F Pisces & M Scorpio- dive in or run away?!?!

Hello- this is my first time posting on this site, but I'm hoping to gain some insight on the Scorpio mindset when it comes to relationships and love. I'm a 32 yr old female Pisces. The guy I'm seeing is a 30 yr old Scorpio male. We've been dating exclusively for almost 5 months now and overall it has been incredible. I really don't want to screw this one up, as cheesy and cliche as it sounds, I feel like maybe he is the one! Some background first: we both have successful careers so we really only hang out 2-3 times a week at the most. Our lives have meshed very well- he has met and enjoys being around my friends and vice versa. I have met his brother and parents once (they live a few hours away). He has met several of my siblings but not my parents....yet. We have a lot of fun together, the sex keeps getting better, and I'm about to explode holding my feeling inside!

These are my observations thus far. He is not verbally communicative at all when it comes to "relationship" talk. I feel like he expresses his feelings through physical intimacy- is this a common thing with Scorpios? I love this about him b/c I am very physical as well. There is lots of hand holding, cuddling, hugging, kissing, etc. But sometimes a woman needs to hear what her man thinks about her and where the relationship is going. He has never said "I love you"....although on one drunken evening I slipped and said I was "falling for him". He responded well, thought it was sweet and tried to get me to repeat what I had said the next morning (of course I clammed up and wouldn't say it again!). We don't talk about the future although he has said he wants to have children, and many of his friends are married and settled down. I feel like we're headed in that direction, but again nothing has ever been discussed along these lines.

Being at the 5 month point, do I just continue to let things progress organically, or do I press him to open up? I have to admit, I haven't exactly been open myself. I have had my heartbroken in the last few years and am somewhat hesitant to reveal to him how I really feel for fear that he isn't on the same page. But I ain't getting any younger and I don't want to spend another 5 months with him if he's not feeling it! Should I bite the bullet and tell him how I feel or do Scorpios like to take the lead? Do you think he's feeling the same things but doesn't want to scare me away? Advice please!!

Seavixen- my gut is not to press him either. I actually dated another Scorpio male a few years back in 2007 and it did not end well. The first 6 months were great, but when I wanted more out of him and tried to get him to open up, he withdrew completely. The next 6 months of that relationship sucked, and I believe it was all because of my insecurities and impatience! I do not want to repeat history on this one so I will try my best to be patient and let things just happen.

Why do you have to have the words?


Rather than having to hear the words, in your situation, I would draw him closer and see how he handles it. Maybe re-arrange schedule so that time spent is every day .. how is that handled.




For sure .... Scorpios are about control. And it's not in maintaining control, rather obtaining. So, the moment one realizes they've obtained your obediance and you are now proclaiming you're bound to them ... they are off looking for the next person to whom they can obtain emotional control.


Nature of the beast.

P-Angel,

Have you ever been in a serious relationship with a scorpio man?