I think he called the police!

That idiot actually called the police! I'm not sure what the heck he told them, but I didn't go over, i just kept emailing him all week, asking him to tell me what's wrong. (once a day, nothing over the top) no response, so I decided to go away for the weekend. I send him an email on friday telling him that i don't understand what he's all about, but if he would like to call me friday night and talk he can, but that i am leaving in the morning and wouldn't be back until later on in the week. When I got back, there was a message on my answering machinne from the police, saying that i should call back. (that message was left on monday) WHAT THE F...— He waited two days after i leave for vacation to call the police? Crazy scorpio!!!!! I'm so done with that man....he should put on a dress and call it a day!

A taste of it's own medicine.

let me see if ive got it straight - he tells you he's gonna call the police if you dont leave him alone. you dont leave him alone. he calls the police.

that is indeed a shocking turn of events.

"let me see if ive got it straight - he tells you he's gonna call the police if you dont leave him alone. you dont leave him alone. he calls the police.

that is indeed a shocking turn of events."

You don't call the police because someone is emailing you! You call the police because you are afraid for your life! This is the problem, people don't realize that the police are not there so that you can have them break up with someone for you so that you don't have to do it yourself, they are there to protect you! You mean to tell me that it is your belief that he was so afraid of me coming home from my vacation and emailing him again that he called the police—??

"just kept emailing him all week, asking him to tell me what's wrong. (once a day, nothing over the top) no response, so I decided to go away for the weekend. I send him an email on friday telling him that i don't understand what he's all about, but if he would like to call me friday night and talk he can"

Why were you emailing and calling him like a cyberspace stalker?

What, I think it's obvious .. but, then again, I read into things, perhaps even twist them around .. but, here's what I see .. from my perspective, the below quotes that I pulled over from the other thread is the answer ...

"I think that is becuase once when we had a fight, i went to see him and he told me to go away. I didn't and he couldn't make me leave, he wanted me to stay."

The Leo admits that she wouldn't leave when he wanted her to, and then says that it's him who actually wanted her to stay .. in reality, he told her to go away because he was angry, but, she didn't of her own volition. She didn't say he tied her up, put a gun to her head and MADE her stay .. she said, "he told me to go away. I didn't".

"But usually I just leave when he starts acting up. I ignor it, and he gets worse, till i leave."

This is in reference to her saying they have a stormy relationship and they fight a lot .. when he needs to express himself, and his angst, she just ignores him.

IGNORES HIM

This ignorance is openly admitted in such a tone that I can't detect anywhere where she sees this as unacceptable .. yet, she doesn't want to be ignored does she?

If he ignores her, she becomes pushy and overbearing .. forces her way into his life ..

Control .. it's all control on her part. If she REALLY wanted to get to the bottom of why he is so upset with her, then she wouldn't do this .. "I just leave when he starts acting up. I ignor it".

She ignores him when he needs to have a voice .. and then pushes her way in when he needs his space ..


I don't see him being a psycho at all .. I see him ditching a control freak who is fiegning sincerity.

What

"I'm with scorpionlady on this. Of course I don't know the details. But if it was over why keep bothering him? Believe me, when a scorp gives you a warning that involved something as serious as the police, I would take the hint and run. A scrop would rarely joke about things like that."

My point I am dealing with that know trying not to do serious damage to the ex Taurus guy....it's over it's over there is not coming back.

She's getting a taste of her own medicine .. and it doesn't taste very good, does it?

The ignorer becomes the ignoree .. justice served.

"I'm sorry that he actually did it, and he sure did it without a second warning."

Would that fall in line with: "One Warning Is All you Get From A Scropio"
I think we should put that on a Billboard.

"I don't see him being a psycho at all .. I see him ditching a control freak who is fiegning sincerity."

This was a good post. And I'm sure that's the way he sees it. Thanks for the reply. I can accept this. I am not a control freak, I just find it hard to communicate with somone who is yelling at me and being mean. But that's the way he communicates, I think. He doesn't like to have a reasonable chat. He says something really mean, and waits for a response. In the process he hurts my feelings so i ignore him, and if it persists, i leave. When he ignores me, i get upset. Again. But the problem is, imo, that he just gets me upset no matter if i dodge his arrows or walk away. If he tried to talk to me about it without trying to get me upset, things would go smoother. But alas, this is not the case. Good post. Explains a lot. thanks again!

No -- but in one of your forums, Sun_in_Leo you were mentioning that he told you that he will call the police if you continue contacting him. You said yourself that you did not want to leave when he asked you to multiple times.

That was months and months ago when we were having a fight, I've seen him after that, don't more than seen him...i sleep over. If he didn't want to see me after that, he shouldn't have continued to see me. Or let me sleep over. What do you think?

Still not excusable, but why would Sun_in_Leo continue sending an email every day... every day, knowing that this guy is pissed to extreme!

If you are sleeping with a guy, and you found out he's mad at you, you wouldn't try to find out what he's mad about? Call him to ask? Give me a break. How old r u people?

PS - i talked to the cop, it had nothing to do with him anyway....ha ha ha

In my world it is....thats kinda bordering on psychotic...but ah well..thats us I guess..lol