PhoenixRising
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Posted by PhoenixRisingThank you, dear. 🙂Posted by AndalusiaPosted by PhoenixRisingHe was born November 2. He's a little over 3 months 😢Posted by Andalusia
My little Scorpio nephew has to have "minimally invasive spring cranioplasty" surgery next month 😭
How old is he?
I thought so. I was gonna suggest something to help comfort him. Scorps tend to act too tough for their own good when they are scared or distressed. I was working with a baby Scorp today and he was explaining that at the ripe old age of 9 that he no longer needs hugs from his mother because he's a big kid now. Apparently he made this decision 4 days after his birthday (sounds familiar lol). It just a front.
At 3 months though, anything will work to make them feel better. I hope it goes well.
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Posted by PeanutButterandEllyYou pretty much just described my life.
I think I might just get another one or two jobs. If I'm working all the time I'll be too tired to get into trouble or date (which is basically like trouble at this point.)
And I'll have money and no free time to spend it so I'll be forced to save! 😆
I hate having a 7th house moon tho. 😐
Minus the 7th house moon.
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
It's a real shame. 😐 So much promise and so many great things between us. And then the crab had to go and scoot sideways on me. I can recognize a mind game from miles away. I also can recognize self defensive behavior to try and cover up said mind game when asked honestly and politely about it. I thought he was more mature than that, it was a huge part of his attraction. Bummer.
Wished him well, thanked him for the experience, told him I thought it'd run its course and kept it moving.
It's always worse with water signs since they will defend that nonsense to death.
I have found I tend to be less tolerant of fellow water sign, which isn't a good thing given I understand where it's coming from and probably should be empathetic. I guess I just expect more. Why? Because I'm capable of similar behaviour and I don't need a mirror. I need someone that will push me out of my comfort zone.
So Cap Moons....😕
Elly..... 😢
Posted by exo
had lunch with my cancer mum in law last weekend. she slapped me with some wisdom.
she said in her marriage she had to learn unconditional love AND unconditional respect. that a man needs to feel respected even if he's being a stubborn moron.
my cap moon was like, omg! lol duuuh. i gotta soften up a bit towards sag. *sigh*
Hmmmm. Did she happen to give you a cheat sheet on how to do that? Lol. I don't know how to respect something I simply don't respect. I'm too black and white for that.
I suppose one can't really say they love someone if they don't respect their decisions.
I think I need to start with learning to be more patient. I don't know how I can wait months or years in some situations, but lack the patience in others. Especially when it comes to people.
*edited 2 days later lol.
Posting on a forum + "high" on cold medication = incoherent babble.
Posted by PhoenixRising
None of my responses are visible to me......😕 *listen closely to determine if that is the Twilight Zone theme song playing in the background...*
F*ck you Wizard and your games.
Funny I posted this 2 years ago around this time and we seem to be at it again.
Happy Anniversary Duncan. Most just send a card or flowers.
*test test*
*deep sigh* F*ck you Wizard....
*deep sigh* F*ck you Wizard....
Posted by PhoenixRising😢
Elly..... 😢
The snow if finally melting and I was happy until I found a backyard full of bunny poop.
Posted by exo
i noticed i have a tendency to destroy things instead of allowing them wither away/run its course.
this can be anything from an old sweater, a plant, or a relationship. *snip* i must take matters into my own hands.
lol is this a very typical scorp thing?
*shrug*?
I have a pair of leather stilletto boots with a small crack in the heel that my shoe guy says can't be repaired. I cracked the heel in 2013 and still have them in my closet. I still have hope they will allow me many more catwalk struts.
Relationships, not so much. I don't know if I'd go as far to say I destroy them, but I will walk away in such a way that it will never be revived again.
Him: How you feeling?
Scorp: *laying in bed* Hmph.
Him: Do you need anything?
Scorp: No.
Him: Are you sure? Heating pad?
Scorp: Idris Elba.
Him: *silent*
Scorp: I can feel you rolling your eyes at me.
Him: 😆. Text me if you need anything.
