Knocked her fortress walls down

I'm talking about the second Scorpio I've known this one for a decade and half but I've never spent any time with her talking to her we just knew each other. Now that I've been working at her workplace for the last 4 months she has let her guard down. In the time we've worked together I've learned from the mistakes I made with the first Scorpio, if this Scorpio wasn't married I would flirt with her a little.

Listening to a Scorpio makes them really happy and I mean take interest in what they have to say I'm finding with the second Scorpio she's like the first she's full of knowledge its hidden you can have a good conversation with her. What knocked the last few bricks from her walls I showed I care about her she hurt herself I wanted to know how she described it and showed me, Scorpios truly do soak it up like a sponge when you care they love being cared about.

It is easier working with her when she has her guard down when you are a Cancer man you can sense when she has her guard up she's a lot more relaxed, she is sticking up for me I guess her company she works for is questioning the work I'm doing for them.

The third Scorpio at the supply house she's still acting strange with me some days she's good some days she's really moody, its tough being a single mother with couple kids from what I gather her ex husband is a dick. When other people are in the office she's okay when its just her and I she gets really quiet and I get the Scorpio attitude like I have done something wrong and haven't figured it out.

She's a married woman do you really think I would be trying to get in her pants, besides she seems happy in her marriage. I know she's happy that she's working with somebody that understands her she can be herself.

Posted by elllesque
it would be really funny if all three turned out to be aries.

I know the birthdays of the first two the third I don't know she's not an Aries I have lots of experience with Aries, from her behaviour she's a Scorpio.

How the fuck do you socialize in real life.

Posted by KsamCancer
Now that her fortress walls have been destroyed, go in for the kill and claim your loot

Her husband would crush me like a bug I'm a decent sized guy he's even bigger she's hands off for me.

Posted by MagicMona
i wonder if you get these women's signs for real, or you just try to pin them on their behavior. it so obvious you want to get into her pants. 'if she wasn't married i flirt with her'. dude, you do not shit where you eat. judging from your previous info, that's what got you canned at the first job. but i guess learning aint for everybody.

have you ever stopped to think that maybe you did not knock any walls down? maybe she never had any up in the first place. are you really seeing things for what they are? it seems like you only see things from an egotistical viewpoint. and why are you so hellbent on making a married woman feel comfortable around you anyway? that's for her husband, not you.

the thirst is TOO real.

She isn't my co-worker I work for a different company than her, when her and I started working together she was nervous she had her guard up we started talking more she started to relax then the emotional side come out of her, today I don't have to deal with a Scorpio with her guard up she's much easier to work with. When I show up she smiles I get her laughing when she talks to me its in a soft tone of voice. When she's around others she's loud she's a totally different person when her and I are alone she gets quiet she can be her self Scorpio women have little quirks they hide from people they are not comfortable with. Scorpio women like people they can talk to people that understand them.

something about his calm stalker personality and his avatar makes the thread title sound predatory

Posted by thinktoomuch

when her and I started working together she was nervous she had her guard up we started talking more she started to relax then the emotional side come out of her. ....Scorpio women have little quirks they hide from people they are not comfortable with.... Scorpio women like people they can talk to people that understand them.

This goes for everyone dude! I think what you are describing has got nothing to do with being a scorpio, probably because you never get to know these women on a deeper level. What you describe is always just the superficial stuff. You think you know scorpios Stihl, but you really really don´t, and from what you write here, I don´t think you would actually like scorpios. Way too extreme for you.

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The first Scorpio got really deep it was actually scary she talked about ending her life, the second Scorpio has shown her depressive side, I've seen Scorpio anger you Scorpio women can be down right scary there is a lot of schitt you hide from the world you have to people would run soon as they meet you.

The Scorpio I'm working with now she's changed I noticed it this morning when she was talking to me she talks softly its hard to describe but the pitch of her voice has dropped the first Scorpio did the same thing there were times I had to ask her to repeat what she said. I'm finding it interesting that the two Scorpios have the same behavior around me where they are loud and boisterous with other people with me its quiet as a church mouse.

Its easier to work with a Scorpio woman when she's not wound tighter than a guitar string.

Posted by Stihl46
The Scorpio I'm working with now she's changed I noticed it this morning when she was talking to me she talks softly its hard to describe but the pitch of her voice has dropped the first Scorpio did the same thing there were times I had to ask her to repeat what she said. I'm finding it interesting that the two Scorpios have the same behavior around me where they are loud and boisterous with other people with me its quiet as a church mouse.

Its easier to work with a Scorpio woman when she's not wound tighter than a guitar string.

They read all your theads and don't want to be the next passenger on the rape train.

Posted by Koniucha
I can get pretty wound up

She was driving me nuts she was all stressed out worried about everything the control freak was an all time high I don't work like that she was making me stressed out I'm not wound tighter than a guitar string..

The only problem when a Scorpio woman is comfortable with you they will fight I found people they are not comfortable with they will blow it off and walk away.

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Posted by Koniucha
I can get pretty wound up

She was driving me nuts she was all stressed out worried about everything the control freak was an all time high I don't work like that she was making me stressed out I'm not wound tighter than a guitar string..

The only problem when a Scorpio woman is comfortable with you they will fight I found people they are not comfortable with they will blow it off and walk away.

And that works so very well with a cancer, that hates confrontation and will just back away😄 See, cancer and scorpio don´t go together.

If you get so affected by her being stressed out, then that´s just another example at why it wouldn´t work out.

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I don't like confrontation but I rarely back down from it, the first Scorpio got scared when a guy tried confronting me the guy backed off never screw with a guy that has hands like baseball mitts. Scorpios avoid confrontation at all costs unless they are confronting somebody they are comfortable with.

The Scorpio I work with now she worries about everything she's a typical Scorpio woman the first Scorpio worries about everything the worrying about crap turns into the control freak. I don't stress about stuff I just do it why get stressed over something that is out of your control.

Thank Christ the Scorpio I'm working with has calmed down she was making me angry with her worrying about everything she's stopped doing that I guess she knows she can trust me the only problem now she's comfortable enough to sting me if it ever happens.