my girlfriend is cheating on me

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iCarryWater
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I need your advice...

Lately my girlfriend (Scorpio) has been working a lot of evening shifts and for the past couple months has been carpooling with a male co-worker. At first I didn't mind, I would rather have someone with her in case she has car trouble or something like that, but it seems that they have become a little bit more than friends. You know the scenario, the phone calls that hang up, she starts wearing nice clothes to work, talking about him all the time, etc. I don't know what to think.

If I'm out in the garage lifting weights when she gets home (usually after midnight) he just drops her off and leaves, but if the lights are off in the garage and I'm in the house (they think I'm sleeping) they sit out in the car for like twenty minutes. I asked her once what they were doing, she said "just talking"....whatever.

So last night I decide that I'm going to see what really goes on out there. I leave the garage door open, but turn off all the lights. About the time she usually gets home, I go out and hide in the garage and wait. In a few minutes, his car pulls into my driveway, and I'm hiding behind the squat rack and weights. When his headlights shine through the garage and onto the rack, I see something that I just can't believe.

One of the upright supports of the squat rack has a bad crack in it. It's a bad crack, but the rest of the frame looks OK. Do you think I should just weld the cracked area or buy a new squat rack?
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Posted by CappyyLuv30
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The sad part is, my sagittarius friend just found out a few months ago that his scorpio wife was having an affair with her co-worker and this story is eerily similar, except they were married. I feel so bad for my friend. 😢




thats sad y be married than.

might as well be single if your gonna pull stunts like that lol.


Word.
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lol i mean for real i dont believe in marriage because its a man made thing and often a business contract for some people imo i rather have my own shit and you have yours lmao.
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Posted by CappyyLuv30
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Posted by CappyyLuv30
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by QuietSt0rm
The sad part is, my sagittarius friend just found out a few months ago that his scorpio wife was having an affair with her co-worker and this story is eerily similar, except they were married. I feel so bad for my friend. 😢




thats sad y be married than.

might as well be single if your gonna pull stunts like that lol.


Word.



lol i mean for real i dont believe in marriage because its a man made thing and often a business contract for some people imo i rather have my own shit and you have yours lmao.


You can still have separate bank accounts, separate assets, inidividual lives and hobbies and STILL enjoy a healthy marriage. So why not just go for it? Guess this earth sign still has a little bit of hope left in her afterall.
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marriage is not for me that's just me if you want to get marry then go for it.

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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by CappyyLuv30
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by QuietSt0rm
The sad part is, my sagittarius friend just found out a few months ago that his scorpio wife was having an affair with her co-worker and this story is eerily similar, except they were married. I feel so bad for my friend. 😢




thats sad y be married than.

might as well be single if your gonna pull stunts like that lol.


Word.



lol i mean for real i dont believe in marriage because its a man made thing and often a business contract for some people imo i rather have my own shit and you have yours lmao.
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I agree with this and I'm mostly water 😛
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Posted by PandorasBox
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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by CappyyLuv30
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by QuietSt0rm
The sad part is, my sagittarius friend just found out a few months ago that his scorpio wife was having an affair with her co-worker and this story is eerily similar, except they were married. I feel so bad for my friend. 😢




thats sad y be married than.

might as well be single if your gonna pull stunts like that lol.


Word.



lol i mean for real i dont believe in marriage because its a man made thing and often a business contract for some people imo i rather have my own shit and you have yours lmao.



I agree with this and I'm mostly water 😛



true. id only MAYBE consider it if we wanted to have kids. but even then, it would only be considered 😛

i dont see any other reason to be legally tied down to someone.
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I have a daughter and I think it would have been even more difficult in the end if I would have gone through with marrying the fucking airhead lol