Made contact now what do i do

I look to all you scorpion females out there. We have connected on a very deep level my scorpion love and I and ask any and all scorpion women. How should I proceed. I really love this girl and I'm willing to take advice.

Well, not knowing very much about the relationship, other than you've know her for 17 years and have a very desire for her, I don't know how much insight I can give. However, I can say this much. Being a Scorp myself (which means nothing), I know that I would love to be wooed. Flowers, dinners, crazy weekends away from the regular daily humdrum routines. Look into her eyes, caress her cheek and/or hand(s), but most importantly, be honest. Don't say anything that you can't deliver! Every realtionship should be built on honesty. Let me know how things happen! Take care!

I am a scorpio, most likley right around her age, and dying for attention. But I'll never let you know. That would be weak. That is my biggest fault. I will not say what I want or need in an effort to avoid appearing weak, or lost or alone or anything other than all together. I can manulipate to get what I want, and I'm usually very good at it. Your job is to anticipate my needs, don't catch me at it, don't accuse me - just grant my wish. I get defensive if I'm wrong- so be careful here. My motivation might be a little messed up: re-direct that to get the appropriate outcome. For instance, I want to have a wild time, you can tell I'm ready to party, I start to drink- and get a little out of control, I will protest going home- slip me a water- tell me how much you want me around and let's do one last dance...then take me home. Remember everything you say is a promise. I'll say that again...everything you say is a promise. And I remember it all. I will also leap to conclusions, which may mean my motivation is wrong-because I mis-understood your promise. Be very clear in your wording. If you state you want to be with me forever-I'm buying a wedding dress. Get it?
You have chosen a very special lady-guide her carefully and enjoy the riches of love like you've never known.

My advice to you -my friend-is RUN LIKE HELL!!!!
Scorpians are the DEVIL's SPAWN!!!! She will use and abuse you-chew you up-and spit you out! Do your self a favor and RUN!
By the way-I am a Scorpio-so I know what I am talking about!!!!!

What a sad life you must have to make comments like that!

No-I just realize what my bad traits are and refuse to inflict pain on others!! Once the rest of you scorpians realize that you are not suited to be in a relationship with anyone other than your own kind-you will do yourself a favor along with sparing the heartbreak of others! We scorpio's need to learn that and learn it really fast!!!!

Thankyou for responding. I really learned alot from your input. I never want her to feel week or hurt in my presence. I would really like to talk more with you. It seems you have an insight that could really help. My love is 35yrs old and has been through the ringer she has an ex boyfriend that is the father of her child(never married)who doesn't help much with anyhthing money or much else. She is a fighter and I love that about her. There are some issues between us that I really need some guidance on. I'll wait to hear from you before

Thankyou for responding. I really learned alot from your input. I never want her to feel week or hurt in my presence. I would really like to talk more with you. It seems you have an insight that could really help. My love is 35yrs old and has been through the ringer she has an ex boyfriend that is the father of her child(never married)who doesn't help much with anyhthing money or much else. She is a fighter and I love that about her. There are some issues between us that I really need some guidance on. I'll wait to hear from you before I proceed.

I'd be more than happy to talk to you about your issues. Don't know how good my thoughts will be, though. I'm glad to hear she's a fighter. I am also when something, or someone, matters to me. What's going on?

Please don't pass judgment on me. Ok here goes. Well the funny thing is about this scorp is that we've known each other for almost 20 years, the whty is because I'm at the moment married to her sister and have been for 16yrs. So I've seen her go through all the problems with her ex and have tried to be there for her anytime she needs me. When we were younger I don't think I would have been mature enough to handle a beautiful person like her, she intimidated me. Her fire and passion were unbelievable and as I've grown and matured I see her in a completely different light. We seem to everything in common from our carreers to our activities inside and outside the home and the real biggie were are extremely attracted to each other sexually. Neither of us has acted on our feelings yet but I know we both want to. She fights so hard in her daily life where as her sister doesn't have to fight at all. I have given her the world 2 homes money in the bank kids our well taken care of (by me) not her and she doesn't appreciate anything. Aside from having sex once a month that is probably there is not much highlight to my existance. My wife her sister weighs in at 230 lbs and doesn't give a shit how she looks. My scorp is 130 lbs works out 5 days a week and is not filled with hate for the world. I don't want to hurt anyone but I would love to feel the hunger and passion that I see in my scorps eyes. We flirt almost to the edge of touching we both get so excited we both have to watch it. I want her so bad I can almost feel how hot we would be together. I had both sets charted by horoscope and the scorp is a better match for me because of her drive and ambition. I being Irish/Italian just like the scorp have hot blood and need someone that could match my needs and desires. Sincerely Sleepless in Seattle

