scorptoohott
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Hey Scorps , Have you ever forgiven an ex?
Erase him Hun! Im a scorp w/ Capp moon and one thing I know for sure is to always trust what the heck my instincts are telling me. I've Erased all of my ex's because if they were so great they wouldn't be an "ex"
Posted by SupremeQueen
Erase him Hun! Im a scorp w/ Capp moon and one thing I know for sure is to always trust what the heck my instincts are telling me. I've Erased all of my ex's because if they were so great they wouldn't be an "ex"
so true!
Posted by ScorpGem
Absolutely not. I dated this Taurus casually until he told me he did not want a relationship with me. Then I disappeared from his life and one year later, he tried to come back by telling me how much he loved me and he made a mistake. All that jazz. Turns out he realized I was the one after he got rejected by this other girl. I said I'm gone and I'm gonna stay gone, have a nice life.
No way will I ever allow an ex back into my life especially if THEY chose to let me go. They gotta live with their choice and deal with the consequences. If it haunts them forever? Good, that'll teach them. If they could not see I was special from the start, then it's their loss.
God knows how many exes have tried to come back .. not to mention the guys who rejected me. Yeah right. If I'm not a priority from day one, I want nothing to do with you. I don't want to be second choice.
that made so much sense
Posted by CluelessCancer
So what happens if you feel like the guy you dated really didn't have alot of experience with women, and want him to have it, before he comes back to you?
are you than 2nd choice, cause he left you?
im never a choice , he'd have to put it major work to ever get this back. I'm no fool. he does this all the time , he's hurt so many people. i just want to know his motive.
Posted by CluelessCancer
How about if he wasn't seeing another chick when he left the girl (more like disappeared, pussy way to break up), but more likely than not he's dating other chicks, if he comes back, would it be bad to try to work things out a second time around?
yes , I don't like games , I value honesty and loyalty if you don't want me then fuck off but dont string me along.
Posted by ScorpGem
This is ridiculous. Experienced or not experienced, relationships are dictated by feelings. I'm sorry but he did not choose to leave her to get experience, he left her for someone else which puts her in this backup position. When you truly like a person, it doesn't matter how much experience you have, you just can't let them go. He let her go for someone else, which clearly means he had stronger feelings for that other person, which puts her in second position de facto.
Now, I'm sure he's sensing things are starting to go south with his girlfriend, so he's preparing the field in case they break up, he'll have OP wrapped around his finger and will be able to go back to her easily. This is crystal clear.
I'll let you believe that.
Posted by ScorpGem
Absolutely not. I dated this Taurus casually until he told me he did not want a relationship with me. Then I disappeared from his life and one year later, he tried to come back by telling me how much he loved me and he made a mistake. All that jazz.
No way will I ever allow an ex back into my life especially if THEY chose to let me go. They gotta live with their choice and deal with the consequences. If it haunts them forever? Good, that'll teach them. If they could not see I was special from the start, then it's their loss.
God knows how many exes have tried to come back .. not to mention the guys who rejected me. Yeah right. If I'm not a priority from day one, I want nothing to do with you. I don't want to be second choice.
forgive....maybe in time...
FORGET? likely never.
FORGET? likely never.
Posted by ryu8
forgive....maybe in time...
FORGET? likely never.
++[infinity]
I've forgiven my ex. I can honestly think, "Thank you for the experience," but not say it out loud (due to sounding rude and weird-ish). I view him now as if some sort of idiot brother. He still feels like family. I'd still care if something bad happened. I love him as if family, but I would NEVER trust him, with anything, but especially myself. He could never have me back (if he came asking) because I have lost respect for him. He's fickle. He doesn't know what he wants. I'm upset with him mildly, since recently I learned that being with me and then leaving me did not in fact teach him anything about what he's really after. (I'd thought it had. Being with him helped me grow. I thought I'd helped him grow, too. Apparently not.) He's still using the I-dunno approach to getting to know new people, and isn't really trying. Perhaps what I've taught him is that he needs to be alone for awhile to figure himself out. That's what he's doing, anyway. Absorbed in his hobbies. Hopefully that's good, and hopefully he learns something eventually. I do care. And when he finally figures himself out one day, this new and mild irritation will disappear.
But hopefully he never decides that leaving me was a mistake he should try to rectify. Yes, he was rash, and it's possible it was a mistake on his end. I was good to him. I was supportive and took interest in the things he likes. I'm also too intense for him, which is typical, but alas. And I've moved on. I'm not going back. Staying friends was his idea, and I'm decent with it; it seems the mature thing to do. But if he tries to come back to more, I DO have a stinger, which he has never seen, and I just may have to use it.
eventually. it's what it takes to move on emotionally, spiritually and mentally.
just because i have chosen to forgiven does not mean that you will go back to lover status. you will be a far distant friend. more than likely, if you're contacting me again, you're trying to get back that lover status. but you will not ever be able to go back to that point again. that will torture you, but nothing you do or say will make me grant you that status again. that alone will drive you mad.
trust me, i've been through that. slick bastards thought that some nice gestures and words would make me forget why they are exes in the first place. no, it didnt work. some people use kindness as tools of evil and persuasion. once they see i will never be swayed, they go off into obscurity. this is their own choosing, but it does not bother me either way. even the devil can appear sweet-hearted and kind. very wordy also...using extravagant words and compliments to try to weaken your stance, but watch how disenchanted one becomes once they see their subtle manipulation it doesn't work. then they disappear. forgiveness yes, but sucker no.
trust me, i've been through that. slick bastards thought that some nice gestures and words would make me forget why they are exes in the first place. no, it didnt work. some people use kindness as tools of evil and persuasion. once they see i will never be swayed, they go off into obscurity. this is their own choosing, but it does not bother me either way. even the devil can appear sweet-hearted and kind. very wordy also...using extravagant words and compliments to try to weaken your stance, but watch how disenchanted one becomes once they see their subtle manipulation it doesn't work. then they disappear. forgiveness yes, but sucker no.
I do forgive (thank you cancer moon!) BUT, I will NEVER forget. I will never get back with an ex if it ended really badly. ESPECIALLY if he broke my TRUST. That's a big NO in my book. Even if they try, I NOTICE the signs, think about how they treated me before, and follow my instinct.
Ugh, two of my failures made contact with me this year. I immediately shut them down. Never AGAIN. Play with someone else heart -___-
Ugh, two of my failures made contact with me this year. I immediately shut them down. Never AGAIN. Play with someone else heart -___-
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