Friggin Hilarious ....

Friggin Hilarious ....

I listen to all these women in here carrying on ... and just have to laugh really, for they just don't get it.

They think that boys come as men .. and try to have relationships with them without any training, whatsoever ... and get hurt by boys, because these women haven't figured out yet that they are ALL fucking boys ..

.. until you train them.



I'm sorry I'm laughing at you .. but, really it's quite hilarious.


And now it's become instilled ... boys realize they still can be because there aren't any women around to train them any longer, so they just remain perpetual boys.

Sorry, Keva .... this wasn't a funny thread, well at least to anyone except me, who's being wicked at the moment.

Definitely equates to girls also ..... if boys aren't being taught how to be men, and so are allowed to relate to girls, who have never dated a real man .. then in reality, this girl hasn't really become a woman either, and is still a girl, if she's measuring quality of relationships with grown boys.

I remember a friend of mine, who is 28 years younger than me, she said with this awed looked on her face ....

"Wow, Angie, where did you find a man like that? He treats you so good. Where'd you find him?" ..... talking about my husband.

It was everything I could do not to bust out laughing.

"Lori, he didn't COME that way."

Every day in here there's a new woman totally confused, not knowing which way to turn .. because she's dating a BOY, who has not been taught how to be a man, and is upset with any clue as to what the problem is.

the problem is .... they aren't born men, they have to be made into men.

What drove me to write this thread came from another thread in here where a woman said things like ... he's a jerk, he's rude and arrogant, he accuses me of cheating, he doesn't spend time with me .... basically what she is saying is that he treats her BADLY .. and then finishes by saying ..... I want him, for the rest of my life.

^^^^^^^ that is allowing this boy to be one, for he can act this way and still have the girl.

He never learns how to treat a lady of standards because he doesn't have to ....... she will wait for him to abuse her more.


How in this scenerio has either of them learned anything about a proper relationship built around maturity and respect?

Cute?


Like high school?

Who cares if he's mature or not, who cares if he has man-balls, or little boy-nuggets, who cares if he has ambition, respect and ethics, who cares about any of that cause .. he's so cute.

If you want something to train, get a puppy.

lol, it's just funny to me.

Perhaps, it's because of most people coming from broken families, where their parents aren't a constant ... and they see how a relationship is supposed to be about respect, but, cannot see by example because parents are missing .... that these lasting relationships don't just pop out of thin air, these two people have to WORK to make it so. A man, as well as a woman ... have to learn how to be a partner.

And this is what I see ... women will say he's an asshole to me and I want to marry him.

What?

Of course he can be an asshole to a girl, and will hurt and use her, if she still wants him, regardless .... the day she grows, is the day she walks away, and is the day the boy realizes if he wants the woman, then he has to man-up.

I agree that it shouldn't have to be woman's job, FA ... but, what should be and what is, are two different things.

If the girl wants to live the rest of her life with a guy who treats her badly, and she knows it .. then she's still a girl, and he's still a boy .. for there's nothing in this to make either of them grow up, romantically speaking.

Unfortunately ... it's a higher percentage of boys, then men these days, and if a woman wants a man, then she has to work at making him so. She can't stay with him, and just complain about being abused if she isn't willing to put work into it to make him so.

Whether it's her job or not .. isn't the point. The point is .. if she throws herself at his feet anyway .. then what she is establishing is that it's acceptable for him to continue being a boy. And if she wants a man, then she has to make him one by having some dignity and forbidding this kind of treatment of her, or she walks.

No sitting around crying about it ... make him man-up to her, or walk.

When I think further down the road with some of these people ... I see this being instilled in future children. I agree with you that proper parenting plays a major role .. however, if these women are accepting of a boys behaviour, in man's clothing ... and tolerates this taking of a position on a lower level, and produces children with him .. then what do you think is in these kids future for learning purposes of how to properly relate to a partner?

Makes me laugh too, and wonder what's wrong with them ..

Hence: this thread.

And it just spirals downwards .... if the modern woman hasn't figured this out because of not being taught at home by means of example watching constant parenting .. then these same women are the mothers of our future children.

