i told scorp my p was late and he said.......

Omg!

How late?

are u sure i am the only one you have been with?

I can get u the morning after pill.

I told he to leave me alone.

then he sai

sorry for asking a question.

I said

get me a PT

he says

I am broke. so I told him to leave me alone and I will deal with tha situation myself..

H e started saying sorry and he knows he was being an ass. he said plz dont act like this . I really wanna help

so I said

well gosh b4 u start planning ways to kill it can we at least see if I am pregnant 1st! and yes u are being a big ass

..heheheh I prolly will neva talk to him again.

more of a rant then anything. I didnt love him. we were just havin sex. I didnt wanna be pregnant by him .. but he still could have been somewhat sensetive. he was already thinkingof murder b4 we even knew if I was or was not.

if you didn't love him and you were just having the sex, then i fail to understand why you didn't have safe sex in the first place!!!!!!!

that has got to be the most immature, irresponsible, brainless thing you can do.

I don't even get the point in posting this.

Well I think she was just testing him and she did not get the answer she was looking for. Dang Misskarma you already have 3 kids you're 25, going through a divorce, and you have not learn the art of safe sex?

Since you have TMI already on the board.

What is the reason behind your divorce.

"The morning after pill doesnt kill the baby. Honestly its only good within 24 hours after the unprotected sex. Than you gotta take it again in like another 12 hours. Its simliar to a pill in stoping the cycle."

And it is mainly used if you are a rape victim.

Are you actually surprised by his answer? If you don't love him, the feeling is probably mutual. Scorpios CAN be selfish and suspicious, of course he'd immediately question your fidelity and mindmap the best way to resolve the issue.

At least he offered help of some sort.

Heart Disease is the number one cause of death in black women.

An STD can kill if you let it go long enough, without treatment.

1st of all I am not pregnant. I was scared a litle. my period was late. Secondly I love when people are so judgemental as if they lead these perfect life as if they have never made a mistake.

It was just sex. its not like we were in a relationship. nope condoms were not used shame on me.

"Well I think she was just testing him and she did not get the answer she was looking for. Dang Misskarma you already have 3 kids you're 25, going through a divorce, and you have not learn the art of safe sex"?

what does me having kids with my ex husband have to do with safe sex... so I suppose when you get married or when u do get married u will use condoms with your hubby. well that's great to know.

it was a scare. I dont care what u guys say about me u dont know me you only know what u read. many of you have made new accounts do to the fact that u have made some "brainless things u have done. but u just hide ur mess I am up front with mine.

if it was something u didnt wana comment on then dont its to simple.

its nothing personal about it. we had sex my period was late. and tha 1st thing he thought of was abortion. whats personal about it? i was just shocked that abortion was his first thought ......

it was just that he was so selfish about the whole thing

i suppose only Ghetto people have a miss period scare.... some people are just close minded. if its to much then dont comment.

valid points, but sex nsa is inherently a selfish act on both parties, is it not?

btw there are plenty of post on here that say nothing at all. but half of you race to these boards everyday to see it and make your comments that say nothing....lol.. smh

it is selfish. he wanted a convient orgasm and so did i. but still was a bit shock! i just didnt expect that.

"i just didnt expect that."

he's a guy.

🙂

i hear ya. 😉

SSP

What constitutes a ghetto?

it takes a low class person.. well if thats ur opinion then ok. well i see you u visit the board often. so u must enjoy the company of low lives. I am sure half of the people on this board has had unprotected sex.

lol Government assistance I love that!!! so judgmental where do you get this guess frm that I may have to use Gorvernment assistance? pls do tell me. you only know what I post you dont know what means I have to take care of my children..

I dont have to confirm or deny anything to you. you are nobody to me.. so its a racial thing. u saw I was black and assumed because I have 3 kids I would need government asst.

anways back to the point yes I used unprotected sex. maybe I was a lil careless ..being that I do have 3 small children that I do support on my own. with no asst!

however I didnt realize he would be so selfish in his answer. thanks

""It's definitely not just a ghetto thing either, trailer parks are full of white trash rednecks doing the same stupid shit. The mansions in Beverly Hills have stupid sluts with no responsibility too. I just interpreted your 'grammar' as having it's origins in the ghetto.""

- Well, in my city, there are neighborhoods full of African-American, Hispanic, Asian-American, and Caucasian people who live well below the poverty line, all seeming to share the same culture and vernacular. Which of these ethnicities should be classified as ghetto?

And my white co-worker who considers himself to originate from a ghetto, where does he fit into your equation?

""You're not seriously asking me what a ghetto is are you? ""

- I asked because it was clear that YOU didn't know the definition. I was hoping you'd make the effort to find out, and to my surprise, you did. 🙂

The fact that you weren't aware of what a ghetto was without having to look it up on Webster shows that you, sir, are poorly educated. Generally, when people are poorly educated, it is because their socioeconomic status restricted their access to better resources. Which leads me to believe that you, too, SSP, may in fact be ghetto. 🙂

Hmmm, nothing wrong with a single woman wanting some affection, but if you barely know the guy, try not to be careless on the birth control. And at least you got a look into his character with this scare. I'd lose his number if I were you.

How about if YOU learned to read, SSP. I never made any presumptions about your race. YOU brought race into the scenario with the following comment of yours, you idiot:

""It's definitely not just a ghetto thing either, trailer parks are full of white trash rednecks doing the same stupid shit.""

Here ^ you implied that "whites" were separate from "ghetto", as if they could not coexist.