Hello! First of all, let me say that I don't pass judgement on anyone unless it happens to effect me or my own.Second, let me ask, how old are you & her sister? It seems to me that if you've been able to provide your wife with 2 homes, adequate funds in the bank, etc., that you have a pretty successful career. I can understand you being attracted to someone 130 lbs.over 230lbs. Who wouldn't? ...but, possibly, because you've been busy building a career, there hasn't been enough time to spend with your wife (hence her gaining weight, not taking care of the kids, etc.). How old are your kids? Your wife may be "filled with hate" for the world because she doesn't have respect for herself ( the weight gain can do it). Is it possible that you could encourage her to lose weight? That may rekindle whatever passion you once had. As for the scorp sister, I urge you to use the utmost caution in your actions. If you should act upon them, it could cause a most terrible upheavel in the family. It surely would cause your children mental anquish. There are a lot of factors that I do not know so I still don't feel like I can give advice (however appropriate it may be). Check back with me. I hope you understand that I'm trying to be as honest as I can.

No that's just fine I appreciate the honesty. First, rebecca is the scorp's name and she is 35 soon to be 36 and I am 38. Crazy as it sounds the marriage is great as long as I don't mind an aquarian that is aloof and detached emotionally and physically. She's always been that way. Yes, I have gone to great lengths to help with the weight loss. Herballife and hundreds of diet programs that I invest the money in and she puts about 2 weeks worth of effort into and then discards. Believe me I've been extremely patient. With rebecca it seems we can communicate without speaking and have been able to do that the whole time we've known each other. We can both feel the hunger the other is feeling. Neither one of us wants to shake up or create an upheaval. Rebecca deserves the monetary success and someone devoted to her. It's not just the way she looks either. Rebecca is kind of heart, depth of soul, very loyal and extremely motivated just like me, instead of pissed at the world like her sister. Being a gemini I'm a pure motivated optimist married to the ultimate nay sayer. Rebecca and I connect on so many levels it's hard to describe the passion I feel when I'm near her. Intense comes close but does not totally describe it. Rebeccas' sexual hunger matches mine in our outlooks, likes and dislikes whereas her sister could take it or leave it. We've had a few moments of shared secrets where rebecca has masturbated just for me and then looks me right in the eye and I can see the smoldering passion and the hunger and all I want to do is just make her come as many times as possible. There has to be a middle ground somewhere. If rebecca gave me the word I would be hers and noone elses but out of a sense of duty to her sister she won't say her true feelings. I know first hand rebecca wants me and I want her just as bad. She deserves the best this world has to offer and I will see to it that she gets it. Her touch electrifies me, making love to her would be the ultimate. There were occasions in our past where we had the chance and I declined out of respect and love for her. I don't want to do that anymore I want her more than anything. Gemini's are supposed to be two sided and fickle. I am not either I have been tempered with maturity and have unconditional love for her. I want more than anything to see her succeed in life and all I want in return is to feel that intense passion phsyically. How do I convince her I am pure of heart with my intentions. We did make contact like I said although awkward we both felt a connection and the call rebecca made was after 5 emails I wrote. Each was written very well and wasn't oh baby let me jump your bones it really told her how I felt and how much I loved and respected her ideals and what she stands for. That is one of the reasons I love her so much. I know there has to be a way to work it out so everyone is happy. Please write back, I really do appreciate the input. Ps are all scorpion women as hot as rebecca in bed.

You are a sick-home wrecking-fuck-hell bent on destroying the lives on your entire family!!!! HINT: "You don't shit where you eat!!!!"
Get a clue-asshole-you can't have her-no matter how "HOT" you think she is!

