Helping A Scorpio Woman

Okay, I'm not sure if I should have done this but I did it already done it, I just don't know ...


Over the last month or so, I've gotten know this scorpio woman who is friends with my saggie-cap roommate. However, they are friends now, they broke up earlier this year -- so the scorpio is really his ex but they decided to be friends in the meantime -- partly because she couldn't let go of her feelings for him and he didn't want to hurt her no more then he already had.

*he cheated on her and she found out about it on facebook*


Anyway, my roommate has a lot of girls 'hanging on a string' as some may like to call it -- all 5 of time are virgo women (one's on a cusp)believe it or not :/ He likes to be able to screw them at any given time, get them to buy him whatever he wants and use them as status symbols ... being a women, I don't agree with it, I don't care if I live with him, I don't like it but its none of my business.

*He has a FWB arangement with all these girls accept for the scorpio*

He uses the scorpio woman to get him homework and to transport him to the places he needs to go. However, he still pulls at her heart strings when she is reluctant to do something because he knows that she still has feeling for him. He even has her under the impression that he's not with anyone else, which is very naive on her part I must say.

Anyway, so yesterday she comes bye because he uses her car for transportation. She was so upset to find out from me that he wasn't home because she rushed to get all of her stuff done so he could use her car and so she could help him with his homework.

Although, I was in a hurry to get somewhere, I felt compelled to talk to her because I could see the emotion and the denial in her eyes when she was ranting about how she rushed over here (because he told her too) and he wasn't home.

*She feels as if he still has control over her even as a friend ... I felt really bad for her because I know the mind game he's pulling on her. He tells her they are just friends but he still gives her that 'baby talk' to rope her in*

Unlike the other girls, the scorpio woman is different because she's not some tramp off the street. She's a woman who is trying to figure out what to do with her life and how to live her life without my saggie-capricorn roommate.

I made a deal with him, that I wouldn't discuss his personal life with anyone because I don't want him to do it to me. However, I felt the need to give her a few *clues* -- like, not exactly telling her anything concerning his personal life but kinda letting her know that she could do so much better than him without telling her any of his .. business.

After our talk she gave me a hug and started crying 😢 ... oh dear, I felt so bad, I came to the conclusion that she was not ready to be friends with him right after the break up and I told her that. I also suggested that she not stop dating because of him and to start looking for other guys outside of him.

She thanked me so much for our conversation and said she needed that talk because she's been feeling like if she did all these things for him, they would get back together. I guess in my own way, I let her know that she shouldn't wait for him and that she can be his friend but take it slow and not be so giving.

She agreed but she said it was hard because she thought he was the one ...



Now, my question here is: Was I right for helping her? Of did I over-step my boundaries ... although I didn't really tell her anything 'straight' out.

Posted by ariessun
^^huh? why would you worry about it? the ONLY thing i would worry about, is what she's gonna do to him, when it finally sinks in and she realizes what a dog he's been. after all, she IS a scorpio woman. and frankly, if i were you, i'd find another roomie a.s.a.p...ya don't want to end up as collateral damage if ya know what i'm saying... 😉 i pity him, in a way. but then again, what goes around, comes around.
seriously cs, you didn't do anything wrong. not at all. later girly.. 🙂

Hi there *waves*

haha, you are like the 50th person both online and offline that has said that I should find another roommate soon. oh dear ...

And you are right, I don't want to end up as collateral damage because, well, one of the girls is starting to sneak up on him now -- one of the virgo girls whose very, very, very much in love with him. She doesn't like me because she's very silly ... its not me he uses to buy grocery, its her lol.

The scorpio woman is very sweet and she's very pretty -- I told her that and it made her smile 🙂 Because its the truth, the less time she spends on him, the better off she'll be.

Get this, she comes over and helps him (more like does it all) with his homework and she's not even in school right now. She had to stop and work. He's asking her to do his work for him (thats what she basically) does instead of trying to help her got back to school so she can complete her undergrad ... isn't that what "friends" are suppose to do?

