Glad I Didn't Go Back This Time..

So I just found out that my Scorpio was trying to get back with me while dating stringing along another girl. Just two weeks ago when he visited me he was saying that he loved me /missed me (of course), wished that our baby would have survived (pervious misscarriage) , and that once again brought up marriage. We had been off and on so many times I thought it was all game...and he may have been somewhat sincere, but now I see him on and this girl on facebook had hooked up around the same time he "poured his heart out to me".

I've been wanting to move on. Just didn't know it was going to hurt like this. We recently had a bad fight(a month ago) and I told him I was falling out of love with him, and I think he will always play games with my heart.
He's been wanting to know the results of my GYN appt, I've been pretty sick lately so I go to chat with him, get his new phone number to let him know the results of my GYN appt...once again I've had another misscarriage. 😢. Now I find this out. I feel guilty for keeping wanting to keep it to myself now and just move on. I think it's for the best and he really won't car.

It hurts but maybe this will finally give me the closure I need...I just don't know why all the mind games with someone you know really love me ... do Scorpios really move on that treetrunking fast. That's ****ed up if they do.

I'm sure he still cares for you since he's trying to figure out how your doing, but honestly you should be thankful your no longer with him and that you found out he was with another girl. It hurts but now you know how much of a scum bag he is. Time will heal and you'll eventually find someone who won't play games with you like that.

Nah, Scorpios are just that fucked up.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm sorry you are going through things you are going through.

You might not like what I'm going to say and I don't mean to be offensive.

"I told him I was falling out of love with him"

this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

If you tell somebody that, what do you really expect them to do other than move on?

So true I shouldn't have said it but it's the truth. He's plan out told he didn't love me before. Said it coldly . Could have been one of his mind games. The day he said it I remember me crying to him that I did and wtf was I supposed to do because he told me he didn't . His response was "That's your problem". Since then he has come tried to come around me. Testing to see if I would run back. Come to my house unannounced, wanted to make love, wanted to hang around as if nothing would happen. I wouldn't do anything sexual with him anymore, or tell him how I felt when he would ask or look for open to run back in this time. These past 5 weeks he's been popping through. And since then I have been trying to force him out of my heart. When I told him that He had tears in his eyes...he is the type to act like he doesn't care and say cold mean things. It's happen so much, the " I love you " " I don't love you" phase with him...I panic and pushed him away and said this. At the moment I said it I woke up and felt as if I didn't recognize him. Realized I was only going to continue to heart myself by being around him when I was trying to let go and move on . So I told him that and also to stay away from me with. Cried it out to him. He left with tears in his eyes. It's as though I do not love him. Could just be me pushing him out of my heart , because of what he did to me so that I won't have to hold on anymore...

It's only been two weeks since he was last over here pouring his heart out. I feel as though he played game by saying that he didn't love me and it kinda ended up me being hurting and wanting to move on and not wanting to love him anymore. I understand that some people get into relationship fast but rebounding is not the way 😢

It's as if he tested me and now it turned around on him. He had tears in his eyes the last time he was here he didn't try to stay he actually went home. Last time was Feb.24th . This girl has pics of him at his house and everything on Facebook. Pics dated Feb.17th...which was that Sunday after he came over and he tried to get me to make love to him..talk about marriage..the miscarriage, etc etc . That's messed up for him to do that knowing he was ready to move on...

He even stated he was thinking about moving to Florida..which was strange and I was thinking that maybe he was saying so just to get me to say I love him and for him not to go. I did really want to but heck if someone keeps hurting you even after you tell them you love them or admit you still do it hard to trust that they won't hurt you again..so push away push away push away is all I've been trying to do.

I know many of you are thinking well that's dumb you pushed him away. I hope you understand why and how it feel to do so out of fear of being hurt.

Thanks for the responses...

I can only go by my own behaviours of course, but no- I dwell on things forever and painfully reminisce at the strangest times! Of course there are plenty of damming anecdotes about scorpio men (/women) but I'd have to say that most of it is stereotypical crap and the ones I've met in real life are no better or worse than anyone born at any other time of the year...
I'm guessing you are a Leo- based on your screen name- and there are plenty of scorp- leo dynamics that may be of interest in a sense. Fixed signs have a fatalistic attraction yet seem to cause one another no end of pain.

A rebound will always only be that- unlikely to last- but it can help to ease the pain and provide a distraction no matter which part of the break up you are on...

But the thing with me is that once I am done that is an absolute decision. I've never once reversed on a break up that I've instigated. This I believe is a fairly uniform scorpio trait.

I absolutely feel for you going through this drama and heartache and hope you have some wonderful friends and family to help you and give you hugs!

Posted by DaLionessOfLove
So I just found out that my Scorpio was trying to get back with me while dating stringing along another girl. Just two weeks ago when he visited me he was saying that he loved me /missed me (of course), wished that our baby would have survived (pervious misscarriage) , and that once again brought up marriage. We had been off and on so many times I thought it was all game...and he may have been somewhat sincere, but now I see him on and this girl on facebook had hooked up around the same time he "poured his heart out to me".

I've been wanting to move on. Just didn't know it was going to hurt like this. We recently had a bad fight(a month ago) and I told him I was falling out of love with him, and I think he will always play games with my heart.
He's been wanting to know the results of my GYN appt, I've been pretty sick lately so I go to chat with him, get his new phone number to let him know the results of my GYN appt...once again I've had another misscarriage. 😢. Now I find this out. I feel guilty for keeping wanting to keep it to myself now and just move on. I think it's for the best and he really won't car.

It hurts but maybe this will finally give me the closure I need...I just don't know why all the mind games with someone you know really love me ... do Scorpios really move on that treetrunking fast. That's ****ed up if they do.

You were wise to not go back to him. So many people think that just because their historically unreliable crush came around with sweet words, that things will finally be happily ever after. Nope. Same bs as always, it's just that the girl latches onto the "hot" part of the "hot and cold" behavior.

This thread is a perfect example of why girls shouldn't be falling for the harebrained apologies, flattery and grand promises.