I don't like you either

Why is it that me and other Scorpio's of my gender don't get along right from the start? And it's not me who starts it, it's the other one who doean't like me first and I find out she's a Scorpio. Ew. And it's like this passionate hate we have for eachother. I've had these problems with 7 Scorpios, 2 are my friends now, and 5 still hate me. Any other Scorpio have this problem, not hitting it off with other members of your sign to well.

*doesn't

I've only gotten that w/Scorpio men, I dated one with my same b-day, man he was and still is an egocentric a**... Other than that, I've found that we're extremists on everything, from liking someone to hating them. Maybe that has something to do w/it..

Ummmm. They are mesmerised with me. So I wont run them down.

for me...i got many scorpio ex-schoolmates..and initially when i saw them. i just simply dislike them for no reasons, probably the way they acted.
and when i get the school magazines that categorized students according to their signs..i was so shocked to find out that they are all scorpion.....i was like
" ooooOOOOOOhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"
and i got 2 close-friends ( i wont say best friend..cause i find myself hard to trust people somemore im a scorpio ) ..well we get along quite okay. not to say very very good. but its okay. cause i think we dont really trust each others too, BUT..WE DO TREAT EACH OTHERS AS FRIEND very sincerely and never deceive ....not like other signs ( i wont mention what signs cause i dont want any to misunderstood, thats jus my opinion ) who take friends' advantages.......!!!!!!!!!

Well, they probably see you as a threat Beautiful Scorp. Most scorp gals I have met just KNOW when they walk into a room that all eyes are on them. If there's another Scorp gal there, though, they know they've got some serious competition. 😉

I also dated a scorp man (I'm scorp too) and my cousin is also a scorp male. I don't know why, but the scorp males are the most self-absorbed, most selfish, egocentric men I've seen out there! (second comes Capricorn men) It's unbelievable! The maternal, nurturing instincts must soften up us women, we're certainly not that bad.

In terms of not getting along...It depends. One thing I noticed is that I don't meet a lot of scorpios to begin with. But the ones I've met, I've bonded with immediately, sharing the quiet perception that we're both weird in some way, that we both know more and feel more than we show. That we perceive the world in a certain uncanny way. Sometimes one look in the eye will be enough, and you know what the other scorpio's thinking.

That said, I also often get annoyed with my cousin's silences, his sneaky and scheming ways. And also my ex, he'd do anything to make sure he didn't get the short end of the stick. It was such a turn-off.

I guess, I don't get along well with the men, but women...it can be empowering. That is, if both choose to open up! If not, then I can see competition happening.

No, just curious. (lol)

LMAO, Sweet-P... hush, no ones flirting...shoot, not me.
Sweet P, I understand where you're coming from, I heard some of us give off that vibe. But do you hit it off well with people of your own sign, right away? Cause I don't.

Okay so I'm a dork and have no idea how to start a new topic... I have a problem, and it begins with this guy.. Well a couple of them actually, and I need my fellow scorp advice... If there's nothing else I know about us, we give damn good advice.

