Is this scorpio guy into me?....---Pisces

he is a gr8 frnd of mine at my office....and whenever i ned his help he's ready to help me...and whenever i need company he is there 4 me..at office..we spend almost 3-4 hrs at office together...and he nevr complains to me..for wasting time with me..but he has many cute platonic frnds(though all are chat frnds)...
and he tels me about all of them..i kinda show intrst in all his conversations...evn about his platonic frnds....but i never reveal that i am into him..though i guess by now he must hav got the hints..like at office i hav bunked my work to spend hrs with him..
and then he givs me his mobile fon and allows me to see his msgs..and he tried to take away my cellfon once ...
then he even told me who likes at office and who he doesnt...and when sum1 makes fun of him..i dont laugh at him.. instead i try to calm this guy down of his anger and console him...but nothing physical has ever hapened yet(no hugs or touch).and he always suports me infront of others..
and once i asked him to stop calling his fon/chat gfs in front of me..then he smiled and didnt call them ..but i alwaz say that we are frnds..means i never say verbally that i am into him,but i try to show it thru actions .

we are in early 20s..
but he hardly texts me,,,,and when i asked him why he doesnt sms oftn ..he said it was too painful to type sms in mobile fon(jokingly)...anywaz frm his mobile fon i cud make out that he just doest sms any1 too often...
another point is that when he talks about other girls to me,he syas how he flirst with them and the tactics he uses to flirt with girls..but we discuss about everything and anything..but all on a frndly note...can it turn out to be more than just frndship?

lol @ Scorpius & EM .... we can send man to the moon, do heart transplants and communicate across the globe wireless .. but, we don't know what goes on in our own heads.

We're fucked up .. maybe this is hell.

My husband loves you, Scorpius

::faggots::

Everytime he reads one of your posts, he cracks up laughing and trust me, for Mr. Stoneface to crack a grin is an achievement.

crazy-fish, the answer is a yea

I seriously doubt those g-friends are "platonic".

Also, have I mentioned how much this age of "text spelling" is getting on my last nerve? JEEBUS!

wow...things have suddenly changed.."scorpio behindyou"..u were wrong i think..coz he has suddenly started avoiding me..i mean like few days back he used to sms me on his own and call me whenever i wanted him too..and he used to giv me cmpany in office..
but suddenly 2 days back 2 of his guy frnds teased us a little about being so "close" frnds..and he just grinned at me and i too smiled blushingly..but then after that i didt show up to him for 2 days..but he didn even bother to call me /sms me..then then yesterday i asked him to meet me (that was quite a casual thing..i used to ask him so even few days back)..but he didnt turn up..and then when i called him he said he was going somewhere(it was true..and he never lies)..and said he'll call me up later..but then i waited and waited..no fon call from him(yet i found out that he had called another girl that same evening twice)..
fine..i realised that he was ignoring me..then today..at lunch i found him eating alone at office..i was with other frnds..and seeing him alone i thought of accompanying him..coz i never like to make any1 feel bad(no matter how they behave with me)..ok..still then i saw him talking to my other frnds more than to me..strange!!but still i managed to talk with him..but still i had this feeling he was avoiding me..and then after he had his lunch..he was about to leave..didnt even bother to stay back to giv me company while i finishd my lunch(earlier he alwaz stayd back till i finishd mine)..then he got up..and i askd him to saty but he said ..his frnds wer waiting and without waiting 4 answer he left
It made me very sad,almost on the verge of crying,so my best frnd asked me to call him and ask him wats up.
i asked him meet me then and there,and he came and i asked him"so what did those guys say to u about me?are they teasing u coz of me?"
he said"ya.u know frnds r like that ,they jus need a cause for teasing,but i dont like to b teased frankly.u know,but they wont understand it.and staying with u for such long hrs are making people think in other terms abou us,but thats not the case u know"
i said "ok.so thats where ur prob is?u dont like 2 b teased and even i dont like 2 be teased,so i had avoided u 4 these 2 days at lunch coz i felt the same ,but u shud have understood that,and i think u were avoiding me coz of all that stuff?if hav prob,then be clear about it and i wont interact with u that much again"
he said"no,i didnt avoid u..did i?"

and then he tried to convince me that he wasnt avoiding me..and somehow i pretended to give him the impression "its ok..i didnt mind"..and left him..till then no call or sms frm him..
so people ..wats ur opinion about his reaction?can u plzz throw some light?i am feling real bad,,i cant concentrate in my work since then..i feel like i am losing a frnd too..i agree that i was becoming more attached to him than simply a frnd..but i never wanted to lose him as a frnd..he was so nice..i miss him..
may be i hav lost him..

hi friends..
i am glad that our frndship didnt break..actually i stopped chatting with him for sometime..may b that did the trick..i stoppd asking him to see me and stopped chatting with hm online..anywaz now he comes to me whenevr he sees me alone and talks to me but not for soo loong..and i dont ask him 2 saty back.Recently he tried 2 flirt with 1 of my frnds without knowing hat she was my frnd,then when we were together my frnd started telling me about his behaviour to me in front of him ,And i found that he was desperately trying to hide his guilt and he even lied to me regarding wat he did to my frnd.Why—?
And he keeps talking about girls and many other things to me but i dont find him talking about his many gfs to his other frnds Again Why—
Is it possible that he can make out i like him soo much?But i alwaz keep teasing him about his gfs and tell him to get serious about any 1 of them.He tells me jokingly"actually they are not fit to be my gfs.Why dont u get me a nice girl who will be pretty and nice at heart.Cant u get any of frnds to hook up with me?"
so i say"ok sice u have me for this favour i'll surely try to fetch u 1..but u must give a list of wat qualities u want in her..🙂"

"And i found that he was desperately trying to hide his guilt and he even lied to me regarding wat he did to my frnd.Why—?"