Scorp: Okay 🙂. Have fun. *turn on first episode of Luther*
#CrampCure
Scorp: *laying in bed* Hmph.
Him: Do you need anything?
Scorp: No.
Him: Are you sure? Heating pad?
Scorp: Idris Elba.
Him: *silent*
Scorp: I can feel you rolling your eyes at me.
Him: 😆. Text me if you need anything.
Scorp: Okay 🙂. Have fun. *turn on first episode of Luther*
#CrampCure
Reflecting on the words "I love you"...
I had a dream and it made me reflect on my experience with love. I don't believe I have ever felt one day "I love this man", like many talk about. I don't think I even felt it in isolation of someone else feeling/expressing it first, until One. That was unique and rare. I digress...
In terms of loving someone I may not have thought "I love this person", but I have thought at least in the last few years of my life, "I could see myself loving this person with all of my being" and for good or bad, it never gets to that stage in those cases.
While I know there aren't any rules for "love" I question if that's how it's suppose to unfold. Is it that I simply have an awareness that I'm not there yet, or is it a way of guarding myself from another not unlike other aspects of my life where I feel I need to contain/control?
So many people talk about loving their SO, but do you know the moment it happened for you? The very moment you felt it and why? Was it always there and you simply allowed yourself to accept it? When someone says "I love this person" to themselves, that is what I think of. That you are finally allowing yourself to accept what was always there, but denied to yourself and if so, why?
It's not like a slap in the face; a sudden rush of emotion. Or is it?
Anyone feel free to answer, but it's not necessary. I guess I'm just thinking out loud. Lol. I think I'm channeling Elly right now *slaps moon*.... I'll snap out of it after breakfast.
I had a dream and it made me reflect on my experience with love. I don't believe I have ever felt one day "I love this man", like many talk about. I don't think I even felt it in isolation of someone else feeling/expressing it first, until One. That was unique and rare. I digress...
In terms of loving someone I may not have thought "I love this person", but I have thought at least in the last few years of my life, "I could see myself loving this person with all of my being" and for good or bad, it never gets to that stage in those cases.
While I know there aren't any rules for "love" I question if that's how it's suppose to unfold. Is it that I simply have an awareness that I'm not there yet, or is it a way of guarding myself from another not unlike other aspects of my life where I feel I need to contain/control?
So many people talk about loving their SO, but do you know the moment it happened for you? The very moment you felt it and why? Was it always there and you simply allowed yourself to accept it? When someone says "I love this person" to themselves, that is what I think of. That you are finally allowing yourself to accept what was always there, but denied to yourself and if so, why?
It's not like a slap in the face; a sudden rush of emotion. Or is it?
Anyone feel free to answer, but it's not necessary. I guess I'm just thinking out loud. Lol. I think I'm channeling Elly right now *slaps moon*.... I'll snap out of it after breakfast.
Posted by -elle-
So many people talk about loving their SO, but do you know the moment it happened for you?
Yes, and I repress it because with that venus in the 12th, love feels like shame. I always feel silly because I convinced myself that I will only ever love *one*...and that never transpired....there has been more than *one*...so, I beat myself up...because is any of it love? Who the hell knows and who the hell cares anymore....
Never really denied myself. Again, my issue is always expression. I feel it, I supress it for fear of being humiliated....because love = shameful to me. I think it's due to the vulnerability aspect to it.
I think I need to read more about my house placement to better understand how it influences my feelings in this area. Thank you.
Posted by -elle-
There are days that I am annoyed that I love the cap. Being single was easier.click to expand
Is it bad that I like this? Lol. I feel that way often and feel badly because of it. I think I sometimes forget that it's okay to be annoyed by love or even a partner. That it's doesn't always have to be doves and rainbows and it's not a reflection of anything negative. It simply is. When my Fish bestie talks about the fact that she and her husband argue or dislike things about each other it's still throws me, if only for the a second that love is not an absolute, but a process that ebbs and flows.
Posted by -elle-
Like now....
I have been gone for a week.....visited four states (driving) in 48 hours....was exhausted. Came home...crawled in bed....couldn't think of anything but sleep.
