Why do scorp get such a bad rap

I've been poking around here for a couple of days and everything I hear about the scorpio hasn't been the great......

Granted I am dealing with a chick who is not helping the scorp reputation at all, but still it seem as if the scorpio just can not get a break......

btw, I a Libra.......


AMD

oh they are just bad lyricists so the can't rap...

well, i don't know about the rest of the scorps but i quite frankly don't give a damn what people think. in fact, the bad parts are gooooood. i like the bad parts that scare people. it's good to be scarey. powerful.

scorps aren't a fuckin' charity you know!

Scorps are "Way Cool"

Gemini's - Dont Even Go There !!!!!

Scorps will be scorps, we don't represent any pretence. That sometimes scare people. Especially ones who aren't comfortable with being themselves.

AMD, scorp women have very strong personalities, secure and want to be accepted for who we are as we won't pretend to be anything else. If you accept us for that, you couldn't have a more unselfish, devoted partner. A little jealous and protective maybe, but it will be worth it. 🙂

::swishing hair l'oreal- style ::

"........because you're worth it!"

Lmfao Roxi

nov_Scorp. It is very true we don't want to be vulnerable. However, I have learned that if you try to control things you can miss out on some really good things. If you brig your past into your present it can jeapordize what hasn't even had a chance to start.

Someimes, yes we will get hurt again, but if we take it as a lesson learned instead an expectation than we learn and grow...

@ nov_scorp:
"I let go of my feelings once and he gave up and moved on and I was shattered. Obviously I'm still affected by it. I'm moving on but with that knowledge in my pocket. Stay in control or EVERYTHING or else I'll end up a mess."

So even if a great guy came along........... you still would have a difficult time letting him in?


AMD

Augustus_Maximus_Decimus

wow nov-scorp.......

you scorpio chics are really something else.....
I do wonder thou if this is something that common among you scorp chics in general, because you definitely sound like the other scorp-girl I was talking to.


I wish you( and her) the best......


AMD

@wheelhomies:

Augustus - Latin for "majestic," "the increaser,"
Maximus - Latin term for "greatest" or "largest."
Decimus - Latin origin, and its meaning is "tenth"(ie the tenth month October).



AMD

@ scorpsting

sorry sweatie, but no update regarding this young lady. I recently sent her a couple of pics that I took and with some small talk, but haven't heard back from her, so I guess it just wasn't meant to be.

Then again, it took her close to two weeks respond to the email I sent her, after we 1st met. So I guess with her, you never know.

In hind sight, I usually attract scorp-chics but at the same time, it never works out. There's a strong or intense connection, but after that, the girl usually retreat into hiding and pops up out of the blue every so often. It rather frustrating because I know that passion between the two-of-us would be out of this world.

O well, got to keep moving........


AMD

@somechick23:

I really think that what Nov-scorp wrote :

"I'd not only have a difficult time letting someone in but I've been know to actually run guys off who were getting too close for comfort.
My way of thinking is if they really cared they would see through my paranoid BS and stick by me even if I'm being a total monster. And trust me. I pull out all the stops to get men to run away screaming from me.
I do it because I'm scared. I'm scared of falling for someone and them leaving me. I'd rather be alone then have the pain of losing someone I love. My love isn't some sunny day walk in the park. My love is forever soul connecting. What happens when you lose that? Death would be better!
I have issues and I know I do. I'm working it out but it won't ever go away. I need to be in control PERIOD. I have to keep myself in check... just in case."

sum this girl up also. She made a couple of comments early on during the date about the men and past relationship her in life that led me to believe it been a rough road for her (ie trust issues) as it relates to men. I actually had to change the topic of discussion to keep the convo on a positive and up-beat tone.

We went out 3-4 times, had good to great convo, the energy was flowing and we were vibing...... everything seemed to be moving along well, and then BAMMMM

out of the blue.......

she doesn't trust and she then drop off the face of the earth.

And that what bug the crap out of me........

My guess is that she was beginning to fall for me, got scared, panic and then just completely shut down. That the only thing I figure it would be........

O well,

Thanks for the ear though.....


AMD

"We went out 3-4 times, had good to great convo, the energy was flowing and we were vibing...... everything seemed to be moving along well, and then BAMMMM"

Two people look at a work of art. One thinks the artist is a genius, the other thinks it's a piece of crap. They look at each and nod approvingly. Supposedly, they are in sync.

"If I was in your shoes, and someone I was vibing with just up and shut down, I would take a bite of the apple."

either the chick has serious issues, or she just didn't dig you (and you didn't pick up on it).

"you scorpio chics are really something else.....
I do wonder thou if this is something that common among you scorp chics in general, because you definitely sound like the other scorp-girl I was talking to. "

Nope. Not at all and definitely not to those extremities. I like to be in control but I have given it up often times for those I love including a couple of libras.

QS, is that your hand or a generous boob shot?

"scorps feel and sense things more deeply than others. letting down our guard takes a lot of trust. if we allow others to affect us readily we can absorb influences (good or bad) from others. cuz we r highly intuitive. when guys are at the I think I like her stage scorps chicks r already out the door cuz of ur procrastination. we need definite not maybe."

Very true indeed.

SR, don't get excited hon, just my hand.

i give that pic a 7 out of 10 stars. -3 deducted for lack of daring.

And a true scorpio man has spoken.

You couldn't take my dares SR!!!

thank your for elaborating, mr.majestic greatest october.

Why do scorp get such a bad rap



Because that's what they like, so saddistic energy is what they project, intentionally, so it will come back to them for enjoyment.

All signs can get a bad reputation depending on how many people of that particular sign have messed up things for others!

Though A scorp myself, I still think some Scorps are terrible when it comes to emotions, anger and moodiness....

Having said that, there are plenty of other signs that get on my nerves and tops for me are the Fire signs..sorry guys! Maybe I need to meet some cool firey people to change my mind!😉

lol typical libra to want to balance this out 😉 Ik how u feel lol

Well my boyfriend is a scorpio and he's a total scorpio...well only the good side of it!! Idk why they get so much crap...maybe cuz they're the sex sign idk. lol. Seems like a bad reason though. It's like stereo typing them. People say I have no backbone cuz I'm a libra, but I guess they haven't dealt with me when I'm mad 😉 I gues it's just a type of stereo typing them

I have never received any crap for being a scorp, I am very well liked by my friends - unless maybe they are scared and dont say anything ...LOl

I agree, in part, to Nov-Scorp.
In my case, I do not fall in love easily, in fact I know as soon as I set eyes on a man whether I would be with him or not. and then I hate it, because a man has gotten to me, and often I don't even know why I am attracted to him.

lol Xun3, I have actually had that happen to me. I wanted to kill my friend...but of course who can stay mad at a gemini

I've been poking around here for a couple of days and everything I hear about the scorpio hasn't been the great......

Granted I am dealing with a chick who is not helping the scorp reputation at all, but still it seem as if the scorpio just can not get a break......


Jealousy. That's all it is.