sclark151501
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I have not pretended to be angry or hurt but there have been a couple of times where I got really upset and I let him know about it, I feel like it's driving me nuts sometimes, no communication and then trying to get something out of him and I get nothing.
So I should just let it go and not give him any reaction? Because lately I've been having doubts with trust and all of these things that he does do hurt me and I end up feeling like I can't rely on him or trust him so I feel like just going on about our lives like nothing happened won't do anything so I've been distancing myself from him.
So I should just let it go and not give him any reaction? Because lately I've been having doubts with trust and all of these things that he does do hurt me and I end up feeling like I can't rely on him or trust him so I feel like just going on about our lives like nothing happened won't do anything so I've been distancing myself from him.
I really feel like the reality of this scorpio's nature has just hit me like a big train. I never really thought about how he really feels because on the outside it looks like something totally different it's like I have to read in between the lines all the time. I mean, I've read a lot about scorpios and everything but I never expected it to be like this! But I feel like everything will be ok. I'm just frustrated because is he playing a game or what?
Also, this relationship I have with this scorpio is the most I don't even know what to say about it but I just found out that him and I are both going through a pluto conjunct ascendant transit in capricorn and our ascendants are at the same degree, I thought that was strange. And I'm a cancer, I've heard a lot about cancer/scorpio relationships.
Excuse me? My partner is not abusive. Gtfo.
There's a difference between physical abuse and some personal issues that somebody has with communicating, expressing themselves, etc. I suggest you don't assume, rude ass.
Passive aggressiveness does not equal physical abuse. It may drive someone nuts but it can be dealt with and fixed. Unlike people who are PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE. How fucking rude of you, why don't you go tell that to somebody who is actually being abused and maybe they can pull their fucking head out of their ass, idiot.
Let me clarify, for anybody else. There is no abuse going in my relationship, in case you happen to be so interested. I didn't post a lot of detail so keep in mind the way I explained it and the way you perceive it may not be how it is especially since you don't know me my husband or my relationship.
Yes emotional abuse, maybe. There's a lot to consider though. That's why he's getting counseling (another detail I didn't add), that's why I'm also getting counseling ANOTHER DETAIL I DIDN'T ADD. That's why I said that it's a little different when it's more of a personal issue with communication or something that he has a problem with and he's not aware hence passive aggressiveness. He's trying his hardest, but he makes me very angry sometimes. Like he's not the only one in this relationship, I'm in it too and I'm guilty of a lot of things also, not just him. He means well, we've both done horrible things like that I just came on here to see if anybody had anything to relate it to scorpios general personality.
Like I have ptsd and anxiety and he's been in an abusive relationship before and he never confronted the hurt he's held inside from it and i believe that it's the source of most of his issues, THERE IS SO MUCH TO CONSIDER AND I JUST WANTED SOME SIMPLE ANSWERS ABOUT SCORPIOS DO I HAVE TO SPILL ALL THE DETAILS AND ALL OF MY BEANS HERE? NO.
Like I have ptsd and anxiety and he's been in an abusive relationship before and he never confronted the hurt he's held inside from it and i believe that it's the source of most of his issues, THERE IS SO MUCH TO CONSIDER AND I JUST WANTED SOME SIMPLE ANSWERS ABOUT SCORPIOS DO I HAVE TO SPILL ALL THE DETAILS AND ALL OF MY BEANS HERE? NO.
Posted by starloverI blocked 'rabbit' fyi. First of all like I said, none of you strangers know anything about my relationship. You only know what I told you. There may be some type of emotional abuse but is it on purpPosted by RabbitThis
Not abusive? I beg to differ.
Just because he's not using your face as a punching bag doesn't mean he isn't abusing you.
The bolded portions? That's mental and/or emotional abuse.
If you keep trying to find excuses for his behavior (the whole reason behind your posting) he'll continue to shit all over you.
If you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his shit together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb.
Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice.
Posted by sclark151501
What am I supposed to do when it seems like my partner, a scorpio man, is passive aggressive, doesn't communicate with me and it almost seems like he does things on purpose to piss me off. I feel like he withholds information from me, such as his true feelings and thoughts and then they all erupt months later. He also keeps doing the exact things that I ask him not to do that hurt me and insult me, I'm pretty much an open book with him so he knows all of my weaknesses and it seems like he pushes my buttons on purpose.