He crawled in with me after his shift was over....felt like bliss.
Well, he has these stupid alarms on his phone...cap can't sleep too much...*eye roll* so...they start going off at 6am...he doesn't tend to them...so they KEEP going off....I get annoyed and go to the sitting room.
He finally gets up...snuggles on the sofa while I check out dxp.
I am still annoyed.
He goes to take a bath.
He is singing in the bath. All my annoying just melts away.
That's love to me.
I love this man.
*like*
Posted by ScorpioStarGazerdaww, poor sad Scorpio *hugs* if I remember correctly you've had a few usernames but you're a total sweetheart!
Lately I've been wondering why I can't seem to do anything right? I look at people and know they are thinking how the hell does this poor excuse for a human make it through life? I hate these dark moods I get in. Wonder how long this one will last? ...sigh
but those dark moods suck, you should listen to some happy music, I find that it does help a bit (:
I like the new name 😄
But yeah I'm salty you left. So...join the fate of my ex that didn't return my Tupperware when we broke up.
But yeah I'm salty you left. So...join the fate of my ex that didn't return my Tupperware when we broke up.
I'm gonna have to come back and read your post over. It looks like it requires a good cup of tea in hand.
Okay...*cup in hand*
Hmph. This helps. For another reason other than my original post, but appreciated all the same. Thank you 🙂.
Posted by Ellygant
...Our being wants them to be acknowledged. Acknowledgment doesn't mean we even have to agree or follow our feelings. There is enough room to both feel and then rationalize and direct accordingly.
Hmph. This helps. For another reason other than my original post, but appreciated all the same. Thank you 🙂.
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRising*nervously hands you teacup hands shaking*
I like the new name 😄
But yeah I'm salty you left. So...join the fate of my ex that didn't return my Tupperware when we broke up.
It's white chamomile, almond, anise and a touch of cinnamon. Some clover honey on the side if you'd like mam. Steeped 4 minutes in 145° water. Served with a an almond shortbread cookie. 😅 😅 😅
I don't think I can delete anymore. I'm running out of word plays on Elly...click to expand
*inserts Phoenix body double---as if---close enough double..she offers* 🤗
It's all good. I'll just be sure to quote the good stuff in case you delete again.
Posted by EllygantI KNEW it was you!! 🤗Posted by -elle-It was time to re-emerge anyways. 😄 😄 🤗
I SEE YOU ELLYBANANA!!!
I just needed an eclipse full of watery goodness and new beginnings to make the leap. 😏
What's this moving down south news I'm reading? Anywhere near my hood? 🙂click to expand
Let's kidnap elle and take her square dancing 😆
Posted by -elle-OMFG - one and half hours in which direction— Are you coming to a city near me??!!!Posted by EllygantI will be just one and a half hours from the ATL 😛Posted by -elle-It was time to re-emerge anyways. 😄 😄 🤗
I SEE YOU ELLYBANANA!!!
I just needed an eclipse full of watery goodness and new beginnings to make the leap. 😏
What's this moving down south news I'm reading? Anywhere near my hood? 🙂
Don't have a firm date yet. Heading there Wednesday for a meet/greet/discovery until Friday.
I will live there for eight months.
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Nvm. I just saw. Auburn. Wrong direction 😭
Posted by -elle-YUUUSSSSSS!!!Posted by AndalusiaI like to drive and have weekends free.
Nvm. I just saw. Auburn. Wrong direction 😭
Caps not coming
We can do dunch! (After lunch before dinner)
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I was literally mid *press message* yesterday when I got distracted and never came back to this.
#3rdMoonProblems...
So back to it.
#3rdMoonProblems...
So back to it.
Posted by Ellygant
TDC: Good. *cracks a shy smile but stands awkwardly*
Elly: Well you look good. Can I get a hug? *started reaching for one before I asked*
Lol. I believe this is why Crabs loves Scorps so much. We don't really ask for permission. We just warn you what's coming.
They deny it though.
