Married Scorpio

I am not proud of what happened today, but I slept with a married scorpio. It is hard to say why it happened, but it really feels so low. Scorpio and I met at a restaurant he used to work at and now he owns his own kitchen which I have frequented with guest. We would see each other all the time because of work and being in the same vicinity. I ran into scorpio again a month ago and we were having casual conversations and he says "hey I just got a new loft do you want to see it?" I said "Sure why not." I have met with him on more than one occasion to talk about owning your own business at his new loft. He just opened his first venture and I am getting ready to start my own business. We get along so well. I must admit he has taken an interest in the things I like to do and what not. I saw him last night at the restaurant he works at because I was at the bar with my friend. We were talking soccor, and he says "Do you want to come over and watch the soccor game with me? "I say sure why not". Next thing I know he is massaging my feet and one thing leads to another. Trust me we both felt weird after it all happened.

He is seperated from his wife, but it still does not make it right. I really like scorpio. I am a pisces and he is a scorpio. I have never been with a scorpio. I promised myself over and over again I would never sleep with a married scorpio. I think we were both nervous as it happened, but honestly we both know we are attracted to one another. We are both at fault for putting ourselves in vulnerable spots. I do want to say when I found out he is still married, I did not call him or seek him out. He has called and text me on more than one occasion. Maybe we were both just really lonley?? Or maybe we do really like each other.

Any insight?

I guess I don't know what to say or do next. If we are both honest with ourselves we both know we wanted this to happen but it still does not make it right it did happen.

Another pisces scorpio story cheating on each other significant half.i cannot imagine pisces will do this,that too with married scorpio. You do not deserve to be Pisc.After all scorpios are all about cheating ,incest ,smuggling and rape,so no surprise.

Okay so after some more talk, scorpio is staying married with current wife for the childs sake. They just had a baby. Gee now I feel really bad, definately don't want to be labeled the home-wrecker. So when he talks about wife, they don't have sex, there are issues with the age gap. She is 21 and he is 40 almost 41. I do know I do want a relationship and I am kicking myself because I have allowed myself to be vulnerable with someone who is not available. I swore up and down I would never date an attached man. I don't know why or understand this all happened. I guess sometimes chemistry and attraction can really open up one's desires. Lesson learned on this one. We will see how the future rolls. We are going to try to remain friends and nothing more.

Whether I deserve to be a pisces is not even a choice, it is what it is. I am honest at least with what has happened. I have never said that adultry is okay. I am quiet bothered by it, and I am just trying to make sense of it. This would definately be my frist scorpio encounter. We do have a good quality friendship. We are both passionate about our careers have very common goals in travel destinations, and we are attracted to one another. I imagine if circumstances were different we could be dating like a normal couple but the scenario is not so therefore we must just remain friends. We both are conscious that it happened and we both feel terrible about it.

Its not a surprise because i know pisces women sleep a lot around. I am very happy i have not met any pisces female yet and if met too ,i will turn another way . You people are really homewrecker.

Its not that one thing led to another.its all a plan. Just ask him and find out. The stuffs like calling for watching Game and started massaging on you all looks a plan.

You are really a nut.when it was all over then you are hearing from him that they are staying together.does it make any sense to you and get it ? Its all about how scorpios are. Do not show your innocent face again . You bloody !

He's a total douche for hitting on you and sleeping with you whilst married, I don't believe for a second he's not getting sex from his very young wife, the new baby pretty much bottoms out that lie he told you....Run and stay away from any place he ever frequents, ask yourself why you went along with it and get those boundaries back up....Men like this will have you on a puppet string for years, you will look up and your old, no kids if you don't already have any, no prospects for marriage because your in love with an unavailable man and attempting to compete with his wife and kids and you won't win, you end up with nothing and you lost time that you can't get back....Does that seem appealing

Don't be dumb

You better hope his wife is not a SCORPIO!!!!
if so u better watch yo back!

Hot got a life, a wife, kids etc etc and he's preying on vulnerable single women, oh I hope you don't believe your the only way he's trekking up to that loft....what do you have...you have NOTHING because if you had your own happy life you would not fall for this/these kind of men, he may not like the choices he has made, and maybe his wife and kids are a mistake, a burden but he's made the active choice to see it through, to stay with his family and I bet you his wife see a smile on his face daily, he plays the doting father and loving husband never giving on that he's bored and needs more sex...whatever the case that's his problem and don't make it yours, he made his bed, he ain't that unhappy or he would leave...He's super selfish, want his cake and wants to eat it too with extra helpings.

