I'm knocking...

That's cute antibling but I'd like to keep him in one piece

you wouldn't have to worry about that, he'd just have an extra hole. that could be patched right up, couldn't it? and there you go, everyone wins. 😛

lol....no wheelhomies. I may be a scorp but I promise I don't want to do him any harm, lol!

I just need tips on communication style s,etc. I usually don't have a problem with communication but I feel differently with him...and that damn venus in gemini, is it as bad as it sounds?!

someonespecial, there is something i might actually be able to help you with. as it turns out, my venus is in gemini. and no, i happen to think it has a very good influence on people with a fixed sun. it doesn't necessarily overshadow the qualities of the sun sign in love, although it definitely has an influence.

i've been told it's very hard to know what i'm thinking...how i "really feel" about someone. but that's only in the very beginning, when i'm not sure what i want from them. once i'm committed to someone, i'm committed. only problem is it takes a while for me to get to the serious point...but once i'm there, i'm extremely loyal and faithful.

at the same time, the venus in gem makes me lighthearted. i do enjoy teasing just to see how they react. i need to keep things interesting, but in positive ways - not stirring up shit or creating drama. just keeping things fresh and exploring...trying new things. i definitely take the other person's feelings seriously. as strange as it sounds, i think venus in gem also makes me pretty intuitive in relationships - mentally, it's very easy for me to read ppl. not sure if you'd like that or not.

keeping things interesting....can't stress that enough. very, very important.

oh, and talkin dirrtay = awesome. venus in gem tend to be verbally/mentally stimulated as much as physically.

"What? Conversation? Intimacy? Dates? All of em?"

could be all or none of the above. i just think that in regards to romance it's important to be adventurous and open to trying new things.

I also have a Venus in Gem & I have to agree with everything wheel has said 🙂 especially the part about people not being able to read me, My Scorp tells me that all the time "Your so hard to read" I think it's kinda funny

Also, the intuitive thing, though it may be hard for people to read me, I seem to have a very easy time reading other people, I have the ability to figure people out at a deep level rather quickly which makes it super easy for me to get along with & relate to pretty much anyone 🙂

thanks ladies! this really helps! So do you find that you're hot and cold in the love department? And do you have a hard time committing to times/dates?

"So do you find that you're hot and cold in the love department? And do you have a hard time committing to times/dates?"

Hot & Cold.......Yes especially at the beginning. I ride the fence & go back & forth about how I feel. I'm very skittish at the beginning, it doesn't take much to have me questioning if I'm making the right choice.

Committing to times/dates?...... Well I'm a planner, I don't like surprises, I like to know exactly what's gonna happen, how & when.....I'm controlling in that way 🙂so committing to dates is not a problem as for time, well I've always been punctual up until recently anyway, I find myself running late all the time now & it drives me mad! LOL

"So do you find that you're hot and cold in the love department?"

mm, i can be. not nearly as much as a full-blooded gemini though. 😛
i'm just indecisive at first. like i said, it takes me a while to want anything serious. but once i'm there, i don't play games.

"And do you have a hard time committing to times/dates?"

nope, not at all.

Okay, interesting-thanks! Perhaps there is another reason why he is so noncommittal when it comes to making definite plans....hmmmm,

oh well...Thank you!

you're welcome....how long have you known him?

not long at all, just about a month or so...

a lot of ppl are flighty in the beginning...could be venus in gem, or could be just about anything else. wouldn't worry about it too much!

Thank you (again)! I'm not too worried about it...I'm not gonna sit around and wait either though!

hi cusp:-) I will PM you soon....I definitely need it!
Thank u