How to deal with moody Libra/Scorpio Cusp guy?

Hello everyone. I could really use some advice on this guy that I really like. I don't really know about astrology all that much except the zodiac signs. He does act like a Scorpio more than a Libra. I am a Pisces female born March 18. He is a Libra-Scorpio Cusp born October 19. I like him a lot and he is such a sweetheart but he can be so confusing at times. We have been talking on and off for the past 10 months. For instance I met him around October and then we stopped talking for a little bit until March. I have always liked him. Then we stopped talking once again until June. After that we stopped talking until now. All these times it was because he withdrew from me. I mean of course it hurt, but I tried to move on and then next thing you know, out of the blue he sends me a happy text. I'm not sure if he talks to other girls but he seems to always make me feel special. Before whenever we talked he would take forever to text me back or he would only say a few words. But yesterday I saw a side to him I have never seen before.

He was just so kind and made me feel admired. He would always send missy faces or smiley faces. We talked all day.He even stayed up wth me because he was tired and I wasnt. Called me gorgeous and I of course returned the favor.

This friday he invited me to a party he was throwing at his house. There will be drinking and dancing but it will be clean. He also asked me if I wanted tp spend the night. I of course said yes. Then earlier today he asked if he just should blow the party so it can just be me and him. I thoought it was so sweet but I said not because he already had planned everything, had his place cleaned and invited people. I just said we could hang out the day after since he doesn't work.

Today he doesn't work so we were going to go to the movies and to the mall but I had to cancel last minute because I need to help my mother move. I felt so awful. Then he kind of pulled back. :/ He just didn't text me back and I asked him was the plan still on for Friday.

And he just didn't respond. I just felt so upset. And after a few hours I just texted him and said "..No?" As in I guess I'm not going to come over or go to the party. Then responded back right after with "Yes." Like I just felt like crying. He saw my messages but just didn't reply I guess. He is so hot and cold and I understand that because he is a Libra but has TONS of Scorpio traits.
I like him... a lot and I just feel like I am way in over my head and

And he truly doesn't like me and is just messing around.

When I went to bed last night I felt like the happiest girl on the planet. Then I woke up to a good morning gorgeous text from him and it was just amazing. Now I feel like a stupid girl who just fell for his tricks.

The thing is I have never been in a relationship before or had a boyfriend. I am still a virgin and I had my first and only kiss with a guy in the 4th grade. I just felt so trusting with him and I opened up with him.

I know he he is not like most guys, I just feel it in my heart. He is so attractive and sensual but I can tell he doesn't talk to me just to get into my pants.

I just don't want to have my heart broken in my first real relationship with a guy.

I don't know if I can be this patient though. It really hurts. I don't even know if he truly likes me.

I really don't know what to do and how to respond.

Could someone please just give me advice on how to approach this next?

Thank you!

And I'm sorry for this long message.

Also he is 18 turning 19 this October and I am 17.

He's definitely talking to other girls, and honestly I advise you to talk to other guys, if you're not already doing so. Just do your own thing because he sounds very non committal right now. Do you, have fun, and live. You and I are around the same age and my new plan is to focus on me and enjoy my youth. Unfortunately, many young guys aren't worth it.

Ruuuuun.

He's talking to other chicks and you just happen to have his attention for now, hence all those flowery words. All those previous times where he "pulled back" is likely that there were other girls that had his attention and probably heard a lot of the same things told to you.

Just do you and don't revolve your life around this dude. That Scorp bs brings on all that heavy intense stuff, but that light and airy Libra bs will make him flit back and forth until he finally makes up his mind.

My ex was a Libra/Scorp cusper (fricken moody as hell), and the last one that I dated recently was a Libra- one of which did exactly what yours is doing.

I KNEW he was talking to other girls though. But overall, same bullshit- non committal. When confronted, there was a lot of bs backpedalling (which told me he was indeed not interested in a relationship) and I just backed off and threw his ass in the friend's category and it is where he will stay. Ain't nobody got time for a guy who wants to keep his playing field open with lots of options. It is not fun being an option and you deserve better.

Overall, look out for you in this scenario. He sure as hell isn't because he's only looking out for himself.

Thank you so much. I agree...@cappy129 He called me tonight though and we talked. I'm going to hang our. But I will also try to to get so attached easliy. And @ellessque I know he's a Libra but I put it on the Scorpio forum because he has more of those traits.

What ellessque is trying to say is...

"A Libra male is put on the Earth to ensure Pisces girls fall head over heels in love, with complete abandon of all good sense, and are destroyed totally, one tiny dagger in your heart at a time... and you would not be this attracted to him if he was a Scorpio. If he was Scorpio, you would be playing a game with him, whether you realized it or not."

However, it is obvious that you hurt his feelings when you cancelled on him and so now he has some trust issues... so why would he not blow you off...after putting you through the shredder for a while?

You will be seeking his approval now, and he will be denying you that approval, which will make him and the challenge he represents ABSOLUTELY irresistible to you.

Posted by IrresistableScorp

Posted by ElizabethStewart


I just don't want to have my heart broken in my first real relationship with a guy.

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Everyone gets their heartbroken UNLESS the relationship lasts a lifetime of pure bliss. This is not a good reason not to put yourself out there. Heartbreak is going to happen, why spend anytime thinking about it until it happes?

BTW, it took me a long time to figure that out. 🙂

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This. It's what came to mind when I read this. "Wtf, how idealistic. Everyone gets heartbroken at some point- many a time it's that first love, too." Talk about wanting to live a sheltered life.

Oh and you worry about your virginity? Staying the night at his house is likely a way for him to get some ass from you. Just sayin' if you haven't figured that one out yet either.

Honey... I am a Leo {Aug, 5th} who has kids by & is still with my Libra-Scorpio with an Aquarius moon {which I also have myself}. He throws fits, runs hot & cold and all that! I just let him be who he is and do me. I'm not very communicative myself.. So a lot of the time he will start some sh*t and I take charge and then he goes vindictive & retard, then I just mortal combat his a**, then ignore him and go silent and do me. Ain't nobody got time for all that. I'm to busy being fabulous.. never needed to chase and never will. Just ignore the dude and when he tries to make you remember him, just be short with him and keep it pushing. If they are interested {Libra-Scorps} they will chase you. They have an "addictive" personality...which means..it's in the bag! You got this. Don't let them try to define what the relationship will be, because it will be like watching a dog chase it's tail. You be the one to initiate and make the rules and stand firm. If he can't go with it, he will scat, if he grows to love you and see your dependable he will be with you for many moons but you might be the one to leave later because you may bore of his tantrums and blaming you for things he chose to do, that went wrong. Either way.. The relationship will have lots of "Drama" it's what they do best honey.