My roommates full of shit and I know it ... thats the only reason I gave her 'clues' because I know how nice she is. she does stuff from the heart hoping he'll appreciate it and he does but its more in a 'she should do this for me because I'm the most amazing guy ever' -- his arrogance can get under my skin.

My roommate and I are a bit more open with each other than usual because we were buddies before we moved in together.

My god, if I knew he was this bad before signing that lease, I would have totally said no and I would have had to find another person to live with.

Anyway, thank you ariessun 🙂 I was just hoping that since I am 'technically' his friend that I didn't do a breach of trust or something because I didn't 'tell' her anything 😉

You know, a few years ago I 'was' in her shoes. I had my own version of my saggie-cap roomiw in the form of a gemini-cancer guy. I believed everything he told me and all that jazz while he screwing around with other woman. Even after I tried to be friends with him, it bothered me that I didn't know what he was doing.

So, I had to completely cut him off and ... lets see, I didn't talk to him for almost two years. Thats when he and I were really able to be friends -- after I was able to 'get over him' totally. I needed time away from him to get all that stuff out of my head.

The scorpio woman didn't have enough time away from him, regardless to what she told me. I know that for a fact because they broke up around the end of February. I know that because it was the saggie-cap guy -- we are buddies in a way -- helped me break up with my ex around the middle of march, during my springbreak.

So therefore he and I were kinda celebrating the fact that we were both single and free again ... but I didn't know that it was her he was breaking up with. I didn't even know that she was his girlfriend until he wanted to break up with her. I thought she was just a buddy because I saw him with another woman that I thought was his girlfriend -- that was the girl he was cheating on her with 😢

You know, as she was crying, the Scorpio woman looked at me and said, "You know something. You know something and you're not telling me ...".

Of course I know stuff but I'm not going to tell her -- that wouldn't be right plus that would hurt her too. Plus, I would not be able to look the saggie-cap in the face because I would have known what I've done.

Posted by FeistyAquarian
I think that was a good thing you did. Sometimes, girls needs hints to move on...I wish I would have had some with certain guys I dated. But at least she kind of has an idea and can hopefully move on to someone deserving of her time. I would have had a hard time biting my tongue, but you sound like you did a good job 🙂

haha, well see thats the thing FA. It is hard for me to hold my tongue, I only do it because theres some sort of unsung loyalty between us. In addition, we are both saggie-capricorn cusp borns -- theres an an understanding between us because we are simular in some instants but the one main difference is that I will not under any circumstance manipulate the way he does to get any guy to do anything for me.

He's use that penis between his legs to manipulate the hell out of all these girls -- being that they are virgo woman, I'm surprised at how guillible that are :/

Hahaha, he and I were talking once about our sun sign and how we are both on the cusp or whatever -- rarity this happens I tell you -- and we both said that we have a way with virgos ^_^. But I told him that my only difference is that I don't take advantage ... he does.

To be completely honest, if I didn't like this scorpio woman as much as I do, I wouldn't tell her anything. Not a thing, I wouldn't care because what my roomie does is his business. However, you see, he got in my business concerning a certain leo-virguy and thats one of the main reasons the L-V and I broke apart, because of his 'indirect-meddling'. Now, those other girls -- I don't favor any of them and they don't care for me either, they give women a bad name in my book by being so down right slutty. I mean, listen, its fine to like and enjoy sex -- hell, I do. Heavens, I love it ^_^. However, its a difference between being empowered by your sexuality and being a whore who is a wannabe empowered woman. Anytime you would leave your children who are not even 10 years old yet to come screw a day all night long shows me ... well, you get my point ^_^.


So nope, I happen been too happy with him over the last on-coming days. Nope, not at all. Plus, when he felt like one of those virgo woman was going to do something physical to him, who in the heck did he come to? ME lol!!! To say he wants me to stay out of his business, he'll involve me in a heart beat if he thinks he's in trouble.

Oh, I didn't mension that the Scorpio woman has a leo moon. So yes, she can be fiery but she has a big heart.