I don't know who that was, but I will tell you this..I don't appreciate you being so openly verbal. thought you wanted some help. I can't help you if you are going to tell the utmost secrets. If I were the scorp that you're talking about I wouldn't appreciate you sharing some of the language that you did!

BOY was I wrong! She had better run like hell-if you are capable of doing this to your wife-she better understand that you are capable of doing the same to her! -and one more thing -why do you so easily confuse lust and love? What you want is sex from your wifes, sister-and that is just plain sick! and as for that comment-are all scorpio women hot in bed-let me ask you do all aldulterer's going through a mid-life crisis cheat on their wives and destroy their children's lives?

HEY
IF REBECCA DESERVES THE BEST
THEN WHAT WOULD SHE WANT WITH A CHEATING BASTARD LIKE YOU?
AND AS FOR HER LOYALITY-DID YOU SAY SHE MASTERBATED IN FRONT OF HER SISTERS HUSBAND-OH YEAH MAN-REAL LOYAL-SOUNDS LIKE A SLUT TO ME.

I fully agree with the last 2 posts you are a sick loser wanting to bed youre wifes sis. May God punish you in all ways posible.

Let me begin by saying that I feel that you are wrong to try and sleep with your sister-in-law. It is wrong because you made a committment to your wife and your children. But I feel somehow that you are mentally ill. The way that you put this Rebecca on a pedistool and think of her as the love of you life is truly the ramblings of a child and not the words or actions of a mentally stable man in his late thirties. There are many good counselors out there that can help you with your sick behavior. Find one and leave your wifes baby sister alone. Try to remember that God allows you to take a breath each and every day so that you can be a good person and a person your kids can look up to and respect.
Good Luck from Chicago-land

I feel embarassed for you. You sound like a pervert doin all those kind of things wit you wife sister. What be wrong wit u? did u fall on u head someting? You give all man a bad name by bein so filty and disrespectful to u wive. she love u and u hurt her an u kids. Grow up and git a live.

so....when are you, the wife, the kids and the sister-in-law going to appear on Jerry Springer? Let us know-so that we can be sure to tune in!

LOL-your responses are tooooo funny! I do have to agree with most of them! Get some help, get a clue,grow up, be a man and then everything will work out.
Later......
Live from planet earth. Are we reaching you?

Gemini man in love with Scorpio woman:
It surely must take a special kind of STUPID to be you!

If your marriage is falling apart and you must separate or get divorced that is one thing...but, you cannot have your wife's sister! It is that simple. I am Aquarius female who weighs 130 lbs...I am 43 and men hit on me all the time...(It is sick!) Anyway, my point is that not all women are the same regardless of sun sign, etc. My experience with Gemini men is that they always want/lust after what they don't have...and you are following true to form. The problem I found is that once a Gemini man gets that "dream of his desires", it begins to lose its appeal and he must look for a greener pasture...
See a psychiatrist...focus on growing up! (I loved some of the above comments...Scorp girl, you sound like a fun person!)

Gemini man, what can I say all these recent messages must put of everything you wanted to discuss about your scorp. woman. I must agree some warnings are very right that you should be careful not screw up with your own family first. U never know maybe this sister of your wife might just want to sleep with you and thats it, you dont know. But most important thing is that you should listen to yourself more and really think if what u are thinking and doing is totally right.
I really think that you should discuss this kind of things with a doctor, because this is quite personal stuff u have been saying, think about it....? I dont think this site is right to discuss such personal problems...
I agree with Aqua (star) girl...
Best of luck anyway
your fellow gem

WOW Gemini man..you've really hit some hard rocks here..and I might add that you deserve it

Hey Star..thanks...I AM a fun person! Chat again

A player, by any other name is still a PLAYER! Look in the mirror buddy/do you like what you see?

you want advice? made contact now what should you do? get to church. pray to the Lord above to forgive your actions and on the way home buy your wife some flowers and your kids some ice cream.
as for the wifes sister-forget her. she is nothing but the devils whore because only a whore would fool with her sisters man-and will you still want her when she gets fat? everything you say is so bizzar like you actually think this relationship will work. how could it? your wife would lose her husband to her sister-your kids would lose their father to their aunt and rebecca would lose her entire family over this! the world is full of people to love tell rebecca to go and find one that is not maried to her sister. and you get your head screwed on straight!!!!!!!!!