I briefly read about scorpios and it just occurred to me that this might be an insecurity of his? I'm not sure, I can't figure him out. And BELIEVE ME, I've confronted him directly I'm very straightforward with him and he just denies everything or he'll either admit everything (repeating what I say with a sarcastic tone. So it's like he never gives me a straight answer and I'm frustrated.
What am I supposed to do? Is this one of those scorpio mind games or tests that I've always heard about? I know I didn't put much detail but if you'd like more detail just ask and I'll tell.
He is emotionally abusing you and disrespecting youclick to expand
"Not abusive? I beg to differ."
First of all, who are you to tell me what my relationship is? If my relationship was abusive I would do something about it.
My husband has been in an abusive relationship before, I believe that's the source of his issues. A physical and emotionally
abusive relationship can damage somebody in so many ways and he never healed from it or confronted it. I also have ptsd and anxiety,
that is another issue. My post, asshole, was to get information about scorpios in general because I'm curious. Go do something
useful cretin.
"Just because he's not using your face as a punching bag doesn't mean he isn't abusing you."
Just because you think my relationship is abusive judging from one paragraph that I wrote (THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NO DETAIL ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I CHOSE TO LEAVE IT OUT) doesn't mean you know everything.
"The bolded portions? That's mental and/or emotional abuse."
I've begun to realize that he's passive aggressive, he didn't know. I confronted him, he agrees, he's tried really hard to
communicate with me and cooperate. He's not the only one here who does things like that. When two people are in a relationship
and they argue SHIT HAPPENS, you stupid fuck.
"If you keep trying to find excuses for his behavior (the whole reason behind your posting) he'll continue to butter all over you."
Again, who the fuck are you to tell me what I'm doing? Do you know me or my relationship? The more you continue to go around trying to shove your perceptions down others throats and tell them who you think they are, you'll get shot one day. Ignorant brick head.
I"f you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his butter together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb."
My self-esteem is located, bitch. He currently is getting his butter together, I'm no fucking doormat if anything he's the doormat, always trying to do everything I want and need. I suggest you gtfo idiot. Do I sound like a fucking doormat to you, bitch? Gtfo and quit telling me whoever you think I am. Asshole.
Anyway, even I were a victim, why are YOU treating me with such disrespect? That's no way to treat a victim of abuse. Looks like you just want to go around picking some fights to let your arrogant attitude seep out everywhere.
"Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice."
Do
First of all, who are you to tell me what my relationship is? If my relationship was abusive I would do something about it.
My husband has been in an abusive relationship before, I believe that's the source of his issues. A physical and emotionally
abusive relationship can damage somebody in so many ways and he never healed from it or confronted it. I also have ptsd and anxiety,
that is another issue. My post, asshole, was to get information about scorpios in general because I'm curious. Go do something
useful cretin.
"Just because he's not using your face as a punching bag doesn't mean he isn't abusing you."
Just because you think my relationship is abusive judging from one paragraph that I wrote (THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NO DETAIL ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I CHOSE TO LEAVE IT OUT) doesn't mean you know everything.
"The bolded portions? That's mental and/or emotional abuse."
I've begun to realize that he's passive aggressive, he didn't know. I confronted him, he agrees, he's tried really hard to
communicate with me and cooperate. He's not the only one here who does things like that. When two people are in a relationship
and they argue SHIT HAPPENS, you stupid fuck.
"If you keep trying to find excuses for his behavior (the whole reason behind your posting) he'll continue to butter all over you."
Again, who the fuck are you to tell me what I'm doing? Do you know me or my relationship? The more you continue to go around trying to shove your perceptions down others throats and tell them who you think they are, you'll get shot one day. Ignorant brick head.
I"f you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his butter together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb."
My self-esteem is located, bitch. He currently is getting his butter together, I'm no fucking doormat if anything he's the doormat, always trying to do everything I want and need. I suggest you gtfo idiot. Do I sound like a fucking doormat to you, bitch? Gtfo and quit telling me whoever you think I am. Asshole.
Anyway, even I were a victim, why are YOU treating me with such disrespect? That's no way to treat a victim of abuse. Looks like you just want to go around picking some fights to let your arrogant attitude seep out everywhere.
"Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice."
Do
"Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice."
Do you want to continue being an ignorant dumb piece of shit? Your choice. Such a god damn brick head, really arrogant lmao.
