help!! again

What is all the manipulating about? When I was pregnant he would call and say he was dating a dental asst, wich I,AM.He would leave girls numbers knowing I would see them.He had girl pics on his comp so I would see them.I love him but dont understand hy he would put me through all this crap.

He is a wanger, or a j.a.c.k.o.f.f. this guy is a prick get rid of him. Its better to go it alone than to live in hell.

good luvk luv

You love him—? How could you love someone who treats you like that. Better yet, how could you 'let' someone treat you like that. You are 'letting' him put you thru crap. Walk away... Do not enable the player.

candle girls right. noone is worth that. people will do what u let them get away with.

Ok....here it is...the wonderful world of Disney...staring Tinkerbell in Never Never Land with all of the Lost Boys(ie scorpios of the world).

This guy is insatiable concerning his need for attention. He will always want to be the center of your world and will be pissed if he isn't. I purposely will not pick up the phone when I see it is my scorp...it drives him insaine. Or, if he calls, I put him on hold. You have to pull in the reins sometimes, and with tender care with these guys..constantly. It is a calculated chess game that they love. If you are not into playing games, Let Him Go.

Scorpio dear Scorpio....will we ever evolve and stay in a committed relationship?? It must be such a challenge for them and if they ever stay committed, it must be like such a big ordeal and an accomplishment in their spiritual journey. You have to feel sorry for them. Instead of wearing their heart on their sleeves, it is their hard on they wear. That must hurt if you think about it......being in a constant state of heat. I personally wouldn't like it.This may stem from the fact that they are sooooo sensitive and if they were hurt in their early years, they are clingy or womanizing in their adult years.

My Canadian shaven headed,with 11 earings scorp story? From what he has told me,he has been married 3 times and has a 2 month old baby boy and a woman,who he says that he is not committed to,that comes with his awesome package....and he wants me in alot of ways, and gets me any chance he gets. When we first got together, the woman was pregnant but he didn't mention her. Then, he finally told me a week after we met that he "just found out" that he was going to be a daddy. I asked him where he lived and he said he was renting a room in a house with a friend that had an older son. Thought it sounded funny ...finally asked if it was the pregnant person that he was living with. He said yes, but they were not intimate and he was just there to make sure she was being healthy for his baby. Half truths are a vital part of their personality.

He is a "salesperson" so he travels to the states alot. There it is in a nut shell people......he is 38 and is not slowing down. The hard thing about it is letting them go(....go away..don't go away mad....just go away...ok?) The more you pull away...the more they want to pursue you. They know that they are persuasive and hypnotic and they know when they have you hooked. It is a slick game. Last week he was coming on to me at work while showing me a photo album of his child and it's mother. He kept cutting the kid down in all of the pictures in a cruel way. Scorps tend to become jealous of their children. Something a little psycho there, don't you think? If his company has to send another salesperson to my business instead of him...he goes insaine and will call and make sure he will come over to my work the next day. Maybe I go for the twisted type...I don't know. Johnny Depp as Captain Jack Sparrow ..he was a little twisted, wasn't he...hmmm. Anyway, I am fighting my feelings for him and am coming to the conclusion that this is a self defeating relationship. Good Luck!

oh my tinkergirl. You have known Scorpio's. Yes indeed, they are the pirates of the zodiac. yet they can be innocent. It depends on the woman(women) they have known.
My answer stays with cinny. She has a man who plays with her mind and she has a child by him.
And you are correct in what you say about your Scorpio.
I am married to the innocent, yet kind type. We ride our motorcycles together and get tattoos, but never ever play mind games. Too much at stake, with such passion.

Oh Tinkerbell, you are so funny!

Cinny, Cinny, Cinny,

This guy is into mind-games. So I say to you, (even though you may not like to play games or wreak heads), give yourself a week to indulge in it. You got to play him at his own game - how!! Well by doing (in your own sweet way) all the things that make him bug you and be jealous. Eg. - you guys are out together and you get your best male pal to ring up pretending that he's an old flame, back in town and wants to meet up for drink!!! When you are out, again you get your pals to send you some sexy texts etc. - you haven't the fiantest clue who they are from as you show them innocently to Mr. Scorpio!!! You get a male pal of yours to text Mr. Scorpio saying he's fancies you like mad and is determined to win your heart!!!! YOu leave a few posters or pics of Brad Pitt or whoever you got the hots for at your bedside - see how he likes that!!! On your computer, you download the hottest male babes and tell him how you had a real sexy dream about such and such!! You just had to download!!!! Come on Cinny, there's loads of way to beat him at his own game. After the week is up, see how he likes it and is feeling - then have a heart to heart - and then make your final decision - some of the others are saying get rid, get rid but it's clear that you love him deep down - and to get rid is not easy I know. Could you orchestrate to bump into an ex somehow while you are out with Mr. Scorp and be all over the ex—?

Go on Missy - try it - you'll like it, he won't and satisfaction guaranteed:-)

good luck. but be careful u know.