LL - Never say never. I swore I would never put myself in this type of a predicament, and here I am. Sometimes passion, desire, longing just have a mind of its own. Trust me neither one of us feel great that it happened, but it did. I think maybe in a sense we knew we were attracted to one another and put ourselves in vulnerable positions.

LS - Wish it could be that easy but we really make good friends. We mesh really well on many levels. This even gets more twisted, for my business that I have, his wife wants to work with me. So I will even get to meet her. Yikes!!!

BG - I agree it would be interesting to meet his wife and here her side of the story. From his point of view, he made a mistake in marrying her, but now he has a kid whom he feels compelled to be with. I think it is guilt from his past when he had a 15 year old daughter whom he did not raise.

Tikki - If he was so happy with his wife 1) Why does he live alone away from his wife? 2) Why does he not have sex with her? 3) Why is actively pursuing me?

My theory is he has a 15 year old daughter whom he did not get to raise that lives in another state. His direct words I need to be there for my new born daughter. I feel like he will stay not because he has this lovely dotting wife at home that he is in love with, because he has a choice to be there.

As for me, I am not attached to the idea that him and I have a future. How can anyone have a future with someone who is still attached? It was sex, and it will only be as complicated as I allow it to be. I am not going to be vindictive and try to wreck his home which by the way was broken before him and I ever got involved. I have no intentions of telling anyone other than on here where I can be annoymous. I am definately not waiting for him to come around, leave his wife for me. I am on a dating sight and do want a relationship but I want someone who is available. It was just one of those things that happened. I will not lie if he was available I would be all over it, but he is not.

You are really a typical pisces who act like a spineless and let happen everything as usual. Just find out the truth and you will be thrilled how you got played by him.

Like I said DON'T BE DUMB...Do you really have to sit here and ask this stupid ass question...He has sex with her, they have a baby!! He lives away because most likely he's convinced his wife it would be much better that he lives close to work and comes home on the weekends and whose to say he lives away from her, he may have just enough money to buy a play pad to get young stupid naive women like yourself into his bed...He's a sneaky conniving dirty bastard that is selfish and lying to his family....He's pursuing you because he's selfish, and he can and he's a player. His home is not broken, he's a LIAR...Why can't you women understand this...HIS HOME IS NOT BROKEN, he is simply telling you that as to get his needs met..SEX, do you honestly believe he's going to say he's happy with his wife, to say that means he gets no sympathy, no empathy, no sex from potential targets (YOU).

Have some self control, your needy, you want love, you want a relationship, you want sex which is nothing wrong with that but it is wrong when you knowingly lose control and allow yourself to go with emotions that will only serve to hurt you later on....You have to accept responsibility that you did something that was terrible, you wouldn't want your future husband going behind your back, buying a pimp pad, lying to women about the nature of your relationship with him so he can bed down random women would you...SO THINK!! Think about how what you do will come back to you when you decide to get married and wouldn't think of cheating.

You are messy...You are immature as well, working with his wife...Are you serious? GET OUT OF HIS LIFE, leave his wife alone, leave his kids alone, leave his marriage alone or you really will be presumed to be a home wrecking snake...

Don't be a stupid fool and believe everything he says...He loves his wife and he loves his kids...He is just telling you this stupid sob story to get into your panties and you fell for it like a fool, like so many other lonely women fall for it...GET A LIFE, get your own life and get out of his life, who cares why he cheats, why he chose to stay in his marriage, you shouldn't, it's none of your business, it was never any of your business.

ya I'm going with beetle & rambi here we don't have the full story soooo

I truly try to keep signs out of things relationship wise buuut waters affect each other deeply sad but true

as for scorps & cheating... *sigh* due to our god complex (yes I'm being honest) we place ourselves & our love interests on pedestals so whether we r cheated on or we r the cheater it feels aorta the same...a failure in our own eyes.

