How much do people really change?

What has changed you the most, or influenced you the most to change?

I think for me, it's when I spend time alone, talking to God, that I realize the most. I used to think writing allowed that, or inspirational friends, but I think the trust change comes from deep inside ourselves.

trust - truest

Where is DB to clarify this?

A disaster/hardship

To thine ownself be true.

My life and the way I used to live it is what changed me 4 years ago
I was off the chain, and I don't regret a thing

Well, how much could I really change, I'm a bull, but I love to learn & grow! How about my scorpio-babe...would we grow together? I know me & him have a lot of things in our past (before we met each other) that we can't bring forward with us.

That's the thing with characters like us, we are passionate, so likely lots of things in the past to make a person wonder how much control they will have in their future.
I don't want passion changes, AT ALL, but I just wonder how much we grow up I guess.

Where is DB to clarify this?

I know right? 🙂


There are a lot of things in my life that could have caused change, though I don't think it is any one in particular- I think through each experience we grow and learn. Things happen to people who make them happen- you have to change yourself- no one but you can do that- so maybe there is not just one event that changes you- all things chip away at your personality and the way you see the world. Though we are hit hard when negative things happen, I believe that those things are the most important; the most character building- I would not trade in any bad experiences because they are just as nessesary if not more important than the positive experiences. Someone very intelligent once told me that it is all in how you look at it; in other words- now something has happened- it is up to you to determine how you will react. Have found that the most exhilerating change happens when you just let go and let life happen 🙂

Usually the people in my life inspire me to change,they don't ask for it or anything will just be there with them and something will hit me.Example:My niece was a little shy once which was off and realized I didn't spend enough time with them so changed that.