@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts
Blah Blah cry me a river!!
Well ....am a scorpio female and communication is key with us. We love the mushy stuff but we also wants our man to be strong!!
Posted by Dynamite Parfait
'Welcome' back, MissScorp...😉
Thanks hun,,,,,you know its been quiet around here lately...bloody DXp will not allow me my old username back!!
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Well ....am a scorpio female and communication is key with us. We love the mushy stuff but we also wants our man to be strong!!Well, maybe that was the issue. I can be quite mushy very often. She knew I was strong though. She seen me on a number of occasions standing up to people and not taking others shit and easily getting what I wanted. When it came to HER though, I was friggin' putty in her hands.
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Ok am like this....if a man is too keen-am not interested. Then if he pursue me non stop-its roll eyes moment.
When he backs off i become interested. Then i want to get him back to very keen stage.
But most guys love the fact,your keen on them now-therefore they want to keep it that way.
That gets fustrating for the scorpio female,who wants her man to be 100% into her.
I guess thats when the emotional manipulation comes into play....we feel so deep and are so intense that we want you to demonstrate that exact intensity.
Plus we love a challenge!!
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Most ppl on here are so bias....you guys need to check yourselves.
Deal with it.
Posted by amethyst2002
Correction- 3 weeks before she got into another relationship.
At least she waited until after she dumped him to pick up someone else. If a guy is too nice, he has already lost.
/flameon!
I guess I should mention that I do not condone/approve/ or otherwise justify women taking advantage of "nice guys", just pointing out that WILL happen almost everytime.
Ok libra males should leave scorpio females well alone....save the heartache.🙂
Its abit quiet around here,as everyone checked into heartbreak hotel or what??
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Its abit quiet around here,as everyone checked into heartbreak hotel or what??
Still here and browsing around (bored at work)...
What would you like to debate?
Oooh oooh, I know a topic to debate on!
Posted by LibraSid
I guess I should mention that I do not condone/approve/ or otherwise justify women taking advantage of "nice guys", just pointing out that WILL happen almost everytime.
So you a nice guy? *wink wink* debate away...
I have always been one of those nice guys. I am working on just being a guy now. Loose a little of the nice.
Just shelf it till you find a worthy recipient.
Really though, niceness isn't the issue but rather a virtue so instead of taking away niceness just ad skepticism and expecation in with the niceness.
I found out the hard way that people don't treat you how you deserve to be treated just because, which is what I like to do. You instruct other people on how they should treat you by how you conduct yourself.
Perhaps "loose some of the niceness" was the wrong way to put it. I am a few months out of a LTR and the skepticism has been added for me. I am learning from mistakes both of us made in the relationship and I think my biggest was being "too nice".
Once again Nicodemus, you and I are on the same page. "I found out the hard way that people don't treat you how you deserve to be treated just because, which is what I like to do. You instruct other people on how they should treat you by how you conduct yourself." This is the realization that I have been coming to over the last couple months. It isn't how I operate but it seems to hold true for the majority of people.
You instruct other people on how they should treat you by how you conduct yourself.
haha, this is such a familiar libra trait of the libras around me... not sure if they get results though... as I just observe them from afar 😉 funny to watch
but it seems to hold true for the majority of people.
This I like, as the effectiveness of the outward demeanour you put out and how you compose yourself comes with a lot of maturity, experience and self-awareness.
So zenalchemy, you chose the topic. What is your stance on it?
I am also curious if this:
"You instruct other people on how they should treat you by how you conduct yourself.
haha, this is such a familiar libra trait of the libras around me..."
was said as a good Libra trait or a bad one? I like the comment he made. Basically, people have no more power over you than you give them. If you want to be treated in a certain manner then you must not accept less.
Posted by zenalchemy
You instruct other people on how they should treat you by how you conduct yourself.haha, this is such a familiar libra trait of the libras around me... not sure if they get results though... as I just observe them from afar 😉 funny to watch
I am not sure if you are trying to be condecending or simply observational.
Being observational, I think that one of the harder traits for us Librans to functionally enjoy is the natural inclination to trust things, and people at face value.
Societally face value is a concealed attribute and most people, though not personally, will naturally attempt to establish an arrangement where they get what they want regardless of whether or not you get what you want. Not good, not bat, just the nature of the beast we are accoountable too.
Most younger Libtrans will not realize or accept this observational truth. When they eventually do there are several natural Libra options.
The first is to develop an animocity towards the world around them.
The second is to accept this reality at face value and continue to live life as previously lived with the added attribute of making sure that they get what they want as well.
The third is to develop ways and means to be able to suceed within the system without having to become the system.
I hope that this helps to clarify the attitude described in my previous post.
If it does not, as Zen Alchemy has a glaring habit of insinuating contradictory or sarcastic counter argument and an equally glaring habit to hide when asked to support it......I leave you with this quote:
"When viewed through the ego of any man, every other man is a fraud."
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Most ppl on here are so bias....you guys need to check yourselves. Scorpios are loyal,intense,deep,determined and can be jealous.
In regards to Ms Scorpio,when she stings you it really can hurt but she will only do it when betrayed. Treat her well and she will be the best friend or partner you'vd ever had. She will go to grat pains to make you happy and will only go out with you in the first place if she genuinely likes yoyu. Never just to fill in the time.!!