Like I said, you know nothing about my relationship and you have no right to tell me who I am or what my relationship is. For example, do you know my name? Do you know my husbands name? Do you know how long weve been together? How do you even know that I didn't leave anything important out of my post? Do you know what background I came from? Do you know what background my husband came from? Do you know how my husband and I interact on a daily basis? Do you know how our arguments usually? This is my relationship, not yours, you don't know me or anything about me or any detail at all. Try to have a little more TACT next time you're dealing with strangers YOU DO NOT KNOW, or risk getting punched in the face. If you don't know anything other than what I told you, you can go fuck yourself now, vile piece of shit.
Your choice."
Do you want to continue being an ignorant dumb piece of shit? Your choice. Such a god damn brick head, really arrogant lmao.
Like I said, you know nothing about my relationship and you have no right to tell me who I am or what my relationship is. For example, do you know my name? Do you know my husbands name? Do you know how long weve been together? How do you even know that I didn't leave anything important out of my post? Do you know what background I came from? Do you know what background my husband came from? Do you know how my husband and I interact on a daily basis? Do you know how our arguments usually? This is my relationship, not yours, you don't know me or anything about me or any detail at all. Try to have a little more TACT next time you're dealing with strangers YOU DO NOT KNOW, or risk getting punched in the face. If you don't know anything other than what I told you, you can go fuck yourself now, vile piece of shit.
May I mention, my original post, the things I described only happen when we're in arguments and we're both frustrated as fuck and yelling (mostly me yelling). Once again why some ignoranus shouldn't assume things and then proceed to tell someone who they think they are. That's really fucking rude.
Ok first of all, Rabbit is over here telling me who he/she thinks I am and what my relationship is when I didn't put much detail into my question at all. He assumed a lot about me and then proceeded to TELL me who he thinks I am. I don't think anybody likes that. I'm a little defensive because of the way he said it, "locate your self esteem". That's really rude of him.
Seriously. I'ts not abnormal when I'm here saying that there isn't abuse in my relationship like that and he tells me that that's what abused women say as an excuse. That's really insulting because I've also been in an abusive relationship before, hence why I have ptsd and anxiety. People with ptsd can be pretty hostile, hence the agression ESPECIALLY when somebody is over here insulting me and pretty much implying that I'm an abused woman who is ust excusing someone's behavior. This person doesn't know me at all and is telling me who he thinks I am, that's really fucking rude. So if that person continues to do that I just decided to defend myself because I wanted to.
Ok, let me get this straight, he's going to counseling because I asked him to, not because he wanted to, he didn't want to at first. Why would you say that it's for him to stay away from me? What the fuck? See this is what I mean about people assuming things, it's really insulting, don't assume things about people you don't know.
No matter how much you strangers don't know you shouldn't assume anything about anyone and then proceed to try and shove your perceptions down others' throats. No you don't, you don't know anything about me or my relationship. He has done things and so have I. I think you people are really rude to assume you know someone are if someone's abusive judging by online interaction. I mean how do you know that he hasn't abused me before at all? How do you know that he doesn't cause something and then I'm reacting to it our of PTSD?
You're all really fucking ridiculous and rude. Don't tell strangers who you think they are, arrogant.
FYI, if someone is belittling me, insulting me, assuming things about me, talking to me in a condescending way, they're going to get it thrown back at them 10 times worse because I don't care for people like that, hence why i talked to Rabbit that way. But why should I have to explain anything to you. Stop assuming things about me.
Seriously. I'ts not abnormal when I'm here saying that there isn't abuse in my relationship like that and he tells me that that's what abused women say as an excuse. That's really insulting because I've also been in an abusive relationship before, hence why I have ptsd and anxiety. People with ptsd can be pretty hostile, hence the agression ESPECIALLY when somebody is over here insulting me and pretty much implying that I'm an abused woman who is ust excusing someone's behavior. This person doesn't know me at all and is telling me who he thinks I am, that's really fucking rude. So if that person continues to do that I just decided to defend myself because I wanted to.
Ok, let me get this straight, he's going to counseling because I asked him to, not because he wanted to, he didn't want to at first. Why would you say that it's for him to stay away from me? What the fuck? See this is what I mean about people assuming things, it's really insulting, don't assume things about people you don't know.
No matter how much you strangers don't know you shouldn't assume anything about anyone and then proceed to try and shove your perceptions down others' throats. No you don't, you don't know anything about me or my relationship. He has done things and so have I. I think you people are really rude to assume you know someone are if someone's abusive judging by online interaction. I mean how do you know that he hasn't abused me before at all? How do you know that he doesn't cause something and then I'm reacting to it our of PTSD?
