@LadyLionness
14 Years
Scorpio man wants baby
Wow, what a strange one he is
Posted by aliennation
O_OI think I would cry, that would scare me so badly...
I love reading your posts..you always make me laugh...we know how you think when it comes to having babies...lol🙂
To the OP...watch him carefully..Do you think he might be gay? I heard of some guys that are gay and they will go out with women so they can have a baby with them..Actually i know of 2 cases.
Im not saying this is the case but you never know. How old is he? That is way too soon to be talking about babies when you guys just started.
I would keep my eyes wide open 0_0 😉
I don't trust people who are desperate for children...
Posted by aliennation
My Scorp ex did make references to "when we have kids", etc etc....but he never asked me directly, so I just ignored them.What's up with Scorp males wanting kids?? My father was supposedly baby hungry with my mother, and then I hatched... 😄 😈
That'll teach em..
I have a scorpio female friend who would have sex with a lot of guys cus she wanted to get pregnant and have a shot gun wedding. She does have a problem where she could lose the baby tho so she wants to keep trying before she gets old. Well guess what...she's getting that shot gun wedding lol
Posted by exoskeleton
nah. leave it. 🙂anyway, i'll admit i was expecting a half-assed response from her, lol.
Oh yea? is that right?
Posted by aliennation
Posted by seraph
Posted by LadyLionness
Im seeing this Scorpio man, who has told me from day 1 that he really wants a baby. He speaks of it often and he wants a daughter. I havent been seeing him that long and have not slept with him. He has a very calm personality and very sweet, but I find it kind of strange that he is so hung up on having a baby. He even told me that at one point he thought of getting a surrogate. He is an only child and comes from a small family. I just dont know how to deal with him and his baby needs. It kind of makes me want to tell him stop telling me that he wants a damn baby, its a little bit of a turn off in a way, but I try to understand because he is an only child issue. He even asked me, "how would u feel if i told you I hope you get pregnant the first time we have sex"? I responded, how would you feel if i said I wanted a ring before I ever sleep with you? He said, that he wouldnt mind, and he would marry me, lol!!! i just thought to myself, what a response. Anyway.....
Just a quick note:
He told you from Day 1 that he really wants a baby.
And you didn't run in the other direction. So some part of you is certainly receptive to that.
Then in no time you went right to the ring-talk (not half as in jest as you think) and you got the answer that you knew (and possibly hoped for) was coming.
Congratulations. Bridesamaids in baby-blue, or would you prefer something on the light pink side?
F'reals.
If I had someone approach me and declare that they would implant their seed into my orifice in order for my placenta to incubate and hatch the spawn...I would report this UFO (Unidentified F.cking Object) ASAP.
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You can't be a scorpio. Your a gem right nation? It's just your moon?
Posted by aliennation
Posted by Sag89
Posted by aliennation
Posted by seraph
Posted by LadyLionness
Im seeing this Scorpio man, who has told me from day 1 that he really wants a baby. He speaks of it often and he wants a daughter. I havent been seeing him that long and have not slept with him. He has a very calm personality and very sweet, but I find it kind of strange that he is so hung up on having a baby. He even told me that at one point he thought of getting a surrogate. He is an only child and comes from a small family. I just dont know how to deal with him and his baby needs. It kind of makes me want to tell him stop telling me that he wants a damn baby, its a little bit of a turn off in a way, but I try to understand because he is an only child issue. He even asked me, "how would u feel if i told you I hope you get pregnant the first time we have sex"? I responded, how would you feel if i said I wanted a ring before I ever sleep with you? He said, that he wouldnt mind, and he would marry me, lol!!! i just thought to myself, what a response. Anyway.....
Just a quick note:
He told you from Day 1 that he really wants a baby.
And you didn't run in the other direction. So some part of you is certainly receptive to that.
Then in no time you went right to the ring-talk (not half as in jest as you think) and you got the answer that you knew (and possibly hoped for) was coming.
Congratulations. Bridesamaids in baby-blue, or would you prefer something on the light pink side?
F'reals.
If I had someone approach me and declare that they would implant their seed into my orifice in order for my placenta to incubate and hatch the spawn...I would report this UFO (Unidentified F.cking Object) ASAP.
You can't be a scorpio. Your a gem right nation? It's just your moon?
I am a Gem, though granted, it's "only" my moon. I still think I'm more Gem than Scorp. Who cares about astrology convention. 😉
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Too smart to be a water sign. I had to say 😛
I was kidding kids!