I would guess infidelity is the most damaging to a scorp cuz a scorp who lacks the attributes that keep our pride in tact is srsly the worst most dangerous sign in the zodiac

Do we honestly need more to the story...He's MARRIED, he's a cheater that find ways and opportunities to cheat...Newborn baby, young wife, this guy has a great life LOL, older man young woman equals he's very satisfied, he's not going anywhere and I bet he's happy, this guy has his own business and most likely has the monetary wealth to buy a loft and use it as a playhouse, he's just a typical Tiger Woods kind of guy, successful, has enough money to do what he wants, feels entitled to have what he wants even at the expense of hurting his wife and kids. This guy is 40 years old, he's been around the block and he wouldn't have married his young wife unless he felt she brought happiness into his life...Now he wants more...Greedy

come on tiki...if it were that cut & dry life would be cake 🙂

we all know there r many reasons to marry that don't include happiness

I myself almost married a gay male friend (35) who was an attorney when I was 19 just cuz his new firm needed to c the white picket fence. We planned on having a baby in the first year too cuz that would complete the pretty picture for everyone Inc. his parents who were unaware of his sexuality...

oh in a perfect world....

all would seem simplistic. I'm not condoning infidelity I'm just stating the obvious "we don't know him from boo" or his intentions

If his life were so perfect at home with kids & wifey I'd assume he wouldn't be sleeping with anyone else...so she wasn't the home wrecker he was...he made the vows.

Funny how he told you that he and his young wife are going to "stay together for the baby" RIGHT AFTER you gave up the goodies. God, this all happened TODAY?! RED FLAG! :/

Well, he used your sympathy to get what he wanted. So now even if you walk away, he got it once - which counts as a win to him. But now he tells you he's staying with his 21 year old wife... SO NOW.. if you stay and keep fucking him, it's all on YOU. He's being "honest" (we know it's after the fact, but not in his mind!) and he's now told you "what's what"... he laid it all out.. he's staying with her for the kid, won't destroy his family (how very Scorp of him!) That assuages his guilt for "using" you, cuz it was only once, one enjoyable afternoon sexcapade... And NOW.. if you continue.. you're using yourself! Then three months down the road, six months, a year.. many years.. however long you keep giving him sex w/o a real relationship because you're sooo addicted to the rush you can't walk away.... then if you ever ever EVER push for more... he'll say, "I TOLD you I have to stay with my wife and kid. I told you this right from the beginning. You knew what you were getting yourself into from DAY ONE. You can't expect me to change it now, cuz I won't. Take it or leave it." And he truly WON'T care either way if you "take it" or if you "leave it"... "leave it" will just be a bit inconvenient and he'll have to find a new sex partner, so he can run his game on the next woman.. he'll be polishing his lines between now and then.

You're a Fish, you see the net... SWIM AWAY!

Mmmk.. so I have a view much like Tiki's... but I'll ask hardcandy and sunnyrambi...

Let's say that this Scorp guy really IS sooooooo miserable.. his young wife is a heinous cunt, they never have sex, their marriage sucks.. he needs a good woman to understand him and comfort him and give him the sex he's lacking. Let's say the wife.. uhh.. cheats on him all the time, once even with his brother... let's say she spends his money like there's no tomorrow, buying bling bling and frou frou... For the sake of argument, let's say she is THE worst case scenario for a wife ever.. and that he is THE most wonderful, sensitive, awesome guy EVER. He's SUCH a stand-up guy that he's insisting on raising his second child, because he didn't with the first.

We got that all straight? The wife sucks, the husband is amazing.

But now what? Keep seeing him and wait for him to finally get sick of his horrible wife and leave? But he already SAID.. the DAY they fucked.. he won't leave, he's going to stay with his family and raise the kid. But clearly a lil sex on the side never hurt anyone, right? I mean, this Pisces girl is a grown woman.. she knows the score... he's not lying to her now, if she continues. So how long should she hang in there to see if he MEANS it that he's not leaving his wife? Six months? A year? Longer?

No matter HOW horrible his life, no matter WHAT his reasons are for sleeping with her (or anyone else) this is a bad, bad, BAD situation for her to get involved in... like diving headfirst into a wood-chipper :/

exactly rambi it has actually been published widely of late that divorce rates r srsly the lowest they have Eva been due to the economy & having business attachments with ur spouse could make divorce devastating financially or even professionally...

the grass is always greener & it's very easy to point a finger

but...til u walked in anothers shoes....