Posted by -elle-
I spent last week with a potential *new* boss and my current cap boss is being cranky about it because he doesn't want to let me go....
So, today he got me alone...
"Did you get his sign? Read his palm like you did mine?" (LOL)
"I don't read palms, I read charts...and no, I did not."
"Why? You know what? He has a really whiny voice. I can't listen to him for very long." (lol @ this merc in cap)
"I didn't notice."
"Well, what sign do you think he is—?!!!"
"He isn't a capricorn."
"No?" *he giggles*
"Nope, he is not capricorn material. Maybe June/July. I don't know"
"I will find out."
"Just don't tell him I read palms, okay? At least get it right...I READ CHARTS"
Lol. I laughed the hardest at "Did you get his sign? Read his palm like you did mine?"
Posted by EllygantSrsly. That's exactly what my Cancer Sailor Moon was thinking.Posted by -elle-*carries your luggage for you while I buy you a bagel and plugs your phone into my portable charger*
lol...I am so tired. I haven't slept in 24.5 hours.
I am at the airport waiting for my flight.
This lady is like..."Can you watch my luggage so I can get a bagel?"
My Moon is like..."Sure!"
30 seconds later...I am like..."I want a bagel 😭 Nobody would ever watch my luggage. Ungrateful bastards."
*she walks past me with her gotdamn bagel like she is on a tour of the airport while I am sitting here chained to her luggage*
I should call security over and tell them someone abandoned their luggage, I think she is a terrorist and give them a description.
When they handcuff her, I can then steal her bagel.
My phone is dying. I forgot to charge it 😭click to expand
Current mood:
The "Silent" Treatment
Him: *sits on chair...keeps coat on*
Scorp: *sits on couch* It's been a few weeks since I've seen you. How are you doing?
Him: *shrug* Hmph.
Scorp: Take off your coat. Stay a while! I heard you were in a play last week. Tell me about it.
Him: *keeps coat on. Thinks....thinks some more* Hmmmm....
Scorp: Well what role did you play?
Him: *thinks....thinks some more* I don't remember.
Scorp: *smirks and gives side eye* You don't remember? Was it a big role or a small role?
Him: They're all the same.
Scorp: *tilts head and makes eye contact*
Him: *looks away*
Scorp: *Hmph....inner sigh....okay...pulls out paper, sits on floor and begin drawing*
Him: *looks around room*
Scorp: So how was your visit?
Him: She cancelled.
Scorp: ....you sound disappointed.
Him: *shakes head* Hmmm
Scorp: If you're not disappointed, what are you feeling?
Him: I was sad. Now I'm not.
Scorp: Poof! Just like that!?
Him: *shrug* Hmph.
Scorp: It sounds like you've become use to people cancelling. Does that happen often?
Him: Yeah.
Scorp:....*reflects....?* I'm really sorry we couldn't meet for the last two weeks. I always look forward to seeing you, I just didn't want to get you sick and I had a really bad cold.
Him: *silent...* Okay.
Scorp: *continues to draw*
Him: *sits on floor, grabs some paper and begins to draw*
Scorp: *🙂 continues drawing...after some time has passed* Do you find it hard to tell people when they hurt you or make you feel sad?
Him: Yeah.
You can always tell when a Scorp is upset with you. I find the baby Scorps the most amusing.
Him: *sits on chair...keeps coat on*
Scorp: *sits on couch* It's been a few weeks since I've seen you. How are you doing?
Him: *shrug* Hmph.
Scorp: Take off your coat. Stay a while! I heard you were in a play last week. Tell me about it.
Him: *keeps coat on. Thinks....thinks some more* Hmmmm....
Scorp: Well what role did you play?
Him: *thinks....thinks some more* I don't remember.
Scorp: *smirks and gives side eye* You don't remember? Was it a big role or a small role?
Him: They're all the same.
Scorp: *tilts head and makes eye contact*
Him: *looks away*
Scorp: *Hmph....inner sigh....okay...pulls out paper, sits on floor and begin drawing*
Him: *looks around room*
Scorp: So how was your visit?
Him: She cancelled.