You're upset b/c you can't answer my questions and proved yourself to be an uneducated fool. haha

Talk to me after you get your GED. lol Good luck with that, btw.

I am sure u have had to read my other post or you would not have known there were "other" children to support..

Nope, anyone can have a missed period scare, but it takes a low class person to have casual sex without birth control and quite likely without the means to support another child without government assistance. And a person with little self-esteem and even less regard for the responsibility of bringing a child into the world to post about it as if it's a joke. It's definitely not just a ghetto thing either, trailer parks are full of white trash rednecks doing the same stupid shit. The mansions in Beverly Hills have stupid sluts with no responsibility too. I just interpreted your 'grammar' as having it's origins in the ghetto.

now lets pick this paragraph apart.

"but it takes a low class person to have casual sex without birth control and quite likely without the means to support another child without government assistance."

so if u are saying I am low class because I had sex with no birth control or condom. then I cant deny that as to ur definition I am a low life.. and so is more then half of tha united states.

"and quite likely without the means to support another child without government assistance"

and quite likely to support (another) child with out Government asst. now if u didnt read my other post then you would have never used another child.

it was not a post for jokes. I didnt understand why he feel the need to immediatly think abortion. the sex was more of a friends with benefits deal. its not like I just methim and we had sex. we were cool. not that I need to explain that. like i said u only know what I post.

ghetto grammer..haha.(i am big text person) this is a chat board. I dont need webster for this.. who really cares? thats nott he point of the post!

Pregnancy Scares and How to Handle Them:

If you're not in a serious relationship with him, DON'T EVER tell the man until you're sure. Why upset him for no reason? Yes, it can be scary, but that's what girlfriends are for.

I think sometimes women thrust this on a guy too early (a late period does not always mean BABY!) to provoke a response. A test to see how he feels.

"A ghetto is described as a "portion of a city in which members of a minority group live especially because of social, legal, or economic pressure."

u said minoritys earlier so since when has whites been consider minority?Most peopls dont consider whites as being minority..

I can careless if u are whit black or pink. and besides u said u didnt read my profile. I would be to concieted to think that you would.

its not hard to pick out ur assumptions.. u made an assumption and its cool!!!

and btw I didnt ask what a ghetto was that was sum one else.. so maybe u should consider reading classes. well contacts look more appealing. just giving you some good karma to help you along the way

sea siren no really it was not a test to see how he feels. I was scared. so I just told him I was late he asked what was bothering me. because he had not heard from me so I just told him. and thats how he responded.

what in my post or my profile would make you think I dont have the means to support another child?

lame!

okay my bad I am off has far as minority. but just because someone is minority does not mean they come from the ghetto. I could be minority in Idaho but still live in the suburbs..

carry on! this is actually entertaining

u didnt ask any questions.

u implied that it was ghetto based on what?

u someone would need asst to support another child.

and guess what u still are lame.

okay so I am divorced mother of three. what makes you think I would need government asst if I had another child?

how many people can afford to send any child to school?

what does government asst have to do with college?

"I hope to God you aren't on wellfare misskarma"

what does welfare have to do with my OP?

not that it really matters.

However no I am not on welfare. I work and I go to school. I can support any child I have. Thats what I do. its to ez to lay back and get government asst. I want what's best for my kids. my youngest daughter just started school and she goes to a private school. My kids have the best. I make sure of that. and even If I didnt work they still would. My kids father sends me plenty of child support. we may not be together and we may do simple things but we both make sure our kids are financially taken care of.

I knew the scorp I was having sex with. it was not a one night stand. when had been talking for about 3 months. so its not like i met him then slept with him.

you dont have to keep posting it was ur choice...I will have a great life. smooches!!!

ScorpseeksPisces
asking questions but cant give answers!

u never did ask a question. I guess I was suppose to read your mind and assume u wanted answer..

next time just ask..

no I didnt want a baby with him. Ill admit i was not being very mindful. I just wanted the sex and I enjoyed it. now that I got tha scare I will use birth control.

its just i think its silly when people turn so judgemental as if they do everthing perfect.

ScorpseeksPisces: "You are too illiterate to continue this conversation, have a nice life."

loloLOL

^^^^^ my thoughts exactly!!!

Many girls who might be pregnant usually can go to a clinic and getting morning after pills. Has to be before 72 hours.

This post has my mouth open. Are you serious? Maybe you should go get tested for std's seriously you are way too free with your private parts being unprotected especially with a play mate.

what!. well everyone who has sex needs a std test done. how am I 2 free? because i was having sex and the guy was not my bf....

I am done. as I said b4. the guy i was having sex with was not some guy I just met it was not a one night stand. we were friends. we had sex. what is the big deal? its not like I met him that nite and aid down and sex with him. close your mouth why is it wide open as if people dont have sex with no strings attached... people dont understand the concept. just because its no strings attached doesnt mean u dont know the person.

dumb! does any one understand what I am sayin? to be honest my husband gave me an std while we were married. so playmate or no playmate std can happen in any situation.

Branh, you need to keep your damn mouth shut. You are the last person to have an opinion on unprotected sex and stds. I've heard you say some pretty stupid shyt with regards to this topic.

yes I like sex!!!! but that does not mean I just have sex with anybody. I dont just have random sex!!!

AL, did you get the job?

stop hounding me AM.

"you BORE me now."

so what you're saying is that I used to thrill you.

couple of ramgirls been on my jock. you know how it goes.