^ yep all that shit derived from somewhere 🙂

Hardcandy, he's married, that should be enough to stay away but there are some stupid naive women that for whatever reasons go ahead and sleep with married men anyway. Even LeAnn Rimes admitted that she know karma will come back and bite her in the ass for stealing another womans husband...His cheating has nothing to do with his wife, men cheat b/c they can.

Totally agree with you Nefer...Always a voice of reason

I am not judging her for having sex with him.. I don't care what consenting adults do, and he's at least visibly separated, whatever. I'm just wondering where she's supposed to go from here? her choices are (since he put it all out on the table) walk away and never look back... step back and pretend to be "friends" with a guy she slept with and maybe even meeting/working with the wife... or just throwing caution to the wind and becoming his mistress (for lack of a better word here, people. Yes, I'm aware usually mistresses get a house and an allowance, and he takes care of everything.. but the last name.)

No judgment.. just dismay.. *I* can see the net... I will feel very very sorry and sad if she gets tangled in it. :/

Everyone is discussing here to clear out the fact but bohemian is really a nut , she is addiccted to sex offered by scorpio.
Bohemian :do not go after the mysterious face of scorpio ,there is a evil intention inside it.I would like hear from u.

Everyone is discussing here to clear out the fact but bohemian is really a nut , she is addiccted to sex offered by scorpio.
Bohemian :do not go after the mysterious face of scorpio ,there is a evil intention inside it.I would like hear from u.

sorry nef we were posting at the same time

to reiterate I f'n despise cheating my dad was a cheater but my mom had 7 babies at home & no career should she have left & raised us alone? hell no! I'm glad she didn't..

sometimes people Neva find "the one" my dad had, his first wife she & his son died in child birth...I visited her grave with him almost every week...maybe he spent those years cheating/searching for what he felt at one time...it's ok he wasn't the love of my moms life either she got pregnant by her soul mate as a teen & was forced into a convent to be hidden til birth & forced to Neva c him again

as I said in a perfect world...

to berate someone for what we do not have full comprehension of is wrong

The bottom line per my understanding...He's not leaving his wife (his words) and that's his bottom line...she can accept that and go ahead and form a romantic relationship, risk losing time on an unavailable man (dead end street) or she can take him not leaving his wife as a sure sign that she's going to get the shitty end of the deal and get out now.

Thanks everyone for the input whether it be negative or positive feedback. I knew that is what I would get and I appreciate all the feedback. Tikki you think just because he has a loft and owns his own business that he has money. He is a small business owner who is in his first year of business. He is getting by, not struggling but getting by. It takes a few years before a business takes off. As for him having his place and going home to the wife, that is definately not happening. He has his dogs and cats living with him. If his loft was a part-time gig he would not have his pets with him. A happily married guy does not leave his 21 year old wifey at home to go have sex with someone his own age. lol

Nefer, I think you are definately on to something and I think you may be right about me thinking we can be "friends" now that this happened. I am definately not going to wait around for him to leave the wife as I stated:

"As for me, I am not attached to the idea that him and I have a future. How can anyone have a future with someone who is still attached? It was sex, and it will only be as complicated as I allow it to be. I am not going to be vindictive and try to wreck his home which by the way was broken before him and I ever got involved. I have no intentions of telling anyone other than on here where I can be annoymous. I am definately not waiting for him to come around, leave his wife for me. I am on a dating sight and do want a relationship but I want someone who is available. It was just one of those things that happened. I will not lie if he was available I would be all over it, but he is not.

You have made me realize that I am kidding myself to think we can go on being friends, without me officially becoming his mistress. Definately don't want that. Thanks for the input.

tiki yes she will hafta suffer the consequence for her actions whether those be her guilt or something much worse

there r usually 3 stories to a 3 sided relationship & we have only but one here is all I'm saying

we all got a story some r just sadder than others unfortunately

He may seem to be just getting by but affording a loft is not just getting by and whose to say he has not worked it out with his wife that he stays in town as he does business, many couples do this, set up house elsewhere while maintaining his primary home with her, there are kennels and pet sitters so I can believe he has pets in that home but not be there all the time, unless you know her *his wifes* side then you really can't go by appearances and what he chooses to reveal, his wifes side will most likely paint a broader picture of the reality of why they are making the choices they make together....You have a lot to think about, good luck.

