Male Scorp+ family?

Ok, my name pretty much says where I reside in the stars, but here's muh lil dilemma. My guy met my "family" when he was hired at my dad's business. I only have an adoptive father and his daughter as my sister. Well, my guy has worked there for many years. I travel a circuit and only get to spend 3 months out of the year at "home." I usually spend this time traveling between the USA and his country of AUS.

I was completely struck right to the core when I was speaking of Christmas. I said to my sister.."I suppose we'll do something typical Australian and I would love to just do what Keith's family would love to do." I'm extremely cold natured and asking my guy to spend winter in the USA is like pulling teeth, let alone CHRISTMAS. I wanted to be completely unselfish this year and do it all up in Aus and give his mother full reign and I was going to bend over backwards for my guy.

Well, my guy turns to me and says something to the effect of my not being rooted to his family! When I reminded him that he has known and has been around mine for years, he tells me that he's been FORCED to for all that time and we've never spent the holidays with them.

I dont understand how this man can come to me so serious and promise me roads of romance in a relationship, but I'm constantly being reminded that things WILL be black and white and can be cut very simply at ANY time without a warning.

How do scorps feels about family?

I'm an Aqua so you can imagine I am right on the verge of completely breaking things off. Sounds like I'm over reacting and I'm trying not to, but this man has had loads of territory from my life shared with him. I'm extremely loyal, but because I travel so much we have lots of ups/downs. I'm not always right in front of him so he can inspect my cellphone and keep his eyes on me. *rolls eyes*

What is the deal with taking and not giving something back?