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So let me tell you a little story about yet another confusing scorpio 😉. Sorry this is pretty long. I am currently going to school and working part time at my father's company. I met scorpio near the beginning of October when he started working there. We soon began talking a lot, and I would look forward to seeing him at work. From what I could tell he seemed very confident and sure of himself. At some point, one of his managers noticed him spending a lot time around my desk and told him to leave me alone. Instead of doing that, he actually just came right back to my desk and started ranting about how stupid it is and how I should be able to decide if I want to talk to him or not. In the middle of his rant I asked to look at his phone, then I put my number in it and said "now you can talk to me without getting yelled at", he seemed very pleased/surprised and started texting me right then. We texted back and forth a little for the next few days, but then it just stopped. He completely stopped responding to me, but would act as friendly as ever at work. Around about this time I noticed another coworker, a close friend of his(an aries), started talking to me a lot... which he wasn't before. He even tried to invite me to hang out with the two of them after work on a few occasions, saying scorpio wanted me to... of course I wanted to know why couldn't scorpio ask me himself. Aries would always say "he's shy". I was pretty stubborn about it, and refused for at least a month saying that scorpio needed to ask me himself. (Whenever I brought it up with Scorpio in person his normally calm and confident demeanor evaporated, he would stop making eye contact and just kind of mumble...) Finally I gave in and hung out with the two of them. Scorpio was adorable, fun, flirty, perfect... lol, I really believed that he must be more comfortable with me now and would stop giving me such mixed signals. So not the case. This continued for at least a month, to the point where if I wanted to talk to them outside of work... I had to go through aries because scorpio wouldn't respond. Eventually I just got tired of it. Ignored them both for at least 2 weeks. Just before that scorpio was moved to a different branch so I wasn't seeing him at work... but he would purposely come by to visit me. But as of 3 weeks ago I am no longer working for the company.
So now I see him maybe once a week. I did have to go by his branch about 2 weeks ago, we had a nice long talk and he seemed to be opening up more to me... telling me about his family, ex wife, views on slutty women, lol. But since then he hasn't said a single word to me... I've tried to text and email him 2-3 times with no response. But then again the other day I stopped by his branch to talk to someone there, when he saw me he just stood there starring/smirking at me with those piercing eyes. Grr! It's like he's two different people... totally adorable and sweet in person, then a total asshole when we're not in person.
I've decided that it would probably be best for me to stay away for awhile, at least 2-3 weeks. I'm wondering if he'll contact me... I don't think he will. Agh can someone please give me some insight? I'm driving myself crazy over this
We texted back and forth a little for the next few days, but then it just stopped. He completely stopped responding to me, but would act as friendly as ever at work. Around about this time I noticed another coworker, a close friend of his(an aries), started talking to me a lot...
IMHO, this is where the trouble started. When Scorps set their sites on someone, they can become quite possessive. Your Scorp possibly saw the Aries as someone he couldn't compete with and gave up trying to win your heart. If you want Scorp, then don't cut off communication with him. He will definitely see that as a sign that you are not interested.
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So let me tell you a little story about yet another confusing scorpio 😉. Sorry this is pretty long. I am currently going to school and working part time at my father's company. I met scorpio near the beginning of October when he started working there. We soon began talking a lot, and I would look forward to seeing him at work. From what I could tell he seemed very confident and sure of himself. At some point, one of his managers noticed him spending a lot time around my desk and told him to leave me alone. Instead of doing that, he actually just came right back to my desk and started ranting about how stupid it is and how I should be able to decide if I want to talk to him or not. In the middle of his rant I asked to look at his phone, then I put my number in it and said "now you can talk to me without getting yelled at", he seemed very pleased/surprised and started texting me right then. We texted back and forth a little for the next few days, but then it just stopped. He completely stopped responding to me, but would act as friendly as ever at work. Around about this time I noticed another coworker, a close friend of his(an aries), started talking to me a lot... which he wasn't before. He even tried to invite me to hang out with the two of them after work on a few occasions, saying scorpio wanted me to... of course I wanted to know why couldn't scorpio ask me himself. Aries would always say "he's shy". I was pretty stubborn about it, and refused for at least a month saying that scorpio needed to ask me himself. (Whenever I brought it up with Scorpio in person his normally calm and confident demeanor evaporated, he would stop making eye contact and just kind of mumble...) Finally I gave in and hung out with the two of them. Scorpio was adorable, fun, flirty, perfect... lol, I really believed that he must be more comfortable with me now and would stop giving me such mixed signals. So not the case. This continued for at least a month, to the point where if I wanted to talk to them outside of work... I had to go through aries because scorpio wouldn't respond. Eventually I just got tired of it. Ignored them both for at least 2 weeks. Just before that scorpio was moved to a different branch so I wasn't seeing him at work... but he would purposely come by to visit me. But as of 3 weeks ago I am no longer working for the company.