LOL so true@She will turn right around and end up with the guy and in a few months, she'll be posting under another name but the situation will be familiar.

Posted by seavixen2
she is going to do what she wants anyway. i really don't know why we bother to post advice. She will turn right around and end up with the guy and in a few months, she'll be posting under another name but the situation will be familiar...except she'll be posting threads like lovelibra.

I don't get this? I have taken the advice from one of the post. I am going to pull back the friendship as I do believe Nefer is correct. This post was basically a vent and to hear other's point of view.

Funny Sunny!!! LoveLibra is definately very preachy!!!

Tikki - Don't forget, I have been to his place. It is an older loft and it is not as fancy as you would think. As for the care of his pets ...no pet sitting because he is constantly cleaning his carpets. lol Every time he would call or text I would ask "What are you doing?" He would be cleaning carpets or walking dogs. I believe the wife lives with her parents. So Scorpio is not swimming in money. Even if he was, that is not the reason I would hang out with him. I just click real well with him. I own my own business as well, and I do okay with that and I plan on opening a second location this fall. That is one reason we like to get together and talk shop. I am going to still do some work with his wife, busines is business. I will consider how much contact I will have with him going forward. Nefer is right about the realistic approach to being the mistress / friend. It could be too easy to get tangled in that mess.

Hardcandy - I don't even know his whole story other than what he has told me. You are absolutely right about being a side to every coin. I do know this, the longest relationship he has ever been in is three years. He has been married three times. Definately something going on with him. All I know is I met someone whom I became friends with quickly and the more we spent time together we just clicked well. Almost like a business mentor, and someone who has traveled the globe and had life experiences. I think this is one thing he gets with me that he does not get with his wife.

Well I have an appointment to catch. I will check in later.

*smiles* Tiki and I are actually very, very much alike in the way we view relationships and such. She's just Aqua, and I'm Pisces... so my "delivery" of the "hard truth" was softer. Not that I don't cock both guns and come out blazing sometimes (most of you have seen it!).. I just felt a gentler approach was needed here.

Bohemian.. you seem much more... self-aware and self-secure than this, like a woman who ISN'T the type to settle for being a guy's piece on the side, like a woman who wants HER OWN man, all hers, to love and be loved.. Like you got caught up in this unexpectedly, thrown for a loop when the "separated" guy dropped the bomb on you (I'm staying with my wife, no matter what), and hoped for some clarity to clear your head. He might actually be the most amazing guy ever (we women tend to see guys in this way, esp guys we sleep with!), but his M.O. smacks of "game playa" because this all happened in ONE DAY, like he was "testing".. You slept with him once.. now lay it all out.. if he's lucky, he caught a chick with low self-esteem, once who will still be riding so high on all the feel-good sexy stuff and go along with this indefinitely.

We women really cannot be "friends" with a guy in this situation.... we try, and it fuck us up 99.99% of the time. We get so caught up in what we think we see that we can't see what's right in front of us. Next thing you know, you're drowning - and he's holding your head underwater! We have to walk away, run away, swim away, whatever it takes to avoid the trap. Tell him to call you if the divorce is ever final, and if you're still around and feel like it, you might consider having dinner with him. Then, NO CONTACT. NONE! Do not call him, text him, or "bump into" him. And if HE calls YOU before the divorce, repeat what you said and don't give in. Repeat as many times as needed.

If this man is EVER going to get the balls to leave his wife, it won't be for a fun, sexy chica who keeps giving in, no challenge. It will be about the alluring, secure woman who is immune to his tactics, who walks away head high and throws off his game. The one with expectations and boundaries, not afraid to say NO to a man, who puts high value on herself and loves and looks out for herself FIRST!