Scorp: ....you sound disappointed.
Him: *shakes head* Hmmm
Scorp: If you're not disappointed, what are you feeling?
Him: I was sad. Now I'm not.
Scorp: Poof! Just like that!?
Him: *shrug* Hmph.
Scorp: It sounds like you've become use to people cancelling. Does that happen often?
Him: Yeah.
Scorp:....*reflects....?* I'm really sorry we couldn't meet for the last two weeks. I always look forward to seeing you, I just didn't want to get you sick and I had a really bad cold.
Him: *silent...* Okay.
Scorp: *continues to draw*
Him: *sits on floor, grabs some paper and begins to draw*
Scorp: *🙂 continues drawing...after some time has passed* Do you find it hard to tell people when they hurt you or make you feel sad?
Him: Yeah.
You can always tell when a Scorp is upset with you. I find the baby Scorps the most amusing.
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingThey are so externally awkward in a way my moon identifies with and finds enchanting lol. And that makes me just wanna rain down affection and warmth on them in every way possible.Posted by Ellygant
TDC: Good. *cracks a shy smile but stands awkwardly*
Elly: Well you look good. Can I get a hug? *started reaching for one before I asked*
Lol. I believe this is why Crabs loves Scorps so much. We don't really ask for permission. We just warn you what's coming.
They deny it though.
But I settle for quick side hugs outside bars instead.
(And maybe a sexually charged request to borrow a cigarette later inside the bar.)
((And maybe a sensual touch on the shoulders breezily walking past him at Waffle House.))
But that's it. I swear. There wasn't a single eye fucking attempt made that night, not once. 😄click to expand
Hmmm. I may not be the best person to answer this because I don't always know where my moon begins and my Scorp bits take over. I also don't know how much my upbringing has to do with it as I have been taking care of myself for a long time. However, I'll try as best I can.
Comfort is seen in two different ways for me. On one hand it is sort of seen as weakness to me---for me---not for others (hypocrisy at its best 😄). Therefore, asking for help or even reaching out is not done in an obvious way. I prefer to do everything on my own and it's hard for me to reach out to others when I'm feeling overwhelmed.
When things become too much I do require space and will simply take it without notice or permission because it can get mentally and oddly, physically exhausting because of the excess of mental stimulation. My mind doesn't really slows down and my emotions are being processed over and over again. A part of me knows it's not right to simply ghost, but I literally feel like I will knock someone's teeth out if I have to add anymore information into my mental space when I have so much going on. It's better to just float away for a period of time. Otherwise I have to explain myself, deal with your insecurities about my absence, comfort you, reassure you...*sigh*....all I want is some time alone to shut out the excess chatter.
If I truly trust you and enjoy your energy, I'll reach out with a simple "hey do you want to catch a movie", or I may just call to chat about nothing substantial at all. Just for a good laugh. I would also welcome an invitation to do something small, unintrusive and stimulating. You'll have to push me a little bit though. That is the other way I view comfort. Basically I need a small mental distraction to take me away from all the stuff I'm feeling.
I don't really want to talk about the issues I'm having in a direct way. Therefore stimulating conversation talking about life issues, your life etc will help me work through what I'm dealing with in an abstract way. That's more tolerable.
Generally, I need something to take my mind off of things without making it emotionally mushy. If I do talk about what's going on with me, don't make it about feelings. Just listen, ask me a few questions that help me reflect and see my dilemma differently and then crack a joke so we can move on without getting too deep and enjoy each other's company. It's the equivalent to a really nice hug
Comfort is seen in two different ways for me. On one hand it is sort of seen as weakness to me---for me---not for others (hypocrisy at its best 😄). Therefore, asking for help or even reaching out is not done in an obvious way. I prefer to do everything on my own and it's hard for me to reach out to others when I'm feeling overwhelmed.