You're all really fucking ridiculous and rude. Don't tell strangers who you think they are, arrogant.
FYI, if someone is belittling me, insulting me, assuming things about me, talking to me in a condescending way, they're going to get it thrown back at them 10 times worse because I don't care for people like that, hence why i talked to Rabbit that way. But why should I have to explain anything to you. Stop assuming things about me.
Ok first of all, Rabbit is over here telling me who he/she thinks I am and what my relationship is when I didn't put much detail into my question at all. He assumed a lot about me and then proceeded to TELL me who he thinks I am. I don't think anybody likes that. I'm a little defensive because of the way he said it, "locate your self esteem". That's really rude of him.
Seriously. I'ts not abnormal when I'm here saying that there isn't abuse in my relationship like that and he tells me that that's what abused women say as an excuse. That's really insulting because I've also been in an abusive relationship before, hence why I have ptsd and anxiety. People with ptsd can be pretty hostile, hence the agression ESPECIALLY when somebody is over here insulting me and pretty much implying that I'm an abused woman who is ust excusing someone's behavior. This person doesn't know me at all and is telling me who he thinks I am, that's really fucking rude. So if that person continues to do that I just decided to defend myself because I wanted to.
Ok, let me get this straight, he's going to counseling because I asked him to, not because he wanted to, he didn't want to at first. Why would you say that it's for him to stay away from me? What the fuck? See this is what I mean about people assuming things, it's really insulting, don't assume things about people you don't know.
No matter how much you strangers don't know you shouldn't assume anything about anyone and then proceed to try and shove your perceptions down others' throats. No you don't, you don't know anything about me or my relationship. He has done things and so have I. I think you people are really rude to assume you know someone are if someone's abusive judging by online interaction. I mean how do you know that he hasn't abused me before at all? How do you know that he doesn't cause something and then I'm reacting to it our of PTSD?
You're all really fucking ridiculous and rude. Don't tell strangers who you think they are, arrogant.
FYI, if someone is belittling me, insulting me, assuming things about me, talking to me in a condescending way, they're going to get it thrown back at them 10 times worse because I don't care for people like that, hence why i talked to Rabbit that way. But why should I have to explain anything to you. Stop assuming things about me.
Seriously. I'ts not abnormal when I'm here saying that there isn't abuse in my relationship like that and he tells me that that's what abused women say as an excuse. That's really insulting because I've also been in an abusive relationship before, hence why I have ptsd and anxiety. People with ptsd can be pretty hostile, hence the agression ESPECIALLY when somebody is over here insulting me and pretty much implying that I'm an abused woman who is ust excusing someone's behavior. This person doesn't know me at all and is telling me who he thinks I am, that's really fucking rude. So if that person continues to do that I just decided to defend myself because I wanted to.
Ok, let me get this straight, he's going to counseling because I asked him to, not because he wanted to, he didn't want to at first. Why would you say that it's for him to stay away from me? What the fuck? See this is what I mean about people assuming things, it's really insulting, don't assume things about people you don't know.
No matter how much you strangers don't know you shouldn't assume anything about anyone and then proceed to try and shove your perceptions down others' throats. No you don't, you don't know anything about me or my relationship. He has done things and so have I. I think you people are really rude to assume you know someone are if someone's abusive judging by online interaction. I mean how do you know that he hasn't abused me before at all? How do you know that he doesn't cause something and then I'm reacting to it our of PTSD?
You're all really fucking ridiculous and rude. Don't tell strangers who you think they are, arrogant.
FYI, if someone is belittling me, insulting me, assuming things about me, talking to me in a condescending way, they're going to get it thrown back at them 10 times worse because I don't care for people like that, hence why i talked to Rabbit that way. But why should I have to explain anything to you. Stop assuming things about me.
I've been working on that and so has he. It is occasional fights and we work together unless he gets too frustrated or I get triggered from ptsd and start having a panic attack. There isn't any abuse here, I don't like it when people assume things about me and then proceed to tell me that I'm wrong about myself that's really rude and arrogant. Yea I may seem defensive to some people on here but if someone is talking to me in a condescending way why I am I going to hold back from telling them how it is? I'm not.