Oh, and as far as lovelibra goes.. ignore the trolls, they're mostly harmless. He's actually a Cancer of the bitterest and swampy variety.. and has this really weird dislike of Water women - popping up randomly to call them all whores, even his OWN sign, Cancer. But he used to like and admire Scorps, not so long ago.. then something happened and he's turned into this obsessive whack-job who posts 15 or so threads to insult Scorpios and call the women whores who love bestiality, etc. and jump into every thread that mentions a Scorp and start throwing out insults about how whorish and evil and messed up they are *wink*

*pat* *pat* It's okay, lovelibra.. I'm sure that Scorp girl who burned you still thinks about you too.

wasn't going to comment... but I think sunnyrambi has got this one in the bag. *including the jehovah witness advice*
Bohemian.Serpent is NOT stupid. I think most of the advice that has been given, she will apply.. because she is not a little girl. She is a woman.

tikki33, I don't agree with your advice on men. You have the basics right, but you weave too much of your own opinion and past experiences into it. It is all very logical, and cut and dry and sounds like it comes out of a book. There is no real flow to it. You can apply intuition with logic and come out just fine in relationships, even if they don't work out. Not all men must be tossed back into the sea when the clouds dump a little rain.

Bohemian.Serpent, some of the ladies were VERY tough on me when I spilled my guts on these boards. I love the way they drop the "you're going to do what you want and we'll see you back here crying" line. I don't think ANY water sign likes to be told what to do or have people try and figure them out...

Reverse psychology works! 😉

shellshocker, I'm not too familiar with your past post off the top of my head, but for the most part you would have to know my past to assess I weave my experiences into it, I actually don't use my past in every comment I make, especially when it comes to sleeping with married men since that's not something I have actively made a point to do, so I really don't have anything to pull from regarding this particular post...As for not agreeing with my advice on men, that's completely acceptable.

I grin as I point out (again) that Tiki is an AQUA WOMAN. Of COURSE her "delivery" is cut & dry, and she doesn't wear kid gloves! It DOESN'T mean she doesn't care or feel anything for this woman and her plight! But of COURSE it doesn't contain the gentle nudgings of a (iron-fisted, kid-gloved) Pisces woman like me. MY delivery contains imagery, projections, what-if's, "imagine this" stuff - I'm internal and visual, and trying to reach another Pisces woman using Pisces ways! Tiki is airy, mental, logical.. she states facts and hard statistics and common themes from a situation ALLLL of us have seen played out.. unless some of us live in a cave or a deep jungle somewhere. Tiki's a bit harsh, and very hard on men, but there is a lot of truth to her words.

I love me some Tiki, even though she's MUCH harder on men than I am. And hey - maybe she's right, probably her skeptical "show me the money FIRST" ways ARE better for women -- my compassionate, caring, empathetic, and somewhat NAIVE (grinning at beautiful9tmare) nature doesn't set off warning bells as quickly for me... which has certainly been to my disadvantage more than once!

LOL Nefer you know me and my aquarius way of relating to others very well.... too damn well I might say *wink*

Dunno who you think is single but giving relationship advice.. neither Tiki nor I are single o.O

But YES.. we're talking about taking chances with men, it's a lovely thing, getting out there and getting your feet wet, opening up and experiencing life, real and honest and vulnerable (NOT to be mistaken for "weak target" - true vulnerability is about being open and honest about what you feel and what you want, and having the inner strength to not accept crumbs from any man).. just not doing so with a CLEARLY unavailable man... just not doing so BLINDLY.. just not doing so WHILE expecting him to (or just hoping he might) eventually change the STATED facts (not leaving his wife and kid).

I SOOOOOOOO want her to take chances with a man.. a lovely, worthy, AVAILABLE man who will put her first and adore her always!

Nefer EXACTLY bingo...I care so much about women (people in general) my man will tell you I'm probably the most gentle giving person you will ever want to meet, even he shakes his head b/c I can't walk past a homeless person without stopping and talking and giving my time, my money and energy... I feel this deep compassion for women that settle, that take crumbs b/c I too am a reformed crumb snatcher LOL, I don't always relate that feeling in my post but the reality is, I know that every woman can have what she wants without taking it from someone else or settling...I won't make apologies for the way I post as I don't expect others to apologize for how she/he post..it is what it is..I have a tough love approach but the reality is I care or I wouldn't say anything.

Yes seavixen I would take a crumb piece it together with all the other crumbs a man threw my way and eat crumb cake throughout the duration of the relationship, sucks...sincerely a former reformed crumbsnatching addict

Posted by sunnyrambi
i could never eat a whole pie...i just want the best slice and a few outrageous sublime bites...because i like all different types of pies...and a whole pie of the same flavor to me...booooring... 😉 not to mention the calorie intake if you consume a whole pie in one sitting...oi! 😉

LOL too funny! And it's great that you aren't "settling" until you find your magic pie!!