A girl does not know how to be a woman in a partnership, until she's been with a real man.

A boy does not know how to be a man in a partnership, until he's been with a real woman.

Those two ^^^^ train/teach each other, regardless of what anybody thinks, and it's done by proper treatment.

FA ... what should be and what is, aren't the same thing.


Let's look at this from a different perspective ... in the old days, men were reliable, they took care of their families, they taught their boys how to be men. In modern times, the majority of the children aren't being taught this at home, by their fathers. And it's obvious, as we observe how immature men are in their treatment of women.

If we women, want a man .. and he isn't out there .. but, we love him and want him anyway .. then we either teach him or walk, whether it's our responsibility or not.

What I'm saying is that .... if we want him, and he's still a boy because he wasn't taught properly ...... then if it's our choice to stay with him, then it's our responsibility to make our life right with him by making this boy a man.

We don't have to stay, and we shouldn't .. but, the point is .. if he's a boy, and we choose to stay .. then we either endure having a boy and quit bitching about it, or we change it, by making him man-up.

I agree that women shouldn't do this ... hence: my laughing at women in this thread who are dating boys and believing they are men.


But, they DO do this, they DO commit themselves to boys instead of men .. and if a woman is going to commit herself to a grown kid, then she's gonna have to woman-up, to man him up.

It would be so nice if they would hear you when you say .. swim.

But, they don't. So, if you're not going to swim, then fucking teach the boy how to be man, or shut up.

Really, this thread is only in place because I wanted to be mean and laugh at loud when I read a thread in here by a girl who said her boyfriend was a dickhead, and at the end she said she wants to spend the rest of her life with him.

wtf?

I guess what I'm alluding to ....


Women have commented in this thread about how they wouldn't want a boy, and want a man .. they don't want to be a teacher, and shouldn't have to .. right, I agree.

But, if the majority of women CANNOT see that this is a boy and not a man .. then eventually, we won't have ANY real men out there because these same women are spawing children for these boys they married to raise their sons >>> reproduce >>>> reproduce >>>>


And by listening to the majority of women in here .. this is the very case. Somewhere down the line, these boys have to grow man-balls, and if thier parents aren't doing it, then somebody has to ... or men will become extinct.

"a lot of women much as they complain about things, like that sort of drama and treatment. They're dysfunctional themselves"


Agreed ... and they carry this tradition down the line.

Me too. If somebody doesn't teach these boys how to men though, then soon they will all be high-maintenance, and women will be alone because she is waiting for a man who doesn't exist.

I keep stressing, and apparantly it's not being heard ..


What should happen .. and what is reality .. isn't the same thing.


Reality is .......... there are very few real men. They SHOULD have been raised at home properly ... but, they weren't.


So, what now? We sit around the rest of our lives, waiting to find a man product of what should have happened, but didn't?

We say things like, fuck that I'm not going to teach a boy to be a man ... who is then, if fathers at home aren't, if a father is even present in the home.

What are you waiting for then? If eventually, a man doesn't even exist, then what are we referring to, exactly, when we say we won't put forth this effort and will wait it out.

What it out for what?

"what about girls becoming women?"


It goes both ways, MIA .. I just take this position because I am female, but, it's two-sided.


If there are no real men out there, then women cannot learn how to be a real woman either. If they spawn children, the daughters will then grow up watching two kids being parents .. and these girls will never learn how to be a real woman to a real man.

Suppose this loops around to single-parent homes.

Children NEED both gender figures ... NEED.

I agree with P_angel. These men are boys. I was a girl when i gor married but I have to say once I got out of my marriage I am a women. when i talk to my ex. I laugh because he is sooo childish.

Every "man" claims to want a real women ... yes the men do but half these men are not men so they cant handle what a real women has to say. boys need mommy to stroke their egos .A man would already know he has it going on. It does tickle me in away p_angle these women dont have a clue. hehehehehe

Soooooooooooo.......P-Angel.........did your husband find out you've been wanting to fuck that Capricorn man yet?


Maybe you need some training.