He is a good man and he is trying his best and I am trying my best too. I just wanted some relation to scorpios because I'm curious about his peronnality because I can relate his personality to the description of scorpios and I wanted others insights about scorpios, NOT what everyone's opinion or beliefs are about me because none of you even know me.
I think it's INSANELY ignorant of people to assume so much off of the internet.
He is a good man and he is trying his best and I am trying my best too. I just wanted some relation to scorpios because I'm curious about his peronnality because I can relate his personality to the description of scorpios and I wanted others insights about scorpios, NOT what everyone's opinion or beliefs are about me because none of you even know me.
I think it's INSANELY ignorant of people to assume so much off of the internet.
Posted by starlover+1Posted by RabbitThis
Not abusive? I beg to differ.
Just because he's not using your face as a punching bag doesn't mean he isn't abusing you.
The bolded portions? That's mental and/or emotional abuse.
If you keep trying to find excuses for his behavior (the whole reason behind your posting) he'll continue to shit all over you.
If you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his shit together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb.
Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice.
Posted by sclark151501
What am I supposed to do when it seems like my partner, a scorpio man, is passive aggressive, doesn't communicate with me and it almost seems like he does things on purpose to piss me off. I feel like he withholds information from me, such as his true feelings and thoughts and then they all erupt months later. He also keeps doing the exact things that I ask him not to do that hurt me and insult me, I'm pretty much an open book with him so he knows all of my weaknesses and it seems like he pushes my buttons on purpose.
I briefly read about scorpios and it just occurred to me that this might be an insecurity of his? I'm not sure, I can't figure him out. And BELIEVE ME, I've confronted him directly I'm very straightforward with him and he just denies everything or he'll either admit everything (repeating what I say with a sarcastic tone. So it's like he never gives me a straight answer and I'm frustrated.
What am I supposed to do? Is this one of those scorpio mind games or tests that I've always heard about? I know I didn't put much detail but if you'd like more detail just ask and I'll tell.
He is emotionally abusing you and disrespecting youclick to expand
Posted by RabbitThen get off the post, you're useless here. You come in here and insult me ("that's what abused women say") and ("locate your self-esteem or keep being a doormat").
I don't know. And I don't care. I read the first line and just deleted it.
Really? You're extremely rude.
Posted by ReincarnationI didn't want to put too much detail. To clarify I wanted just a relation to a scorpio's general personality.
This is too much to read.
If you want answers, you are going to have to be more succinct.
Posted by SunraysI have been. I am not in one right now because like I said what I explained din my original post, I left all of personal detail out because I don't want to put my personal detail in there. There's so much that everybody here doesn't know. I am taking care of myself I have been doing everything I'm supposed to do. I'm not a doormat.
"A physical and emotionally abusive relationship can damage somebody in so many ways and he never healed from it or confronted it."
Are you not in one right now? Atleast emotionally abusive relationship no matter what the reasons are for that behaviour ( past or present or future). You should take care of yourself....as in stop enabling the abusive behaviour by drawing boundaries, taking responsibility for yourself ....so that you dont put yourself in the position to be run rough shod over.
You know, seriously, Rabbit was not just trying to point out anything. He was being rude about it, (locate your self esteem or keep being a doormat) That's really insulting. Who talks to victims like that? Even if I were a victim which I'm not.
Posted by BinotaYea, he's been very open with me many times. Seriously everybody here is just like ALL OVER THE PLACE. Like I said, there is no emotional abuse going on in my relationship. There are complicated personal issues but we're a team and we work on them together, holy crap.
I understand that you are trying to understand him, but in very mature way to talk is just like what Sunrays description said.
Just as long you are not bursting anger to him nor even belittle him. Just calm and talk about your frustration, if he's still not answering. Then it's the best to divorced since not sharing is a not good sign.
"That's the same excuse women who get beat use to stay with their abuser.
So this is not rude to say to a stranger you know nothing about? This ignorant idiot is implying that I'm in an abusive relationship and that I'm making excuses which is really insulting because I know who i am and what my relationship is. Strangers on the internet who don't know anything, don't know anything. What I put in my original questions was soooooooo vague and it seems like everybody just jumped into conclusions.
"If you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his butter together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb.
Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice."
This is really rude also. This person is pretty much telling me that I'm a victim, I'm being abused, and I have no self-esteem and that I don't know myself. It's almost like an attempt to take the words out of my mouth that I said and shove the ones he said in my mouth. This person is really rude and condescending, it's fucking absurd to talk to a "victim" like that anyway.