Candle Girl...what sign are you? Just curious. My scorp has a yellow Harley with bugs bunny on it and gets tatoos too. He has two bugs bunny tatoos and two skull and cross bones, and most recently, his baby's birth date. Doesn't that speak volumes? I like him but he has some issues that aren't going to go away. I question if my Scorpio has a problem with contemplating consequences. It seems he just goes through life and whatever he stumbles upon, or, stumbles upon him, it happens. He says he never makes plans. For his sign to be so calculated, this doesn't make sense. Do you think that when he did plan in his life, the plans fell through so now he has a different outlook on life. Maybe, he plays the martyre (sp?)when he is relaying his stories. One thing is for sure...he is interesting. Adventures with him are what makes good romance novels!!

I would also like to ask Alana if her suggestion might bring about rage and a departure for the Scorp? I ask this because Scorps tend to be very jealous and revengeful and, will seek affection elsewhere, so I would wonder if this would work with him in a positive way. There has to be a nice balance where you are just beyond their reach at all times and keep them chumming. They love the chase.
Did the jealousy thing work for you with a Scorp? I like to hear other people's experiences with the sign.

Hi T-Girl,

I am a Libra with a Scorpio rising. My Scorpio has an burnt orange bike. Forget the typical black. Tat's are a real stupid road runner on the left leg, a beautiful dragon he got in Hong Kong when he was in the submarine service on the right leg, a Harley and American flag/eagle on right arm, and of course an anchor for the Navy on the other bicep. I have a Ying and Yang on my right shoulder and a chinese symbol for healer. I'm thinking Angel Wings next.

As for your question, Scorpio's can be extremely anal if you know what I mean, but mine had a great professional job, but got laid off and became a bartender, a school teacher, a journalist, and still seeking. I did't know him when he was laid off, but knowing his personality it hit him pretty hard, ego an all!!! Now he says it was probably the best thing that ever happened to him. You just can't plan things, life has it's own course! I am a writer and life became even more interesting when we met. We are leaving to ride over 5,000 miles this month. It's called the 'Ride Home' to celebrate Harley Davidson's 100th Anniversary!
Take Care T-girl. Enjoy all your Scorpio has to offer!!!

WOW!! I am enveous of the ride! Happy Trails!! As for the tatoos...wings would be cool. Thanks for the advice about Scorps. It is a beautiful way to look at them. He has such a deep place in my heart and maybe my negativity stems from not having more of him then I do. It sounds selfish I know, but I really do like this guy for all the right reasons.

Did you ever hear of the rally "Let It Ride" in Sault Ontario? It is pretty awesome.

If you are riding through Michigan, look me up. Wait until it is very very dark...and look for the light..that is where you will find me. Ride On Candle Girl!!

To All!!!I appreciate the feedback and did play with him a little, boy what a turn around that made, he begged me to keep him and was in tears! I can be a mean little fish when I want to be and Ive just had it and had to make up some little white lies wich I hate to do but it worked and he admitted to testing me to see how much I really cared about him. We both have motorcycles too and ride together. What I realize is he is so insecure with himself,that he wants me to be like that too. Hes afraid I will dump him and find someone else.I did have a part in all this though I must admit,Ive never told him that I love him ! my feelings for him are the strongest Ive ever felt and Im afraid to tell him.Im working on that now,its hard for some reason.

Glad to see it all worked out. This puts me in btter mood. Cheers. I buy everyone a round.

Bravo! Maybe I will try it next. I will let you know how it goes!!

I have a secret.... I found out about Scorpio men a long time ago. And Cinny you found it all on your own.
I first saw it with my father when he was with my step-mom, My dad a scorpio was putty in her hands because of the secret. She did not care if he was a bad boy, (cheating not an option), just bad in what he said or did like drink too much only some times. She let him be himself, who was, good , descent, god fearing, and most of all NOT SURE OF HIMSELF, Being bad was a badge, a card to belong to what other people thought he was.
Well, heck, doesn't that make a lot of sense—

See, but what I can't understand is how you know they are not cheating. For instance, I suspect my Scorpio is cheating and this woman he is currently living with obviously has not a clue. He went to a social function with me all dressed in a suit and stayed out until 1:00 am. For all I know, he might have 2 or 3 on the line. He is good at the lines and flirts his ass off with all women. I caught him checking out a 60 year old (but in fantastic shape) woman. I know it is normal but this one I think will try anything. Do I want to constantly wonder where he is and what he is doing??

Of course not t-girl. If you suspect he is cheating, you could be right on. I'm not saying it isn't possible that he is cheating, he could be, Scorps have that dark side.
You need to be the judge on that. If you think he is cheating you need to protect yourself from that kind of game. But do be direct with him on it. Don't play games with him.
What I meant in the previous thread, is let them understand they can be bad arses EXCEPT for the infidelity part. No one deserves to be cheated upon, not once, not ever.

Right on sister!!