When things become too much I do require space and will simply take it without notice or permission because it can get mentally and oddly, physically exhausting because of the excess of mental stimulation. My mind doesn't really slows down and my emotions are being processed over and over again. A part of me knows it's not right to simply ghost, but I literally feel like I will knock someone's teeth out if I have to add anymore information into my mental space when I have so much going on. It's better to just float away for a period of time. Otherwise I have to explain myself, deal with your insecurities about my absence, comfort you, reassure you...*sigh*....all I want is some time alone to shut out the excess chatter.
If I truly trust you and enjoy your energy, I'll reach out with a simple "hey do you want to catch a movie", or I may just call to chat about nothing substantial at all. Just for a good laugh. I would also welcome an invitation to do something small, unintrusive and stimulating. You'll have to push me a little bit though. That is the other way I view comfort. Basically I need a small mental distraction to take me away from all the stuff I'm feeling.
I don't really want to talk about the issues I'm having in a direct way. Therefore stimulating conversation talking about life issues, your life etc will help me work through what I'm dealing with in an abstract way. That's more tolerable.
Generally, I need something to take my mind off of things without making it emotionally mushy. If I do talk about what's going on with me, don't make it about feelings. Just listen, ask me a few questions that help me reflect and see my dilemma differently and then crack a joke so we can move on without getting too deep and enjoy each other's company. It's the equivalent to a really nice hug
Elly,
If you're friend is still around and opens up about things here and there it means you're doing everything right as a friend.
I was actually talking to my Gem bestie after a few days of silence. I felt like he was dissing me and I also felt I needed to work through some past feelings, so I withdrew a bit. Anyway, after he pushed me a bit, we went to a movie, hung out and talked about general stuff and then I told him what was bothering me.
Him: Okay, so why were you mad?
Scorp: Some---most of it was you and some of it was just other stuff I need to work through.
Him: Okay...?
Scorp: *he wants more...Jesus. Okay* Well, it bothered me because I thought you dissed me for some chick you just met. I don't care about you doing your thing, but I felt like you lied to me to hang out with this girl. She bats an eyelash because she thinks you're bangable and it's like "Oh sheeet. F*ck ______, we can hang another night." And you blew me off. It's not about the date, it's about me being lied to and our time not meaning anything to you. It hurt. *goes deeper and explains why. Feeling vulnerable*
Him: *reflects for a minute* All I heard was I'm bangable.
Scorp: 😆. F*ck you.
Him: 😆. Come on ______, I would never do that to you. *explains what happened*
F*ckin Leo Moons. He gets me and knows me well enough to not take it there. Not address the deeper stuff I shared, just take it in and go back to the surface. He was able to lighten the mood, not make me feel too awkward for going that deep, address our issue and I was fine.
If you're friend is still around and opens up about things here and there it means you're doing everything right as a friend.
I was actually talking to my Gem bestie after a few days of silence. I felt like he was dissing me and I also felt I needed to work through some past feelings, so I withdrew a bit. Anyway, after he pushed me a bit, we went to a movie, hung out and talked about general stuff and then I told him what was bothering me.
Him: Okay, so why were you mad?
Scorp: Some---most of it was you and some of it was just other stuff I need to work through.
Him: Okay...?
Scorp: *he wants more...Jesus. Okay* Well, it bothered me because I thought you dissed me for some chick you just met. I don't care about you doing your thing, but I felt like you lied to me to hang out with this girl. She bats an eyelash because she thinks you're bangable and it's like "Oh sheeet. F*ck ______, we can hang another night." And you blew me off. It's not about the date, it's about me being lied to and our time not meaning anything to you. It hurt. *goes deeper and explains why. Feeling vulnerable*
Him: *reflects for a minute* All I heard was I'm bangable.
Scorp: 😆. F*ck you.
Him: 😆. Come on ______, I would never do that to you. *explains what happened*
F*ckin Leo Moons. He gets me and knows me well enough to not take it there. Not address the deeper stuff I shared, just take it in and go back to the surface. He was able to lighten the mood, not make me feel too awkward for going that deep, address our issue and I was fine.
Anyone who says your life can't change in a second has clearly never left popcorn in the microwave for a moment too long 😢
Posted by EllygantGurl! Just wash the bangs.
