FAULT FINDING

WHY ARE PEOPLE ALWAYS FINDING FAULT WITH OTHERS INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR THE GOOD IN THEM?? EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE ALL BEEN DONE WRONG AT ONE POINT IN OUR LIVES, THERE COMES A TIME WE SHOULD JUST LET GO OF RESENTMENTS AND MOVE ON!!!!!!!!

Tell that to my scorpio bf 😢

"I think you'll find these people are generally Virgo's lol."

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

I concur. 🙂

I concur with Sea Siren 110% - definitely the virgos:-)!!!

They are serial criticizers......and if you point this out to them....their retort as always is.....If I didn't really care or bother about you, I wouldn't bother telling you!!!

My retort as usual being aquarius is...if you really care or are bothered about me.... you wouldn't hurt me with your continual fault-finding!!!!!

But criticize them - cuh! and it's another story........can't handle it - though they dole it out themselves:-)

Oh well, never the Twain shall meet.....................

A x

The best thing to do with a Virgo is to change the subject.

Hello my wee scotty lass.....Sweet P - so sorry for that oversight:-) - confusion usually ensues when I enter the arena!!!!:-)

Life is tension-filled just at the moment........if you read the virgo-board, you will see where I am trying to "disengage" from Mr. Virgo but not really going to plan....he wants explanation after explanation after explanation as to why I want out.....(given that he loves me and I love him!! as he keeps telling me!! - suggested that we need to go away together to Spain or Portugal for a week on our own to sort things out!!).....he rang 3 times last nite but I didn't answer!!!..........anyway, that's Mr. V. 4u......I've no other dalliances to tell of late......how bout you sweety?

A x

Alana...
They are serial criticizers......PLEASE ADD CANCERS TO THAT LIST..
and they don't like being on the receiving end..because it hurts their feelings...😢(
sofia

Oh Parallex......you know me too well by now Mister:-)!!!

Hotcbns....Cancers really—I know two - one is the eternal optimist and the other the eternal pessimist but I never heard them criticize like the virgos - I think the difference between the cancer and virgo criticizers is that cancers will complain about others to other people and not so much directly to the one they are criticizing - the virgo just tells it to your face - that's just my take on the subject... for what it''s worth!!


A x

But do you know one Zodiac that will really have you tearing your hair out?? ARIES

Oh wait.. I'm aries 😢

Be afraid.. be very, very afraid O_o; sTD.

Alana
this is true..
but omg..do they critisize.. it's a control mechanism...read my post cancer any sign and you'll be really surprised..at the posts
believe me..they make the list
sofia

I think for most of us, to begin with, misery loves company. It is easy to gripe about someone or something we all agree to dislike, however, . the eternal griper appears to be someone who has a problem of low self esteem. . they see themselves as someone, "not really with it", whether it is physical, mental, or monetary. We have all been guilty of negative verbal activities, depending on the circumstances. . . sitting at the gas station to get gas, and the dipstick in front of you is inside, talking crap to someone, . or waiting to pull out on the road, and the nice person turns on your street, NO BLINKER !!! Or heres a good one, . . . waiting in a long line at your local Wal-mart, the aisle is full of people, and the manager is standing there, watching, waiting to call another cashier up there, just as you get up there, and the low life tells the cashier to go on break just before you put your items on the counter, . . .the list goes on and on, . . but, most of all, I think it is human to gripe about things every now and then, just cause sometimes, . . it feels better to let it out!!

Hi Drago! you wise one! How true! Welcome to the boards.🙂

You have a good point there Drago! But I must admit that having one on one experience with a cancer they can and do critisize quite alot.

I did notice that the negative feedback increased directly with the cancer not being satisfied with the situation he is in at the time. it seems to be there way of justifying whatever they are doing that is not quite above board in the situation.

Really my experience with a cancer was that after they had started something new before leaving the current situation. Their was a steady increase of negative comments about the person and situation they were trying to leave. It is their way of making themselves feel better or justified about what they are doing. The critisizm was almost non stop in the end (in other words they had nothing nive to say about anything). From my experience that is.

You have a good point there Drago! But I must admit that having one on one experience with a cancer they can and do critisize quite alot.