After reading all of these comments I have one question for you Gemini Man.....how dumb could you be to ask a group of women how you should go about seducing our wife's sister? As one of the respondents wrote "It takes a special kind of stupid to be you!"
LMAO at you!!!!

I wish I knew your wifes name because I would tell her what a worthless piece of shit she is married to, I would advise her on how to get everything in the divorce and I would tel her what a piece of trailer trash her sister is!
Woman stick together against swamp scum like you.

So true! Women will stick together! (Regardless of sun sign). I must say that I have had two different brother-in-laws come onto me in the past...letting me know that they would like to...if I was interested...
Both times I declined and let them know that I would never be interested. I knew and loved their wives as family for God's sake! I have also been approached by married men who I do not know, nor do I know the wife...am I going to participate? NO!! There is a wife in the picture who is a woman that I would probably like if I knew her..
Sexual expression is something wonderful when shared between two who love each other...it was not meant to be shared with all who look attractive to you. You must practice restraint and self control..and consider consequences!

Good Lawd! Can't we please just change the subject ( and make him go away)?

I agree!!!!! Let's change the subject!!! Final comment though....to Gemini BOY.....your wife is a very lucky woman!!! She is lucky to be losing you and lucky to find out what a tramp her sis is!!!!! Now you can GO AWAY!!!
P.S. I noticed after reading all of these posts that you have not chosen to respond to any of them....maybe you are smarter then these fine women have given you credit for!!!!

Hi everybody! Now that the subject has been changed, I trust everyone has had a nice Labor Day weekend? Hope so. Mine has been uneventful, which is just fine. Nothing like a good long weekend to do absolutely nothng!

LOL!

Hi Scorpio Girl and All,
I am glad the subject has gotten off this jerk....he has gotten more attention then he deserves! I'm glad you had a good weekend....I spent mine cleaning!!-LOL! but sometimes that is what is needed to clean your space so that you feel uncluttered in your mind!-not that I do-LOL!
I hope everyone had a fun and safe weekend!

Hello. Yes the weekend has been nice and uneventful. Now I have to spend today getting ready for the work week! Oh well, as it goes! Does anyone know of good uncomplicated book on the "signs"? I'm not well versed in all this "rising" and "suns", etc. I'd like to know a little more.

Hello SG,
I do not know of a book but if you go to AstroAdvice.com and sign up for a FREE membership (only takes a minute to register) you can do a Self Analysis (link on left side of page) and it will tell you all that you need to know about your sign according to the time of day you were born. It is a really neat site.

Thanks SWU! I'll give it a try. I don't know off hand the time of my birth. Birth certificate's in a lockbox. Will check it out though. Hope you (and all) have a great week.

HEY WE WERE HAVING FUN! WHERE DID THE ASSWIPE GET OFF TO?
WHAT A GUTTLESS COWARD! MAYBE HE IS OFF IN A CORNER LICKING HIS WOUNDS!

Ooooh! SShhhh! That might bring him back.

Congradualtion ladies!!! I had stumble on this this site today and it was very interesting reading. I am glad that someone has told this butthead the facts of life.

Why thank you Mr Taurus! It was a dirty job but someone had to step up to the plate and get the job done! HAHAHA!

Hey there, Scorpio Girl! One good book is called "The Birthday Book" I'm sorry I don't have the author here at the office. It's a big 8 x 11 blue paperback. With it you can easily get all the signs of the planets in a person's chart and short descriptions of each position. (You need the time of birth to find the rising sign.) I find the descriptions to be inadequate but it's a start. There is also a few pages on synastry that explains how to compare compatibility between two charts. If you like the internet go to astro.com and you can instantly get charts and explanations made up for you and a friend for FREE! You can also do a lover's comparison chart that will go into great detail about your match. You just have to do a lot of clicking to get all the interpretations. As with all horoscopes I take most of it with a grain of salt, but it is entertaining!

Hey Gem.
You sound like I did when I came out of the closet. Are you bi? or gay? if so let me know. I would love to talk you through the in/out of being gay and coming out. Always good for pointers!
Chow!

Gemini and Scorpio are NOT compatible!