologies. 🙂
Posted by Hemispheres
I on the other hand can show a great degree of self-control am rather disgusted by the notion that being a male that I'm supposed to want to screw anything that moves.Only time I brought an easy woman home was when I trolled the shit out of my buddies ex who cheated on him numerous times. She thought I'd throw her nasty ass the D, so I invited her over one night. She slept on the floor for three nights in a row (yes she stuck around that long thinking I was going fuck her), on the third night she attempted to climb into my bed and got pushed back onto the floor, at which point I went to sleep. Woke up at 2am and played some video games with the TV blaring just to show her not all guys will pay attention to her and give her what she wants, then I went back to sleep. Woke up at 5:30, told her to pack her shit and dropped her skank ass off in front of 711 in the middle of the ghetto.
Best weekend ever!
ahahahahashshahaha funniest thing I ever read 😄
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Eesh excuse my rambling, it's hard to revise what I wrote on my phone.
If you watch the video Russell Wilson told Ciara to do it God way and not have sex she didn't bring it up first her boyfriend did. I think he is the perfect match for her and plus he is handsome. Idk what she was thinking with Future he cheated on her and got her pregnant when they were engaged she almost married him. I never saw them together forever and plus he had 4 baby mamas prior so she should have saw that coming. I think he is leading Ciara in the right direction being a sex symbol and all she needs him to keep her in the right direction. 🙂
She insisted on sleeping on the floor. I offered her the spare bedroom but her inner skank needed to be in the same room as a dude.
Posted by Hemispheres
I on the other hand can show a great degree of self-control am rather disgusted by the notion that being a male that I'm supposed to want to screw anything that moves.Only time I brought an easy woman home was when I trolled the shit out of my buddies ex who cheated on him numerous times. She thought I'd throw her nasty ass the D, so I invited her over one night. She slept on the floor for three nights in a row (yes she stuck around that long thinking I was going fuck her), on the third night she attempted to climb into my bed and got pushed back onto the floor, at which point I went to sleep. Woke up at 2am and played some video games with the TV blaring just to show her not all guys will pay attention to her and give her what she wants, then I went back to sleep. Woke up at 5:30, told her to pack her shit and dropped her skank ass off in front of 711 in the middle of the ghetto.
Best weekend ever!
That is really strange behavior on your part and you seem to be pretty proud of it. Comes off like a woman hater who kills hookers and drops them off in a ditch to teach them a lesson.
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Strange behavior, how? I don't hate women at all, I only respect those who respect themselves as I stated. She almost destroyed my best friend and tried jumping off onto me so I handle it.
it's a psychological thing anyone can choose to stop but what's you have started something it can become an addiction and you really have to reprogram your mind.
It was always a personal choice I rarely take advice I'm too stubborn lol but I have watching testimonys about waiting and I think I will for myself and for God not any other reason but that. 🙂
Posted by busyeyes88
Hemispheres are you a taurus?
Yes. Taurus Sun, Gemini Moon, Pisces Rising.
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Scorpios are the ruler of sex and power. I just saw this powerful message of a NFL player dating singer Ciara. Basically he said they are following God and not having sex in their relationship because they are not married. Could you give up sex for religion reasons? I recently became celibate a few months ago and getting into religion more. It is very hard I didn't realize how sex played a very big part in my relationships until recently. Could you scorps give it up? Ciara is also a Scorpio and Russell Wilson is a sag. She is a sex symbol so I wonder how hard it is for her to do this.I would like to hear your thoughts 🙂
My answer is yes I could if that were my man's wishes. Loyalty is my #1 tribute to men I have a relationship with, if this was his wish, I'd respect it.
I have a high sex drive, but I can take are of it myself. I don't understand the shame in masturbation these days. Then again the media has managed to convince the gullible masses that if a person doesn't act on their urges and have sex on a regular basis they're either mentally ill or a basement dweller. If it isn't that then it's a proven fact that if a man doesn't have sex regularly he will turn into a serial killer, if a women doesn't have sex regularly she'll turn elderly woman who crochets and knits out of boredom. /endsarcasm. People are proving time and time again they are weak individuals with no will power.
Have a cigarette craving? Well that's a perfect healthy thing, the only reasonable thing to do is to smoke a cigarette.
Having alcohol cravings? Well that can't wait at all, go grab a brewski on your lunch break and hope you don't clock back in smelling of booze.
Having sexual cravings? We don't want you to feel ashamed of your urges, go screw a stranger, It's great fun!
As far as masturbation goes, It's great. I still haven't found a woman who can make my toes curl like I can.
^This guy just made me lol.
Lmfao. Whatever works. The thing that cracks me up is how offended women get when you turn them down for a casual romp. Had a friend text me a few nights ago and drop hints at being horny and wanting me to come over. I carried on a casual conversation and played completely oblivious. Haven't heard or seen from her since.
Sad part is that's the vibe I'm getting.
Naw, Just the usual double standards.
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Scorpios are the ruler of sex and power. I just saw this powerful message of a NFL player dating singer Ciara. Basically he said they are following God and not having sex in their relationship because they are not married. Could you give up sex for religion reasons? I recently became celibate a few months ago and getting into religion more. It is very hard I didn't realize how sex played a very big part in my relationships until recently. Could you scorps give it up? Ciara is also a Scorpio and Russell Wilson is a sag. She is a sex symbol so I wonder how hard it is for her to do this.
I would like to hear your thoughts 🙂