I'm not as emotional as he is

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fatal1234
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14 Years

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I wrote this in the aqua forum but I wanted to see if any scorpios have the same problem or advice...?

I've always read things that say aqaurians are the least emotional sign in the zodiac yet I never beleived it till I met my scorpio. Who is said to be the most emotional sign in the zodiac. I don;t k now what to do because he is constantly saying things like I don;t care for him as much as he does for me. Which I do!!! I just don;t know how to show it the same way he does I guess? He's just very romantic and open with how he feels with me (which is great, I love it) but when it's my turn to say something I really don't know how to get as deep as he does. I rather show him. I'm better at that. It's just I feel bad because he's opening up more than he has ever done in the past and when I think i'm showing him I feel the same way he gets upset and says I don't.. than he somewhat goes back into his shell untill he starts missing me again.

Any suggestions? Anyone have the same problem? I seriously can't get as emotional as he does and as hard as I try it's just comes out differently. But I do care for him so much. More than words can explain.
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Cilogy
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Oh man, I am in this same situation. I'm obviously more emotional than my girlfriend. I've been waiting to hear something like what you said in your OP come out of her mouth for a long-ass time. I'm very verbal and she's very physical so you could imagine the difficulty there.

Telling him exactly what you've told us will help. If he's sensitive enough of a Scorpio then he will appreciate it.
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Skykomish
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Posted by exoskeleton
you two express love in entirely different ways so he probably feels you??re holding back, you don't trust him, or your feelings aren't genuine.

it seems like that kind of depth isn't natural to you. you can't fake it with a scorp. maybe it will change over time or maybe you??re just not compatible.



This.. and also, he is probably not coming ACROSS as being emotional, scorpios hide it very well. While inside we're a seething whirlpool of emotion. (my taurus called me a whirling dirvish lol, quite appropriate)