Help me all ye scorpios! :P

Okay, so I got to talking to this guy. and he is a Scorpio... pretty self explanatory for him. but the thing is that he is way too... how do i explain it? NEEDY! I mean, he says he loves me when he doesn't even know that much about me. He always says stuff like "I want to kiss you, I want to hug you, and i want to make love to you." 😕 When I told him that he does not love me, and that he knows nothing about me (is that harsh?) then he took it offensively! WTF?! He really is sweet and he is cool, but then once i told him that, he acts like I'm everything to him.. I really dont like taking things to fast and im more of a person to slow things down. What should I do? I usually have all the answers.. but to this problem, im dim sided on what to say to him. Should i just leave? SCORPIOS! what would you want your Virgo to do in this situation?

Needy people scare me.

I'd tell him to kick rocks.

ugh...i knew a scorp like this who was hitting on me at the workplace whilst in a relationship!!! i never gave him one single iota of encouragement but he would also say things like.....i really care about you....i just want to hold you....i want to make you smile....and various other things that had me reaching for the sick bucket!!

i would respond in the same way you are doing....like, wtf are you talking about...and he would go all broody on me for a while.

tbh, i have no clue what was going on with the guy but after a few months of this going on at work, he finally gave up banging his head against a brick wall and i've not heard a dicky bird from him since.

i don't like this kind of scorpio guy. they're so full of shit it's untrue. you can guarantee they're spilling out the same lines to anyone else who takes their fancy....with equal voracity no doubt.

the scorp i knew who was in a relationship was with a woman much older than him who had 4 kids of her own and they had a child together too. omg. i said to him once...do you seriously believe i'm gonna jump at the chance of dating a man who lives with the woman who lives in a shoe—? NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

anyhow, she was the first woman he met when he was released for a short stay in prison. within 6 months they were living together and she was pregnant.

that's the kind of shit that lame way of talking gets you into. i would avoid that scorp like the PLAGUE!!!!!

Posted by Shyvirgo

im dim sided on what to say to him.

A Virgo being dim sided when it comes to understanding feelings of themselves or others is quite normal. One just has to look at dxp and read posts from Virgos to know that when it comes to emotional understandings, they have zero clue on how to proceed.

Most Scorpios think Virgos are hot .. but, it doesn't take long for the Scorps to realize that Virgos are dim sided when it comes to understanding feelings, and that usually leaves the Scorpios feeling dejected.

I mean why would anyone want to deal with a person who has no clue when we express how we feel to you? You just stand there like a robot, saying .. I don't get it


Really .... it doesn't matter what you say, because if he responded back with feelings, you'd go off scratching your head again, wondering what to say back. Makes for a terrible relationship when one is talking, while the other just stands there with a dumbfounded look on their face.

Posted by P-Angel


A Virgo being dim sided when it comes to understanding feelings of themselves or others is quite normal. One just has to look at dxp and read posts from Virgos to know that when it comes to emotional understandings, they have zero clue on how to proceed.

My best friend is a Virgo, and this is a very accurate description of her.

OP - I'm not a Scorp, but if you don't like this guy's neediness, and you've TOLD him it's too much too soon for you and you'd prefer to take things slow, he's gonna do one of two things. Keep doing what he's doing, or try to back off to please you. If it's the former, then don't complain about his neediness if you decide to keep seeing him, he's showing you he's not gonna change. Deal with it or go your own way. If its the latter, take notice that he's trying to change to make you happy and don't read anything more into it than that. Just be happy and go with it.

I'm a Cancerian woman married for 15 years with a Scorpio. I started at my job six months ago. My manager and I same age and he started to attract me ever since I discovered that he is a Scorpio. Everything was very informal between us, it made —??me personal questions like three times. In June I took four days of rest and when I returned in the morning meeting I was cheering co-workers with hugs and kisses and when he pass by me looked at me like asking me "... and my hug and kiss?" . I just looked into his eyes and said Hi.

After that he always teasing me, sometimes I answer, some pretend I was not listening. Once he was talking to another coworker and I sat with them and this fellow told him that I was having the attention of all the guys and he said "it sometimes scares me, I'm afraid of her. "I do not say anything.

I was curious what he wants from me and I decided to find into his eyes. I walk by him and looked deep into his eyes, he looked at me and gave a beautiful smile and looked away.

In July again I took four days to rest when I returned in the morning meeting I was greeting co-workers with kisses and hugs and this time gave him a special hug. He was happy and smiling with the hug. The same day another co worker made —??a comment in front of me that this guy is single.

A few days later I was talking and laughing with a coworker and this guy was sitting at another table and started to look at me and make that guy was mad. A few days later I had a dress with a lace in my back and he told me that my tie was wrong and fixed it for me.

A few days later I was walking down the hall and he was entering the elevator alone, inside the elevator he was staring at me and extended the neck until the elevator door closed.

Few days after that we are sitting and talking about things of work in the office with open door each one in a chair facing each other and in the middle of the conversation he made mention of touching my leg, but hesitated. He stared into my eyes, I stared at him. I felt uncomfortable because he hesitated. I felt rejected. Do not understand why he hesitated.
Two weeks ago I look him in his eyes - I want him to know that I like him without say any word -and he told me I think you are confused, I answer " No I am not I know exactly what I want".


This guy is interested in me or what?Or he just playing.
I understand he is my manager and I am affraid to be direct with him and he is probably feeling the same

Posted by ninha22

... he started to attract me ever since I discovered that he is a Scorpio.

... I stared at him. I felt uncomfortable because he hesitated. I felt rejected.

I want him to know that I like him without say any word

Posted by ninha22

I'm a Cancerian woman married for 15 years with a Scorpio.

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