So this is not rude to say to a stranger you know nothing about? This ignorant idiot is implying that I'm in an abusive relationship and that I'm making excuses which is really insulting because I know who i am and what my relationship is. Strangers on the internet who don't know anything, don't know anything. What I put in my original questions was soooooooo vague and it seems like everybody just jumped into conclusions.
"If you can locate your self-esteem, you can either tell him to get his butter together and treat you with respect and dignity OR you can kick his ass to the curb.
Or you can continue being a doormat trying to find people on an internet astrology board that will give you more validating excuses.
Your choice."
This is really rude also. This person is pretty much telling me that I'm a victim, I'm being abused, and I have no self-esteem and that I don't know myself. It's almost like an attempt to take the words out of my mouth that I said and shove the ones he said in my mouth. This person is really rude and condescending, it's fucking absurd to talk to a "victim" like that anyway.
So thanks to Rabbit for making me out to be a low self esteem abused battered women who is just on this forum to look for "validating excuses" so I can keep being a doormat. Yeah, not rude at all to tell somebody that.
Posted by sclark151501hm ok, so he's not abusive, at least he's not physically so you can thank your Lucky stars for that.
What am I supposed to do when it seems like my partner, a scorpio man, is passive aggressive, doesn't communicate with me and it almost seems like he does things on purpose to piss me off. I feel like he withholds information from me, such as his true feelings and thoughts and then they all erupt months later. He also keeps doing the exact things that I ask him not to do that hurt me and insult me, I'm pretty much an open book with him so he knows all of my weaknesses and it seems like he pushes my buttons on purpose.
I briefly read about scorpios and it just occurred to me that this might be an insecurity of his? I'm not sure, I can't figure him out. And BELIEVE ME, I've confronted him directly I'm very straightforward with him and he just denies everything or he'll either admit everything (repeating what I say with a sarcastic tone. So it's like he never gives me a straight answer and I'm frustrated.
What am I supposed to do? Is this one of those scorpio mind games or tests that I've always heard about? I know I didn't put much detail but if you'd like more detail just ask and I'll tell.
but it seems he's retaliating, because you keep pushing him. Like you are doing right now. i mean if he doesn't want to communicate, why are you so pushy about it?
Meh. Forget it.
Carry on.
Carry on.
If you're so easily riled up by a stranger on a forum..I can only imagine how much pleasure that scorpio dude is deriving from your histrionics.
Don't worry, you're making him happy.
Don't worry, you're making him happy.
Posted by PhoenixRisingexactly
Meh. Forget it.
Carry on.
sclark151501, you seem to be deeply hurting from this relationship.
If this is the case, don't post anything here.
All you will get is reaction, arguing, name calling and more frustration than clarity.
Take a deep breathe. Sign off.
This has nothing to do with him being a Scorpio, his attitude is based on one of two things; your attitude or his own personal issues.
If this is the case, don't post anything here.
All you will get is reaction, arguing, name calling and more frustration than clarity.
Take a deep breathe. Sign off.
This has nothing to do with him being a Scorpio, his attitude is based on one of two things; your attitude or his own personal issues.
Posted by lisabethur8How exactly am I being pushy about it? Have you witnessed me being pushy about it? If so, when?Posted by sclark151501hm ok, so he's not abusive, at least he's not physically so you can thank your Lucky stars for that.
What am I supposed to do when it seems like my partner, a scorpio man, is passive aggressive, doesn't communicate with me and it almost seems like he does things on purpose to piss me off. I feel like he withholds information from me, such as his true feelings and thoughts and then they all erupt months later. He also keeps doing the exact things that I ask him not to do that hurt me and insult me, I'm pretty much an open book with him so he knows all of my weaknesses and it seems like he pushes my buttons on purpose.
I briefly read about scorpios and it just occurred to me that this might be an insecurity of his? I'm not sure, I can't figure him out. And BELIEVE ME, I've confronted him directly I'm very straightforward with him and he just denies everything or he'll either admit everything (repeating what I say with a sarcastic tone. So it's like he never gives me a straight answer and I'm frustrated.
What am I supposed to do? Is this one of those scorpio mind games or tests that I've always heard about? I know I didn't put much detail but if you'd like more detail just ask and I'll tell.
but it seems he's retaliating, because you keep pushing him. Like you are doing right now. i mean if he doesn't want to communicate, why are you so pushy about it?click to expand
How is it pushy when I just confronted him about how I felt?
