HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU ALL

ARE ANY SCORPIOS A PRODUCT OF HURT IN THEIR CHILD HOOD. IF SO HOW HAVE YOU OVER COME THIS AND HOW DID IT AFFECT YOUR LIFE AS A YOUNG ADULT?

I think many people may have experienced some form of sorrow or hurt in their childhood, especially since we are very vulnerable and dependant then. I have learnt from my experiences and tries not ot inflict that sorrow in others.

and opposition/ hurt always makes me more determined and stronger.

Love or kindness is what makes me soft and gentle.

chi, my son (who is not by biological child) came to me from an abused household when he was small . . now, he's a young adult . . the problems that came from the abuse haven't stopped . . they will likey haunt him for many, many years.

However, now that he's an adult and a parent, he comprehends that he was an innocent child and whatever happened to him wasn't his fault . . he is learning to deal, perhaps a person never fully overcomes horrific events . . because he's a Scorpio, he's easily led by another, they fall under influence of others more readily than other signs, but, he's with an Aries . . she's strong and powerful . . so, that helps.

This is an odd question to ask . . are you having troubles dealing with something from the past?

Topaz woman ,I feel you. That was brave of you to share all that. I can see why a scorp would repress any damages from their childhood,just to remaim a true strong powerful person. Wow, I don't even know what to say to all that you have expressed. I just hope that whatever affects your life, like P-Angle expressed, you understand that it was not your fault. I guess to reach others in the universe we must deal with our issues first. As far as P- Angels comment , I directed that question to scorpios , because we are the strongest sign , and we are the true metaphysical sign, the sign of birth , re-birth, and death. Due to us being the mother of all signs, the most powerful sign, things affect us differently. We go through so much in the world. As far as P-angels comment , I am questioning why your step son is easily lead, I doubt that it has something to do with his sign. Ibet it has more to do with what has affected him. Scoprios are leaders by nature and can change the world at the drop of a dime , if they wanted to. We are not easily lead, most people admire and follow us. You said that the boy is now being raised by a aries mother, who is powerful and strong. Well those are the true attributes of that little boys sign, and soon as he realizes it, he will be that before anybody gets the news. He just needs help bringing out what may already be inside of him. Besides it's not all about signs, God and the spirit is first.

Chi . . .lol

OK, Aries mother, she probably plays that role too with a French Maid's outfit on.

If one pays attention to the Scorpio's in here, they follow people around. Once someone comes in here that is liked, where ever they go to post, all the Scorps follow. In real life, Scorps follow their people around. Are they strong, sure, everyone can be strong in some areas and weak in others. That doesnt' mean it's a flaw, it just means that is the way it is.

What's wrong with being led, if it's in the right direction?

You sound like that's an insult . . if his WIFE is taking care of him and helping him cope, then what's the matter with that?

I have a brother, father and son who are all Scorpio's and all three of them follow their partners in life . . not lead.

"We are not easily lead, most people admire and follow us"

lol

Actually, it's the other way around . . watch in here and you'll see.

The "little boy" is all grown up, chi . . with children of his own,lol The Aries is his wife . . who is much stronger and more powerful, by nature.

A lot of the problem I think is Scorpio's detestment for confrontation. A person CANNOT lead, or change the world or anybody else in it if they run from confrontation. That makes a person weak, not strong . . as far as being a leader,lol

There is the stinger, to be sure, but, it only comes out when a Scorpio is feeling insecure or offended and to lead a person, or change the world, as you believe, there has to be control over that stinger to have the ability to strike at all times . . and, well that just isn't present because the Scorpio would rather comprimise and concede, rather than be relentless, even when wrong.

That makes a person a follower.

With my son . . his WIFE is an Aries . . she's strong, powerful and has the ability to lead because she is courageous . . she helps him cope. He realizes that she's stronger than him and he takes his place . .