His birthday is 11/17 and he is 30 yrs old. We met about 2 weeks back at work. He invited me to come out to happy hour with his coworkers and I went. He seem so into me and everything was great. He asked for my # that night but I told him no but if he asked me tmr I will give him. The next day he bumped into each other and he came to get my number. I didn't see him b4 he left for the weekend but he texted me something sweet. We didn't talk all weekend but he did text me for Xmas. I came back to work on Wednesday and he came to see me but talked to my manager instead. He was sweet wanting to take me home becus of the snow, inviting me out to dinners or bars he was attending. Thurs I had a few drinks and texted him and he came and we had a drink. We ended up going back to my room and made out but didn't have sex since he didn't have a condom. But we cuddled and he would every so often kiss the back on my neck in a affectionate way. Anyways fri came around and we were hanging out and I guess he seemed stress. He didn't want to talk about work and I tried my best to lighten the mood. One thing led to another and I jokingly called him an idiot. He got upset and was like at this point in my life I don't need this ****. Since i had his shirt from the night before i asked him ro take his shirt and he said keep it. He stormed out of my room and has been ignoring my calls and text. My last text to him was something along the lines like.. "i dont understand what is going on but i was hoping we could talk about this. sorry if i offended you the other day..i understand if you need your space but thought id send this text to make sure you are doing okay."It's been a week and a day now and i havent heard anything from him.I heard scorpio men go through phases of disappearing acts.. Is this typical? I know it's been only 2 weeks but I really like him and really want to get to know him. What should i do? is it completely over? should i forget him? Any advice from scorpio men will be greatly appreciated :-)
I really can't remember how exactly it came out...but i was just joking with him. I told him in one of the texts that it was only a joke! I feel super bad and wish I could have been more supportive. Prior to this, we had a nice room service dinner and we were just lying down talking. I really want to call him again but i dont want to come off crazy or needy. I have hope that once he is ready to talk (if he does ever) he will contact me. Is this true?
Scorpio men are sensitive and things that you might say in a jocking manner might really offend him. They hold onto things alot. I just went through something similar with my boyfriend who is a scorpio. He ignored me. What I did was even though he didn't respond I sent him sweet text flattering him while trying ti get my point across that we nees to talk. For example you are such a sweetheart and I love spending time with yiu I don't want this to end without even having a chance ti talk to you. I guess its a little different for you because you guys are not together. Scorpios also have to believe you are sorry you have to show it.
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