With me, I have my MAGIC PIE... I look at other pies and think, "Oh, that pie looks good too. But I already have the BEST pie at home!" ... but it's always my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE flavor, and it always tastes exactly how I need it to taste.. and I'm rarely eating it all in one sitting, I'm having me a slice here and there.. or maybe a couple slices.. or more... I snack and I satiate myself and I get my fill and I literally stuff myself with this yummy magic pie... it's there for me, whenever I want or need it. I love my magic pie!!! No more crumb cake for me... I want my magic pie! *wink*

.... Oh wait... I'm HIS Yummy Pie! 😉

Posted by Nefer

Posted by sunnyrambi
i could never eat a whole pie...i just want the best slice and a few outrageous sublime bites...because i like all different types of pies...and a whole pie of the same flavor to me...booooring... 😉 not to mention the calorie intake if you consume a whole pie in one sitting...oi! 😉

LOL too funny! And it's great that you aren't "settling" until you find your magic pie!!

With me, I have my MAGIC PIE... I look at other pies and think, "Oh, that pie looks good too. But I already have the BEST pie at home!" ... but it's always my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE flavor, and it always tastes exactly how I need it to taste.. and I'm rarely eating it all in one sitting, I'm having me a slice here and there.. or maybe a couple slices.. or more... I snack and I satiate myself and I get my fill and I literally stuff myself with this yummy magic pie... it's there for me, whenever I want or need it. I love my magic pie!!! No more crumb cake for me... I want my magic pie! *wink*

.... Oh wait... I'm HIS Yummy Pie! 😉

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LOL I love your description Nefer...to add to that I love the sweetness of my pie, every bite gets better and better, when no other pie looks all that appealing that's when you know you got a great pie, something to savor, to relish, to lick and smack your fingers after a good slice LOL

ok now laaaadies!

honestly, ya it's all bout the pie 😄 & lest us not forget it! ;P

I've been married a bit & I luv the flav of my lion, lol rambi baby!



but we r not everyone girls! & the world is not perfect

let's just look at something from anothers perspective for a sec ok?

we should be here to assist our sisters with our knowledge...then SHE makes her way....

if we judge we too stand to be judged..., we've all made mistakes

Living with that shit can be hard.... why be hating? let's listen & advise... the rest is up to the op...

🙂 heya girlie! Know whatcha mean!

we don't lay our paths b4 ourselves 😢

sometimes shit is hard for a reason that we don't c...

ur my girl

Pie is in the house ladies! I have keylime, coconut, blueberry, cherry or all American apple!!! 😛 I love what you all have posted about pie. No crumbs only whole pieces!!! 😉 I think we can adlib the song scrubs by TLC. I don't want any crumbs. 😛

I took the advice, I am swimming away from this situation before it does get messy. Thank you all for your comments it has really helped. I sent him a text message that I would have to put our friendship on ice, because if he really wants to make a go of it with the wifey than he should do so without confusing the matter. I also told him that in the reality of who I am as a woman, I have to look out in my best interst of my own well being in the matters of the heart. I want to be with someone who is available, and I won't settle for less. So I said if he signs his divorce papers and I am still available to give me a call and we can go from there. I said he is a great guy but we acted on impulsive desire and the timing is really not right for this. So I feel a bit bummed out but at the same time resolved and firm. It is not good to get involved with someone and live in the gray area of relations. Gray becomes all kinds of messy colors and the next thing a fish has on rose tinted glasses and can see the relations for more than it is. I am really grateful for all your input!

Actually i have great respect for pisces especially males.but dont let me lose it.otherwise i will think all the pisces women are same.you know i am very good at criticising. Do not be compassionate to the point that you lose your brain.

i skimmed the thread and the only thing that stood out to me was...

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I promised myself over and over again I would never sleep with a married scorpio.

what a peculiar thing to say. so you would sleep with a married man of another sign?

you're weird.

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i skimmed the thread and the only thing that stood out to me was...

Posted by Bohemian.Serpant


I promised myself over and over again I would never sleep with a married scorpio.

what a peculiar thing to say. so you would sleep with a married man of another sign?

you're weird.

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lol.