I gave myself bangs a few weeks ago. And don't get me wrong, I love them and everyone else has commented how much they love them.
BUT GOSH DARNIT ARE THEY HARD TO style AS SECOND DAY HAIR.
I just finally got in the habit of not washing my hair everyday and it being very healthy. But the bangs fudged it all up. Now I wake up with so many cow licks it's like a bovine made out with my head all night.
Impulsive Scorpio regrets.
So many tricks to teach you once we marry and I'm locked in your basement.
Posted by Andalusia
So many tricks to teach you once we marry and I'm locked in your basement.
Lol.
#StockholmSyndrome I shouldn't laugh, but...yeah I already did.
Posted by ScorpionPowers
Anyone here ever block someone's number without saying a word after they tested your patience one too many times?
#scorpioimpulse
#wasitooharsh
#butidontevencare
I actually have a built in mental block, so the manual work isn't necessary. I can literally tune someone out to the point that they simply don't exist and their actions have no impact. Unless you get physically in my face, I'm not responding to you no matter what you do and people have tried to test that lol.
If I were to take the steps to actually block a number, there's no going back. All feelings eventually pass and I may want to speak to you again at some point, so I won't close the door completely if I don't plan to make it permanent.
Posted by Ellygant
Top 3 phrases people use About me that confuse me the most.
1) 'You are too much.'
2) 'You are something else.'
3) 'You are a hot mess.'
Such phrases are always accompanied by both laughter and a smile, but a strange tone I can't quite identify. And when I ask them to explain the reply is always the same,
'I mean, you just are, you.'
😐
Way to mentally torture a Scorpio y'all.
Curious. What do you think they mean by those 3 phrases? If you had to guess.
My question came out the wrong way. Sorry. I was just reflecting on a conversation/statement that was made the other day and threw the question out. #MyBrainHasNoFilters when it gets going.
Based on what you added I'd agree, it sounds like shade. It may have been meant in a playful way, but the fact that they find it difficult to offer an explanation that (aka "you just are you" 😕) says something.
Based on what you added I'd agree, it sounds like shade. It may have been meant in a playful way, but the fact that they find it difficult to offer an explanation that (aka "you just are you" 😕) says something.
Posted by GetMistedPosted by PhoenixRisingSame.Posted by ScorpionPowers
Anyone here ever block someone's number without saying a word after they tested your patience one too many times?
#scorpioimpulse
#wasitooharsh
#butidontevencare
I actually have a built in mental block, so the manual work isn't necessary. I can literally tune someone out to the point that they simply don't exist and their actions have no impact. Unless you get physically in my face, I'm not responding to you no matter what you do and people have tried to test that lol.
Friends with children regularly ask me to babysit because of this.click to expand
Lol. Smh.
I'm still mad at you. This made me laugh though.
Posted by GetMisted
wut I do?
Mafia.
I adore you Dazed, but that sh*t was foul. We were on the same team and I don't care what your issues were with the other team members, or how salty you feel about things.
I don't care if you hate every person on your team, myself included, you don't betray them by trying to sabotage them. That's one things I don't play. Game or no game.
Posted by GetMistedPosted by PhoenixRisingjust a gamePosted by GetMisted
wut I do?
Mafia.
I adore you Dazed, but that sh*t was foul. We were on the same team and I don't care what your issues were with the other team members, or how salty you feel about things.
I don't care if you hate every person on your team, you don't betray them by trying to sabotage them. That's one things I don't play. Game or no game.
click to expand
#StillSalty
Until then.
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingYeah. Which is why it unsettles me when people who say they care so much say it. Like dazed said, I always play it off as a compliment because I learned long ago other realizing how sensitive I can be is not beneficial.
My question came out the wrong way. Sorry. I was just reflecting on a conversation/statement that was made the other day and threw the question out. #MyBrainHasNoFilters when it gets going.
Based on what you added I'd agree, it sounds like shade. It may have been meant in a playful way, but the fact that they find it difficult to offer an explanation that (aka "you just are you" 😕) says something.
