All The Scorp ~Feels

I'm in a situation where no matter how much I care, I just CANNOT express how I feel to a particular person. I want to be one of those people able to shout their love from a rooftop, but I barely manage a whisper, lol. Any of you Scorps feel the same way? Do you also have issues with vulnerability?

Oh most definitely. Absolutely terrified actually. Fear of rejection is probably one of my greatest fears.

Posted by Scorp916
I'm in a situation where no matter how much I care, I just CANNOT express how I feel to a particular person. I want to be one of those people able to shout their love from a rooftop, but I barely manage a whisper, lol. Any of you Scorps feel the same way? Do you also have issues with vulnerability?

i count to 3 and i blurt it out

Posted by silentkiller
Ha ha, TOTALLY know how you feel. I always think and think and have imaginary conversations, but when I see the person, I go blank or just feel like, they don't really want that Deep intense sentimental declaration of love😄 Always makes me Wonder: DO I REALLY feel like this, or do i just WANT TO feel like this, and that's why I never say anything in real life... Hmm... I don't know still...

But there is some truth to just: jump! Dive into it! You'll feel stronger afterwards (hopefully😉 )

interesting, i do the same fantasizing. if people only knew

Posted by Neurotoxin
It's like a bandaid...just yank it off

Easier said than done! I feel like I've had so many openings, but have just flopped. I'm horrible when it comes to spontaneity, and even when I try to plan my "big reveal" so to speak, if the details don't fall into place I nix those plans all together.

Posted by Kalean
I go as far as avoiding the person I like or have an interest in. Wish I could be as outspoken as I am online.

Ugh, yes! I'll see them and literally go the opposite direction and think on it later like "Why did you do that??" It's like I'm sending the totally wrong signals.

Posted by OwlPharaoh
What exactly happened? How come can't you express yourself to this person?

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Just fear of rejection. Had a previous relationship go south pretty quickly, so I'm just super guarded right now.

Hahaha.

Scorpio are mysterious people.They prefer to whisper to their lover than to shout out at the roof top

and that is sexy... embrace yourself.

Scorpio here.

Hmmmm , interesting info , I am into a Scorpio right now , seems he is doing what you are , I would so prefer he told me straight up how he feels so we can get this show on the road .
Do it , leap !

Ahhhh... Yes.... the old.. "jump in without thinking" trick.
Well, a word of advice. Take a .45 along with you.
This way, when you jump into the sea of love, you can shoot a hole in the bottom of that damned dingy.
This way, the ocean will drain out and you can walk home when it all dries out.

I totally understand how you feel. It takes soooo much for me to open up to people. For some reason though, when I do actually open up-I get absolutely nothing in return from them. Just a blank stare and no words returned. Freakin hurts my heart, and makes me not ever want to open up.

Dam scorps , y gotta leap sometimes , besides , we want to know !!!!
Your post promted me to tell my Scorpio I was interested today ...
He has not run away yet , lol , were at work , I got a text winky smile

Posted by suebee
Dam scorps , y gotta leap sometimes , besides , we want to know !!!!
Your post promted me to tell my Scorpio I was interested today ...
He has not run away yet , lol , were at work , I got a text winky smile

And I'm pretty sure that winky smile conceals a whole plethora of emotions underneath. As Scorps we're so good at seeming completely disinterested when we're really screaming on the inside, lol. Jealous though that you took the leap. I'm still over here trying to grow a pair.

Posted by Scorp916
I'm in a situation where no matter how much I care, I just CANNOT express how I feel to a particular person. I want to be one of those people able to shout their love from a rooftop, but I barely manage a whisper, lol. Any of you Scorps feel the same way? Do you also have issues with vulnerability?

yes.. I am the exact same way. And in all honesty, it could be my down fall one of these days.

Although, I will say however, I tend to open up more under the influence of alcohol (introvert to extrovert) . You may want to try having a glass of wine or whichever alcoholic beverage you choose with your significant other and see if that helps. Technically may be cheating, but at least you've got it out in the open and can move forward. Good luck.

Oh , think my scorp interest likes champagne , lol, I'm buying him a huge bottle , lol

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Posted by Scorp916
I'm in a situation where no matter how much I care, I just CANNOT express how I feel to a particular person. I want to be one of those people able to shout their love from a rooftop, but I barely manage a whisper, lol. Any of you Scorps feel the same way? Do you also have issues with vulnerability?

yes.. I am the exact same way. And in all honesty, it could be my down fall one of these days.

Although, I will say however, I tend to open up more under the influence of alcohol (introvert to extrovert) . You may want to try having a glass of wine or whichever alcoholic beverage you choose with your significant other and see if that helps. Technically may be cheating, but at least you've got it out in the open and can move forward. Good luck.

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Can we both be under the influence? That way there's a safety net. I'm all for pretending to not remember the next morning, lol.

Reminds me of how I dealt with my ex. I used to visit him at work regularly feeling all passion and romance for him, when I actually got there I was mute, quiet, a little mouse he would have to open me up by initiating the first move.

I got better at it though..

>_