I did notice that the negative feedback increased directly with the cancer not being satisfied with the situation he is in at the time. it seems to be there way of justifying whatever they are doing that is not quite above board in the situation.

Really my experience with a cancer was that after they had started something new before leaving the current situation. Their was a steady increase of negative comments about the person and situation they were trying to leave. It is their way of making themselves feel better or justified about what they are doing. The critisizm was almost non stop in the end (in other words they had nothing nive to say about anything). From my experience that is.

Sorry I am having trouble with my computer again, I need a new tower geez! Or at least a new hard drive.

Hi my dear Sweet-P and belated birthday greetings to you and also James 13th and any other piscean people on the board, I've missed out.

Glad you so enjoyed your birthday.......and partied and partied and partied............time to detox my sweety!!!!

Had a bit of a "strange" weekend (I attract the wierd, wacky and wonderful!!!).......a good girlfriend of mine came to my house on Friday nite....she was after losing her job...got a bit tipsy.....I was patting her head and comforting her when she took my hand and told me that she had always wanted a "fling" with me....found me attractive.....I was taken aback.....sprung back into my chair as quick as a jack in the box!!!....and made some flippant comment about her drinking too much vino!!!.....but she persisted a bit too much....so I just said...let's change the subject. I seen her Sunday and nothing more was said...she just said she had way too much to drink on Friday......

I went out for girly nite Saturday nite to city centre......but was continually phoned by Mr. Virgo wanting me to take taxi and go "straight" to his house......I hadn't answered his phonecalls since early last week - it's a strange set-up indeed......sometimes when he calls, he's very sarcastic....other times, he's very caring.....he still calls me honey and beauty when he rings.....needless to say I didn't go....but the nite was a bit dead....in other words...I didn't "click" with anyone:-)

Sunday I spent alot of time with Girl from Friday nite and her family.....just one phone call that nite from Mr. V.

Also I let myself down....I hadn't been drinking for a few weeks but yesterday, I drank way too much again.......so I must begin again today to stay off that drink.......I do stupid stuff with too much drink.......

Ciao for now my pal.

Oh and Twinflame2 - so sorry to hear your tale of woe and about that guy from the land of loo-las!!!! One day his heart will be broken like yours is at the moment........but you will get through the pain.....and the sun will shine again for you. Consider yourself hugged.

A x

A scorpio broke my heart today. Sorry to be so glum but it hurts.

What happened, Pisces?

Actually, we've been working on a reconciliation. We figured it out. We've been best friends/lovers for 3.5 years. He has recently brought up the fact that he wants to buy a house together. I am too dense at times to see the big picture. Anyhow we have been fighting for 2.5 years. We had a talk after this big blowout. He said that he thought that I was angry with him for never making a commitment nor letting me go. This is true. He also said that he cares deeper than I'll ever know. He said that the house was him admitting to caring a lot. I said I thought he was using me for a house. He got angry and told me that I needed to stop being so vague myself. I am. I tell him bits and pieces and at times tell him things I know will get to him as a way to protect myself by showing him I had some charge in the relationship. This in turn hurt his feelings because all he ever wanted me to do was be honest. I told him I was trying to protect myself. He looked at me and said, "I'm not good with totally explaining myself. A house is a lifetime thing. I want to be with you. I want to live with you, see you everyday. I kept dropping hints but you never picked up on them." We'll see. Now that I know that he does care about me a lot I feel relieved. We have our fights but for the most part it is my fault because I've been angry with him for a while now.

ur right... forget and move on!!!! i think we aquarians are really good at it... forgiving and forgetting.. i think scorpios struggle with forgetting.. they can forgive but they never forget.. thats my PERSONAL experience with scorpios...

Scorpio's seem very suspect of people....Outrageously suspect to be honest....its as though the world is out to get them until proven otherwise...

Nevermind again. He just tore me up again. 3 years. It's the last time. I can't take his suspicions. Plus he's suspicious himself. Oh well. It was a fiery relationship while it lasted.

Guess I spoke too fast. We're in limbo right now. Well see.

With all of the negative comments about Scorpios I have read on these posts, I would be suspicious too if I was a Scorpio. Only Cancers & Pisces seem to have good things to say generally. Geez!

Just shutup everybody.

I don't wanna here it anymore.