Posted by LunarMaidenThat's not the case. It's more I'm deeply hurt from past experiences that have nothing to do with my current partner and people who are so ignorant and rude disgust me. So when somebody tells me I'm a victim, doormat, just looking for validating excuses when I said that's not the case, after I've already been in an abusive relationship before this one and so has my current partner and after everything I know, I think it's rude to say that to ANYBODY.
sclark151501, you seem to be deeply hurting from this relationship.
If this is the case, don't post anything here.
All you will get is reaction, arguing, name calling and more frustration than clarity.
Take a deep breathe. Sign off.
This has nothing to do with him being a Scorpio, his attitude is based on one of two things; your attitude or his own personal issues.
Posted by DamnataWell that's really supportive of you. This dude gets all the pleasure from making me suffer and you can just slap me in the face with your words to further that. Congrats to you.
If you're so easily riled up by a stranger on a forum..I can only imagine how much pleasure that scorpio dude is deriving from your histrionics.
Don't worry, you're making him happy.
Haha. Seriously, do you people know anything about anything? What do you define as riled up? Because what's riled up to you may just be debating to someone else. Don't be so sensitive about it.
Oh you don't need to worry, we're both happy.
Posted by BinotaThe post I hid was the same post that had just repeated itself about 3 times and I hid it because I didn't want to same post repeating itself. Why are you so intrusive and demanding. Jeez you people need to sort out some stuff and gain some tactfulness and respect.
And also, un-hide that post before he quote this: "That's the same excuse women who get beat use to stay with their abuser."
Because I saw what you wrote and he responds to that post that you want to stay with him.'
Or are you rather bullying him even more?
Posted by lisabethur8I can thank my lucky stars for that? Is that a threat or something? Are you implying that I should be physically abused and I'm lucky that I'm not? What exactly is your reason for spewing that insane statement because it's pretty fucking rude.Posted by sclark151501hm ok, so he's not abusive, at least he's not physically so you can thank your Lucky stars for that.
What am I supposed to do when it seems like my partner, a scorpio man, is passive aggressive, doesn't communicate with me and it almost seems like he does things on purpose to piss me off. I feel like he withholds information from me, such as his true feelings and thoughts and then they all erupt months later. He also keeps doing the exact things that I ask him not to do that hurt me and insult me, I'm pretty much an open book with him so he knows all of my weaknesses and it seems like he pushes my buttons on purpose.
I briefly read about scorpios and it just occurred to me that this might be an insecurity of his? I'm not sure, I can't figure him out. And BELIEVE ME, I've confronted him directly I'm very straightforward with him and he just denies everything or he'll either admit everything (repeating what I say with a sarcastic tone. So it's like he never gives me a straight answer and I'm frustrated.
What am I supposed to do? Is this one of those scorpio mind games or tests that I've always heard about? I know I didn't put much detail but if you'd like more detail just ask and I'll tell.
but it seems he's retaliating, because you keep pushing him. Like you are doing right now. i mean if he doesn't want to communicate, why are you so pushy about it?click to expand
....sounds like rabbit hit the ol' turbo button... nail on the head eh?
me-think they doth protest too much.
me-think they doth protest too much.
I swear, some people are so ignorant and rude.
sclark, Rabbit is right about you. you are too much. O__O
well they say crazy attract crazy.
good luck with your crazy.
well they say crazy attract crazy.
good luck with your crazy.
Posted by lisabethur8Do all of you enjoy insulting strangers that much? Now that's crazy.
sclark, Rabbit is right about you. you are too much. O__O
well they say crazy attract crazy.
good luck with your crazy.
Posted by BinotaI said every post I have hidden was a post that has been repeated. And it's a little hard to understand you because of your grammar., especially in your previous posts.Posted by sclark151501I said before, not after.Posted by BinotaThe post I hid was the same post that had just repeated itself about 3 times and I hid it because I didn't want to same post repeating itself. Why are you so intrusive and demanding. Jeez you people need to sort out some stuff and gain some tactfulness and respect.
And also, un-hide that post before he quote this: "That's the same excuse women who get beat use to stay with their abuser."
Because I saw what you wrote and he responds to that post that you want to stay with him.'
Or are you rather bullying him even more?
