For Scorpio males

Hi Guys, I wonder if I could ask for your advice. I asked out a Scorpio guy a few weeks ago, he said he was busy (cliche) the thing is I was so confident he would say yes. I am a pisces we seemed to have chemistry, I had to contact him a few weeks ago by email and he responded in one minute (work related,used to work together.

That was too weeks ago, and I really miss him. Should I forget about him or will he come back?

Please Scorps help me

He might be testing you if he's interested. I do this too when people ask me on a date (we test people all the time in general), I say no first just to see how they react. If they don't do anything I become more curious, but if they keep nagging and stuff like that, I usually stay 'No'.

And remember; Scorpio have patience, If they like you they will have a plan to get you.

But I don't really know if you should try more or not, he's a fixed sign so it's hard to change his mind if he's already made up his mind about you.

Good luck (:

Posted by gracekellyscorpio
He might be testing you if he's interested. I do this too when people ask me on a date (we test people all the time in general), I say no first just to see how they react. If they don't do anything I become more curious, but if they keep nagging and stuff like that, I usually stay 'No'.

And remember; Scorpio have patience, If they like you they will have a plan to get you.

But I don't really know if you should try more or not, he's a fixed sign so it's hard to change his mind if he's already made up his mind about you.

Good luck (:

Thanks Gracekellyscorpio - chasing him does not seem to work, but I have never met anyone like him before 🙂

Posted by Sillymoo

Posted by gracekellyscorpio
He might be testing you if he's interested. I do this too when people ask me on a date (we test people all the time in general), I say no first just to see how they react. If they don't do anything I become more curious, but if they keep nagging and stuff like that, I usually stay 'No'.

And remember; Scorpio have patience, If they like you they will have a plan to get you.

But I don't really know if you should try more or not, he's a fixed sign so it's hard to change his mind if he's already made up his mind about you.

Good luck (:

Thanks Gracekellyscorpio - chasing him does not seem to work, but I have never met anyone like him before 🙂

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Dazedscorpio - when a guy says that he is busy I assumed that means that he is not interested? Its what I say when I am not interested in somebody. I only know he is a Scorp I'm afraid 🙂

Posted by DazedScorp
Never assume with a Scorpio male.

When it comes to Pisces women, A scorp male is likey not to give up. There's something there that intrigues him, and he can't escape that feeling.

And when it comes to Scorpio males, I tend to play it safe, and take what they say for face value.

Meaning, that with the lack of information I have at the moment with this man, and by putting two and two together, I'm willing to bet that he's actually busy.

Try sending him an email to his work email, and say... "I know you're busy with work, but if you find the time, we should get together."

Simple. You reinforce in him that you are interested. And just leave it at that.

When busy and stressed with work, we'll bury our heads into our work until we come out of it. Work and then play.

I will drop him a quick email, and I hope he doesnt think I am nagging him. Thanks for the advice 🙂

yeah, i agree actually...i don't 'test' people, i prefer just to get to know them in a relaxed and natural way.

i agree with dazed on the work issue. i'm the same and if i'm busy, i have tunnel vision for the thing i'm busy with. this is why i don't have much of a social life, cos work is that important to me. i like to stand back at various points and take stock of my achievements and pat myself on the back 🙂

it's really frustrating if i do want to see someone though and there's nothing to say your scorp doesn't want to see you but maybe he doesn't want to even start the ball rolling with you until he's in a position to give you his undivided attention. i know that i would want someone to know if i was too busy to see them and i wouldn't feel the need to excuse it cos i think it's courteous to tell someone you're interested in.

Sillymoo, he knows how you feel. If he is interested he will contact you. If not you are free to see other men.

I know how you feel, there is something about Scorpio men that just draws you to them, makes you feel safe enough to show your vulnerabilities and take chances with them. You have to be patient and fight early emotional attachments, I find the best way to do this is to have other men you are seeing. Nothing too serious just someone who you go out for drinks with. It takes the pressure off, relaxes anxiety and keeps you from emotionally bonding too soon.


Hmmm this is bringing back memories, I first guy I asked out was a Scorpio, he accepted right away. We worked together in different departments on the same floor, we had these very intense stares from across the room. Well after a few dates I decided he was a bit too gay for my tastes, so I didn't pursue him nor ask him for anything we would just see each other on our breaks and chat briefly. Turned out we were leaving the company around the same time.

Posted by Sillymoo

Posted by gracekellyscorpio
He might be testing you if he's interested. I do this too when people ask me on a date (we test people all the time in general), I say no first just to see how they react. If they don't do anything I become more curious, but if they keep nagging and stuff like that, I usually stay 'No'.

And remember; Scorpio have patience, If they like you they will have a plan to get you.

But I don't really know if you should try more or not, he's a fixed sign so it's hard to change his mind if he's already made up his mind about you.

Good luck (:

Thanks Gracekellyscorpio - chasing him does not seem to work, but I have never met anyone like him before 🙂

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Just my take on things - ^^^^ You chased, you took away his hunting instinct, nothing to do with work - don't contact him again.

Hi Guys, thanks for all the advice, I dropped him a quick email (work related, but I said he could call) and he replied "no worries". He really is not interested, which is painful.

Sillymoo

move on. don't even look at him if you see him around. ignore him. act like you don't care.