Posted by Sag89
I was kidding kids!
Okies
((HUGS))
Sorry for snapping. My crab pinchers are overly sensitive these days.
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by Sag89
Posted by exoskeleton
nah. leave it. 🙂anyway, i'll admit i was expecting a half-assed response from her, lol.
Oh yea? is that right?
yeap. it's not like you ever bring anything insightful or of substance here, though i don't have to tell you that. 🙂
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That is hilarious. I won't argue with you though all knowing scorpio
Posted by OceanDeep
Posted by Sag89
I was kidding kids!
Okies
((HUGS))
Sorry for snapping. My crab pinchers are overly sensitive these days.
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Posted by Nemesis
@sag89, your foot-in-mouth sag excuse aint gonna work all the time!
?
Posted by exoskeleton
you won't argue with me because you have no argument. no worries. 😄
Your are totally right, man I wish I was you
Posted by Nemesis
Posted by Sag89
Posted by Nemesis
@sag89, your foot-in-mouth sag excuse aint gonna work all the time!
?
"too clever to be a water sign" - ahhh just kidding!
if you say someting, mean it. don't go around "kidding" this aint saggy land.
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Oh right..
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by Sag89
Posted by exoskeleton
you won't argue with me because you have no argument. no worries. 😄
Your are totally right, man I wish I was you
as you damn should. now genuflect. 😛
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I would never do anything less
Boss Paul Vitti aka Dazed: You're turning me down?
Dr. Ben Sobel: When I got into family therapy, this was not the "family" I had in mind.
Boss Paul Vitti aka Dazed: You, with your schmucky little office in your schmucky little home, you're turning *me* down? For what, so you can go back and listen to housewives piss and moan about how nobody fecks 'em right anymore?
He is 38 with no children. & yes it is kind of scary to me, im thinking Idk if i want to continue seeing him. Smh.
@ Seraph, actually I did not run in the other direction, Im not worried that he will impregnate me by speaking....I responded that way not expecting him to agree...honestly, naive of me? but in my mind the baby doesnt come first. Im just turned off by his baby neediness. that is all.
I'm just messing
I would be running for the hills well before he could say baby.
Posted by LadyLionness
Im seeing this Scorpio man, who has told me from day 1 that he really wants a baby. He speaks of it often and he wants a daughter. I havent been seeing him that long and have not slept with him. He has a very calm personality and very sweet, but I find it kind of strange that he is so hung up on having a baby. He even told me that at one point he thought of getting a surrogate. He is an only child and comes from a small family. I just dont know how to deal with him and his baby needs. It kind of makes me want to tell him stop telling me that he wants a damn baby, its a little bit of a turn off in a way, but I try to understand because he is an only child issue. He even asked me, "how would u feel if i told you I hope you get pregnant the first time we have sex"? I responded, how would you feel if i said I wanted a ring before I ever sleep with you? He said, that he wouldnt mind, and he would marry me, lol!!! i just thought to myself, what a response. Anyway.....
We Scorpio men know what we want. He sounds a bit immature though to be throwing that out there so early. I know this because this is the kind of crazy talk I used to say when I was younger not thinking how a woman would respond to that.
Just keep an open mind and be sure to be assertive with him letting him know that it's too early in the relationship to be talking about it but you are open to a future with him. Be sure to stay positive with him and don't demoralize him. Give him a goal to reach. We Scorpio men love to have our women challenge us. It makes us fight. We want to be your heroes. Set benchmarks for him to reach and watch how he does one after the other to please you. That is, if he is one of the "good Scorpio men" and not one is led by anger and deceit, which you have not given any indication he is one of the "bad" ones.
So, good luck.
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Im seeing this Scorpio man, who has told me from day 1 that he really wants a baby. He speaks of it often and he wants a daughter. I havent been seeing him that long and have not slept with him. He has a very calm personality and very sweet, but I find it kind of strange that he is so hung up on having a baby. He even told me that at one point he thought of getting a surrogate. He is an only child and comes from a small family. I just dont know how to deal with him and his baby needs. It kind of makes me want to tell him stop telling me that he wants a damn baby, its a little bit of a turn off in a way, but I try to understand because he is an only child issue. He even asked me, "how would u feel if i told you I hope you get pregnant the first time we have sex"? I responded, how would you feel if i said I wanted a ring before I ever sleep with you? He said, that he wouldnt mind, and he would marry me, lol!!! i just thought to myself, what a response. Anyway.....