Before has only one hiding post.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Don't expect to insult someone without getting an insult back. I'm crazy because why exactly? Because I actually respond back and once I've let everything out none of you have anything to say except that I'm crazy? You're all really weird and pathetic. Keep being cowards, coward.
sclark, Rabbit is right about you. you are too much. O__O
well they say crazy attract crazy.
good luck with your crazy.
Posted by lisabethur8FYI, personally insulting people you don't know and have never seen before will get you FAR. Keep it up! 😉
sclark, Rabbit is right about you. you are too much. O__O
well they say crazy attract crazy.
good luck with your crazy.
Most of you here are guilty of argumentum ad hominem. Really pathetic.
Posted by Rabbit...lol
Notice how this user already knows how to block users, hide posts, and send me PMs.
Sockpuppet.
^^^good catch rabbit 😄
Posted by sclark151501Passive aggressive behaviour, seemingly doing things on purpose to piss you off IS abusive. Just because he doesn't hit you it doesn'tean you're not being abused.
Passive aggressiveness does not equal physical abuse. It may drive someone nuts but it can be dealt with and fixed. Unlike people who are PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE. How fucking rude of you, why don't you go tell that to somebody who is actually being abused and maybe they can pull their fucking head out of their ass, idiot.
Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad if not worse!
If you're not happy then you need to evaluate your situation and make a choice.
Posted by MadMarchRamThis behavior that I described is how I felt, Sometimes I feel he does these things on purpose but that may not be the case. Once again, I didn't put any of the detail that I should have and I should have explained more because obviously all of you love to assume everything about me and my relationship. I'm not asking for your fucking advice about abuse because there isn't any abuse in my relationship, I only gave you a brief description with no detail about one aspect of how I feel about my relationship, you can't assume you know anything off of that, that's ignorant. I wanted a general explanation about scorpios in general, I read a lot about their "mind games" and people paint scorpios as some master manipulator so I wanted others opinion about SCORPIOS.Posted by sclark151501Passive aggressive behaviour, seemingly doing things on purpose to piss you off IS abusive. Just because he doesn't hit you it doesn'tean you're not being abused.
Passive aggressiveness does not equal physical abuse. It may drive someone nuts but it can be dealt with and fixed. Unlike people who are PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE. How fucking rude of you, why don't you go tell that to somebody who is actually being abused and maybe they can pull their fucking head out of their ass, idiot.
Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad if not worse!
If you're not happy then you need to evaluate your situation and make a choice.click to expand
Posted by starloverWell that's just your opinion about him, not actual truth or fact. I blocked Rabbit because he wasn't helpful, he was just ignorant and stating things about me when he doesn't know me. That's a fact, the reason why I blocked him. Big whole misunderstanding and you people have to pretend that you know everything about everything.
Most people block others because they are abusive or disrespectful not because
they are trying to offer help
Rabbit is neither....he is a very helpful guy, i have found. Actually most of the Scorp guys here, are
Posted by LetltBFirst of all, idiot, I blocked rabbit then after I saw what someone else replied to him I unblocked him and messaged him. Right now he is unblocked and has been ever since I unblocked him. I really can't comprehend how idiotic and ridiculous some of you are.Posted by Rabbit...lol
Notice how this user already knows how to block users, hide posts, and send me PMs.
Sockpuppet.
click to expand
A lot of you should've really thought twice before you spewed insults at me and assumed things about me when you knew nothing. Instead of assuming, because assuming never ends well, maybe you should've stayed out of it or asked me to clarify. After I said that this isn't the case with me the idiot rabbit told me that it is which is rude and wrong to tell anybody that. This is the internet, none of you know me.
Posted by TaniwhaOk. Go ahead and try.
I would mindfuck the crazy out of you.
Posted by MadMarchRamI'm perfectly aware of what emotional abuse is. I didn't explain what I should have in my original post, leading all of you knuckle heads to assume so much about a stranger and stick by whatever you assumed even after I tried to clarify. I'm perfectly capable of making my own decisions thanks.Posted by sclark151501Passive aggressive behaviour, seemingly doing things on purpose to piss you off IS abusive. Just because he doesn't hit you it doesn'tean you're not being abused.
Passive aggressiveness does not equal physical abuse. It may drive someone nuts but it can be dealt with and fixed. Unlike people who are PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE. How fucking rude of you, why don't you go tell that to somebody who is actually being abused and maybe they can pull their fucking head out of their ass, idiot.
Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad if not worse!
If you're not happy then you need to evaluate your situation and make a choice.click to expand
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