I guess...........

I should start cooking for real this time 🙂

Yesterday at work I get an email from my Gem asking how was my day going? I responded ok, how about you? he said so so not having a good day dealing with customers. Well I say "Would you like to come over and feel special and loved" he said "Yes I would love that" I replied back and said do you want me to get you something to drink? he said "yes please,some remy martin" ok. So our date was set in motion.

I get home, started packing for my trip this weekend for my bookclub meeting, washed some clothes, by the time I was finish it was like 7:30pm. I was tired, so cooking was out. I figured if I got to hungry I would eat some oatmeal or somthing lite and go to sleep.

Because I know he can be very very flighty at times, and a lot of times it is because him having a bad day at work, so depending on his tone when I do talk to him I can determine what his mood is like, in the past when he says he coming over, he would not show, so I don't expect to see him a lot of times until I get a phone call, with him saying he changed his mind or he will be here in 30 min. If he don't show I get call first thing in the morning from him saying "Sorry I did not come over I was feeling really depressed" ok

Well last night I was was reading a book chillin not expecting to hear from him and then the phone rings... First thing he says is "What did you cook for dinner" I bust out laughing and said "nothing" (in a hesitant way)so he said "nothing" I got speechless. I hear him on the phone going umh umh umh, so I said "I see it's going to take a bit longer getting use to cookng"

Anyway, he says to me on the phone after huffing & puffing that he was going to "Eddie Leonards" to get a steak and cheese 🙂 did I want anything. I said I would eat what he gets. So he gets to my house and I prepare the food on the plates with chips and soda and we sit and eat and talk. So I suggested that, if he tells me he is coming over or even mention to me that he wants me to cook dinner I will.

I had informed him a few weeks back, when I did fix him dinner, (Porkchops with onions and gravy,broccoli,and rice, I said to him "you know I am not feeling this at all" he walked in the bedroom and sat down. 🙂 So I severed him his food and we sat down to eat. I said to him "I have not cooked for a man in years, this is going to take some getting used to" I don't know what part of me constantly telling him that "I AM NOT A COOK"

I don't really know what to do... I am just not into cooking... I will serve him, keep his clothes clean, house clean, sex him wiht a lot of affections and passion ... but cooking, it really stresses me out, nothing something that I really want to do at least not to keep a man I will just say bye.....

Looks like I either have to start cooking or start making dinner reservations. LOL

buy you a cook book....cooking can be a great hobby...

Hey Dward417

My hobbie is reading and he knows that.

In years past I have always had a man to cook for me.

The Capricorn I dated 3 years ago... Man!! dude was cooking like crazy I just used to sit and drink and watch him in the kitchen keeping flirty conversations going and patiently waiting for my food.

The Scorpio I dated just before the Gem, he would always have something for me to drink and eat and if he did not have anything to eat he would go and pick something up before I got there.

The two virgos I dated prior to the capricorn, was always in my kitchen cooking for me or I was at there house and they would order me something, hell they liked to cook.

I guess you can say I have been spoiled

i think its the sweetest gesture when your man cooks for you....

I think I just like cooking because Ive been cooking for my kids for the last 22 years....i also like cooking on holidays...barbecuing...all that kind of stuff...

I love to hear people say Girl you can throw down! LOL

You don't even have to buy a cookbook. Go online. Look for easy recipes that contain ingredients that you already have.
I can really get excited about dishes that contain 5(give or take)ingredients. Cooking can be fun. And it's kind of nice to hear compliments that others think you are a 'good cook'!!!!!

I dont trust online recipes.....i also think that a good cook would go with her instincts

Posted by dward417
I dont trust online recipes.....i also think that a good cook would go with her instincts

See that is the problem. I am not a good cook.

What I need is a solution to this, apprently he is not a cook either, I am sure the women he has dated in the past cooked for him and then there is me🙂.

I give props to all the women and men that like to cook, and loves being in the kitchen. I don't

I cooked for my son when he was growing up but know that he is 23 (9/25/86) I don't cook for him. He cooks on his own, and is over joyed when he see me in the kitchen cooking.🙂

This is the second or third time we have had these moments when he was coming over and I had nothing for him to eat. I just don't want this flaw of mines to be a problem, especially if I can't fix it right away. And I need him to understand that I am just not domestic like that.

Posted by Astrological Aftermath
u see an aries would have thought on his feet when he said "what did u cook for dinner" .... i would said i cooked u a chinese (or indian, whateva he prefers) meal 🙂 i would then run 2 the nearest chinese (or indian, whateva he prefers) restaurant hahahahahahahahahahahahaha, trust it would have worked. aaaah i tell ya, it's being cardinal

Funny... i can't think that quick espcially on food issues. I sometimes have a hard time figureing out what I want to eat on a daily. Breakfast and lunch is my biggest meal, after that it's whatever.

Funny... i can't think that quick espcially on food issues. I sometimes have a hard time figureing out what I want to eat on a daily. Breakfast and lunch is my biggest meal, after that it's whatever.


yea same here tbh, just grab whateva. but laugh out load scorpoinlady i can just picture it now,... ... an innocent little scorpionlady standing in the middle of her kitchen thinking long and hard what 2 eat, what 2 eat, what 2 eat. u glance at the ham, then u glance at the cheese and butter,.... then u glance at the bread and think 2 urslef for an hour or 2, desperately trying 2 think what 2 eat, 🙂



LMAO I be going through that all the time just the way you describe damn near every day to the point I will just try to go to sleep only to have to get up and eat something because my stomach is growling and I can't sleep until I put something in my stomach. I am contantly saying to myself "I need to eat something? What?. I keep water by my bed and I feel up on that all day.

My mom says I have always been a picky eater. And going to a restaurant I be really screwed I have to print the menu before I even get there so that I can study it and figure out what I want to eat before I get there.

Today I was thinking do I want to eat my lean cuisine? My first thought was to go to McDonalds and get an apple pie and drink some grapefruit juice, got to macdonalds and changed my mind so now it's almost 1:30 and I still do not know what I want to eat.

That is a good thought We can cook together ummm let me think on that, 🙂 I would have to wait until 8:30 or 9pm when he is off from work to eat, which is ok because most of the time I don't finally make a decision until about that time 🙂... then I have to eat something lite. 🙂 but he wants a meal. Most of the time I be silently hoping that he already ate 🙂

These days you can get take away from food halls that are good(of course you have to try first) and then just freeze them. Generally they are way nicer than the frozen ones you buy in the supermarket. Buttered chicken from the Indian T/A is yummy or whatever there is around. But hey he has to understand that you arent a cook and not thinking of changing yourself for him. He likes you for who you are or finds someone that will cook.