Because he's a playa and he wants to add you to that distinguished list.

"And he keeps talking about girls and many other things to me but i dont find him talking about his many gfs to his other frnds Again Why—"

To see if you will be jealous. This way he can gauge your interest without having to be a man about it an just come out and say "You wanna hang out?"

"actually they are not fit to be my gfs.Why dont u get me a nice girl who will be pretty and nice at heart.Cant u get any of frnds to hook up with me?"

Translation: I want to hook up with you, while still keeping these other babes on the side, but I want you to think it's your idea. That way later, when I totally dick you over, you'll have no-one to blame but yourself.

This dude is a complete LOSER. Extract yourself completely.

ok...this guy and me dont meet nowadays that often.earlier we used to call each other & plan a meeting..but it all stopped since that last time he got silent about guys teasing us..I stopped it all together(coz i hav a big ego..though i am a pisces sunsign leo moon,cancer rising)..but recntly since the beginning of this week i started feeling very lonely and was missing him badly (may b due to the romantic season--v'day)...so i called him up on 12th and 13th..but 13th he was reluctant to speak to me and told me he wud call me later//i waited & waited...the whole day..night..but he didnt..infact i made up my mind that he wasnt intersted in me anymore..so i'll never ever contact him in future on my own..(and i am a very determined person,once i decide something,theres no turning back!!)
But being a pisces i had the feeling that he wud come to my office building during luch on v'day to see my reaction..And behold it did happen!!!
I reaaly wonder how can i read people and time so much??
wat happened on v'day has realy trapped me into a completely new situation--->my mobile ph was silent so i cudnt receive any of the calls of the day..finally around 2.30pm i turned over to my cell to see that Mrscorpio had tried to call me that very day a lot of times..so i immediately rang back ..and he told me that he was calling me to get his luch coupons ..stranger still the time when he had last called my cel was 2.15pm...a time when he was already having his lunch (and when i calling him,he had fnished his luch and was leaving the food court!!)...I am 100% sure that he wanted to see me on v'day...strange..when i asked him 2 days before about his plans on v'day..he replied "i dont hav any plans on v'day..coz i dont hav any gf.."
i said"why?what about ur fon and chat friends??"
he said "no..they arent what i like..i want some one who has a beautiful mind as well..and i dont feel like taking any girl out on v'day coz i dont love any of them"
so friends i am realy confused now..he didnt meet up any of his "so-called" phone friends..with whom he usually hangs around when not in office!!!
What does it mean??IS he testing me?

Crazy_fish - what I would suggest, in the first instance, is to undertake an English grammar and spelling course.

You will come to learn what Conciseness is. Also you will learn how to implement written communication to others in an effective and understandable fashion.


Early 20's? I really did think you were a young teenager.

LEAVE HER TYPING ALONE

hello everyone..please give your honest opinion...regarding my hopeless/hopeful situation!!
As for s sting...i am not poor in grammar or spellings..its just that i like to type fast and not waste much time in questioning..but i do have the notion that you people are not very accustomed to the habit of sms in cellphones..now i hope what i have just written is clear to you since i have not used any "abbreviation"!!!

And lady taurus, I came to this forum to seek help but that was rude!!!

"And lady taurus, I came to this forum to seek help but that was rude!!!"

Maybe I'm missing something here but how was "LEAVE HER TYPING ALONE" rude? I thought ladie.taurus was defending you..

Crazy_fish, you are here for advice, and all have told you he is a playa. He isn't serious about you at all. Not the actions of a serious scorpio man.

Yes, i think he likes you. Keep playing those hard to get games, he likes it.

Agreed he is attracted to her. Serious like? Nah.

ok..this guy is about to ask me out for a movie on weekend..probably...should i say yes without hesitation??or should i refuse him saying "u have lots of friends(gfs) already..so didnt get any one to accompany u and hence asking me?"
Because with scorpios everyone says,"play hard to get"...........

Only if you mean it, or trust me you will miss out!

Playing hard to get is okay to a limit, meaning not being too eager and too available. However show interest if you are. Stick to your guns per se. Ya know? If you want to go tell him sure, and tell him where to pick you up. Think about it? It sounds like you are interested, enjoy the time, why play games and miss out on spending time with him when you really want to. However after the date... Don't call a million times in fact don't call until he calls you. We hate clinginess. However we love attention and being reassured we are liked/loved. If you know what I mean.

You said probably? Why would you think he MIGHT ask you out?

ya ..i said "probably"
coz he had already mentioned this plan today in office .he 1st asked 2 other guys (our common friends) for the movie..then they could not assure him that they would make time this weekend.Then he turned to me to ask me the same.I didnt show much interest though ,when he said "actually i have already told ____(one of his chat friends--a girl)..she said she can manage on fri but not sure about saturday,"
So i really got pissed with this and said "ok then u must go with her ..and besides i might be going to the parlour during weekend"
Since i have already turned him down,i am in doubts that he'll ask me out...but still i have a feeling (pisces intuition) that he will coz this is the 1st time he is asking me out(outside office)..so far we have only spent time together inside office premises.

We will see. Most likely he might not since you turned him down. You should have said sure if you wanted to go. Who cares about the chat girl.

Should have let him decide between the two and if he chose her be fine with it either way. They like that. Keep things light unless he shows more interest.

yup..i think so too.i am keeping things light coz i dont want to be too much bothered with his foolish mind games(had been through a lot lately bcoz of him and i need some serious mental peace)
I havent actually refused him but i had siad "ok sat would be ok for me i'llll see"
but when he spoke about the other girl ..i had to give the curt reply.
lets see whatsoever!