What to think?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by randomly on Sunday, December 9, 2012 and has 10 replies.

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13 Years

I've been friends with a Scorpio male. He seems to be attracted to me but then he started to date someone else, something he told me before he told his other friends. I asked him if he was attracted to me and he said that he had no interest in being with me and that we were not friends. I told him I am both of those things to him and that wouldn't change. We stopped talking for 6 months. Finally I told him I felt like he was done with me and that I wasn't going to contact him again. He responded and said that 'no, he wasn't done with me; that he just needed distance.'

I am giving him his space but now I'm wondering; if we are not friends and he isn't interested in me, why does he need distance? And why for so long?

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Why do you want him? I don't intend that in a mean way, but he has said he has no interest in you and you're not friends. Uhhh.....what didn't you understand?

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13 Years

You need to fall back. If he wants to be with you and be around you, he will show up in your life some way, some how. If he doesn't come back into your life in the next month or so. He's gone for good. If we want Something/Someone we will do EVERYTHING IN OUR POWER TO TRY AND GET IT, until we know for an Absolute Fact its not obtainable. Hear Me!

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Posted by PP
You need to fall back. If he wants to be with you and be around you, he will show up in your life some way, some how. If he doesn't come back into your life in the next month or so. He's gone for good. If we want Something/Someone we will do EVERYTHING IN OUR POWER TO TRY AND GET IT, until we know for an Absolute Fact its not obtainable. Hear Me!

+1 from a venus in scorp

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@randomly
13 Years

Thanks!

I get what you're saying TrueCap and there is alittle more to it than I can explain. But I will add that he also said he didn't want to rule out us being together and for someone he says isn't his friend he has shared alot with me. At the time I think he was a little freaked out. I just started to wonder why he needed so much time if i truly mean nothing to him and why he refuses to let me go when i let him go.

Also, I