Kay here goes... A while ago I met these two guys (pisces, and cancer), I was keen to the pisces, but when his girl showed up I figured that was that. But then the cancer, was really sweet and down to earth, and I have a lot in common. From what I've read of cancer, even on the topics, he's waayyyy a-typical... Well the friend that brought me to the place where I met them both asked me what I thought of them, well I'm a little shallow, I told her it was too bad the pisces was keen to that girl, but the cancer was really cool. Well she didn't want him (pisces)to be in that relationship, and to make a long story short, she set me up with him. Well, not too long after that did I find I was getting very very attracted to that cancer that I met the same day. I didn't think it was fair to the pisces, so I decided to give it a great try with him. I do love him still... But, there was a rough patch of time, and he and I parted ways. I asked him what he thought about me going after the cancer (they're family, I realize this is sounding kinda Jerry Springer-ish) after he and I had been apart for about 6mo's. He said it was fine, so I decided to give it a shot. Well things happened between us, but the cancer told me he thought it would be best if we didn't couple up, cause he feared that it might hurt the pisces.. I could do nothing but respect his wishes, so that was that... So I thought... A while later, I found myself in the same situation with him, and then again.. It goes for maybe about six or so months till we see eachother, he flashes me that 'look' and I'm done for. I haven't been able to put closure on the situation, cause it never feels like it's done. And I can't seem to open myself up to another person because of it. The second I see him, all logic goes out the window. He's a beautiful person, I know it, but I can't seem to touch that, and maybe I shouldn't, I'm not sure. So here's where my dilemna comes into play. I know cancers take their time, he's even told me he needed time, but how can I tell he's not playing me for a fool? Should I just walk away from them both? It was a lot of year that me and the pisces were together, we tried again cause I thought I had everything I needed figured out, but I saw that cancer, and it pretty much told me I didn't. I didn't think that was fair to the pisces so I broke it off with him again, just to have a night or two w/the cancer and then to be without again, being haunted by my thoughts.

As you can tell I need some perspective here... As messed up of a situation as it is, I'm really trying to do the right thing, but I can't seem to figure out what it is anymore...

If cancers want to give me some perspective, that would be awesome too... 🙂

Storm,
Your story is a bit complicated. I can tell you wrote it from the depths of your head, where we get so absorbed in the subject, it becomes easy to assume you're absolutely clear to the readers. It isn't!

But from what I understand in a nutshell, you're a scorp girl and there's a pisces and cancer guy. You really dig cancer, and he's hesitant because pisces is family, and friend. (and your ex?)

Here's some harsh truth: I'm a scorpio girl who dated Cancer. Cancers follow very old fashioned, traditional values and that would make it almost impossible to go into a relationship if they knew they were betraying a friend, etc. So his action there is typical Cancer. And that's a hard one to change. You might as well be Angelina Jolie...if honor is in question, Cancers have the most solid rules.

It is also true that a Cancer will NEVER make a move unless he's absolutely sure there's potential. They're just like that. They put too much out there, their heart. So it becomes harder to risk.

And you seem truly in love, the painful, masochistic Scorpio fashion. Going for the challenging and unattainable one, not the safe one. I know, I always like a challenge too!

Advice is hard here. You went back and forth too much. First you'd need to gain the Cancer's trust, which takes a while. Be patient. Make your feelings clear with actions. They need reassurance. If you're looking for one word describing what they like, it's "reassurance".

Good luck.

Here, here. Kafka's right. My Cancer guy was burned several times and decided to be alone for the rest of his life. Two years later we meet and it's double-duty on my end; one because I had just gone through a divorce (Cancers don't trust rebound anything)and two, I had to convince him some time later that this wasn't a rebound thing.

Just make damn sure of what you want, because a Cancer man can spot the smallest inflection of indecision a mile off, and then some. Reassurance, Lord yes.

^ You're not lying! 😉

I apologize for being so vague, yes the pisces and I were together for quite some time. The cancer in a way,did make a move, that's what throws me off, I can understand,honor, and respect his stance. But it seems to be with only having a relationship with me, he and I have shared quite a bit of intimacy together, which is why I'm so confused. Being the all or nothing creature that I am, it kills me to try to understand the concept of what he's up to. I would love to walk away from the situation altogether, but I work with my ex (the pisces) and we've stayed great friends throughout this whole soap opera. He still wants me to be apart of his life, which means I have to be around the cancer too. I'm not sure what karma I'm paying right now, but I think I know what hell is like... 😢

I guess I'm just pretty much trying to figure out what the right thing should be. I still and always will love the pisces, forever probably... The right thing might just be me walking away from all of the above, and not turning back. I dunno just going for perspective I guess.. Thanks Kafka you have it dead on, this has been something that has been in my head for a long time. So yeah I guess I can't give too good of a take on things when I'm that far away.. lol.. I appreciate both your and Ladydane's comments... 🙂