Needless to say I've been mentally rearranging friends as of late lol. For instance, I recently changed my work schedule to have Sundays off work, approved by management. But a few coworkers have been complaining it's unfair. Mainly because I used to bring doughnuts and coffee in for all the employees on Sundays and they're bitching that no one does that now that I'm off. Or how I don't give a few them rides home after work since I'm not there. The expectancy seems so childish.
My cancer moon is feeling itchy with the lack of appreciation and my Scorpio bits are feeling cold over the shady behaviors of what I previously saw as friends. I have a feeling some are about to be disturbed by my shift in perception and my Scorpio bits comings out strong.
I'm really hoping to get that new job in the coming weeks though. Need some new energy in my life.click to expand
They have a funny definition of "unfair".
Good luck on the job opportunity. It will work out.
Posted by GetMisted
@PhoenixRising
I sorry tho.
Not necessary, but appreciated.
We're good❤️. We've never not been good. Anger just sticks around for a while with me.
Posted by Ellygant
I've just recently noticed a bad scorpism I have.
When someone asks me a question that I can't answer, that would involve a long drawn out emotional response or that would lead to questions I'm uncomfortable about answering, I just don't answer. Then after a few moments of silence I'll start talking about something completely different.
I do this all the time. I'd rather ignore a question than make something up just to say something.
With questions there's only two options for me. The truth or nothing at all.
Posted by -elle-
every time I'm stuck at work and at a loss on a problem....
I don't even have to say it out loud.....
Taurus men....they are always there to help.
....and they don't stop until it's fixed.
It's amazing, really.
(men)
Aries....pretends to be oblivious (or really is) and you turn around and he's gone, nowhere to be found.
Gemini....can't comment, I don't know any geminis at work (no, I didn't have a hand in that)
Cancer....they just give you a list of all your other problems.
Leo.....can't comment, I don't know any leos at work
Virgo.....says they will help and then they run off like they are on a mission and never come back...send someone else back who can't help you
Libra.....just gives a stare like..."I'm sorry......*crickets*"
Scorpio....just takes over and dismisses any assistance you try to offer (LMAO)
Sag....tries really hard but makes the problem ten times more complicated
Cap.....if nobody is around, they don't care....if there is an audience....and they may judge him for not acting....he's all over it.
Aqua...doesn't help but goes back to their own office and figures out the problem...tells you later
Pisces.....tries really hard but if they can't figure it out, they just give up...they may or may not tell you...lol
Lol.
As for Gems, based on my interaction with my office husband and an annoying female Gem, they tend to talk the hell out of all of the options you have, then add a silly story because this problem (no matter how unrelated) somehow reminded them about "a time when".
"...client's struggling with severe ptsd symptoms and disassociates in sessions"
*provide a lot of helpful ideas/feedback* "This totally reminds me about a time when I had this blind date..."
*
**waiting for Malificent to start*
I like the idea that the villain is also the heroine.
I like the idea that the villain is also the heroine.
Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingI was surprised by how much I fell in love without that movie.
*waiting for Malificent to start*
I like the idea that the villain is also the heroine.
She totally a Scorp. Lol.click to expand
I thought so too. At the very least what Scorp energy represents.
I wasn't too familiar with the story of Sleeping Beauty because the imagery bothered me. I wasn't sure why at the time. Actually, I disliked all the Disney cartoons until the depiction of female characters began to shift (slightly). My favourite is Beauty and the Beast.
Anyway, I really enjoyed what they did with Malificent. I even loved the fact that despite being a "fairy" she looks quite demonic with those horns and dark wings.
It's a great blend of dark and light.
Hmmm, now I'm thinking in between commercial breaks #3rdMoonProblems
The Wicked Queen - Leo
Malificent - Scorp
Cruella De Vil - Leeb
Ursula - Gem
Gaston - Leo
Jafar - Cap
Scar - Cap
Hades - Ram
The Wicked Queen - Leo
Malificent - Scorp
Cruella De Vil - Leeb
Ursula - Gem
Gaston - Leo
Jafar - Cap
Scar - Cap
Hades - Ram
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