Scorp/Sagg crushing on a Bull...

Yeah, okay, another pathetic Scorpio (/Sagg, 11/20) crushing on a bull lol. And trying to figure out if its worth pursuing or not. I don't need to spend a ton of time and emotional energy on someone who's not interested. So, I haven't met him in person yet, I'm a long ways away at the moment (over the holidays). We've been talking for about 2 weeks.. he is very friendly for sure, and I think I'm seeing some flirting but hell bulls are so hard to figure out I'm not sure. The good things? Well, he seems to brag about himself and said some things that, to me, sounded like he was trying to be what I am looking for.. I am a witch and he is christian, but fe he said 'but I'm very open minded' etc. Bragging? About his physique and earning potential.. we both graduate in a few months. He has told me I'm pretty and that he wants to meet me. And said, fe, 'can't wait to talk to you again' in emails. He offered to help me move when I get back to town.. gave me his phone #. I like to flirt by teasing (but not in a bad way, more.. in a complimentary way) and he doesn't mind for sure, seems to like it.. and reciprocate? Why I'm worried... haven't heard from him in 4 days. It is possible that he is just busy. I sent him a couple texts and no reply.. and an email, which I know he got, and also no response. So now I'm a bit concerned. Mainly, I don't want to keep putting myself out there if he isn't interested. I don't want to look desperate either, that is a big turn off. I'm NOT desperate.. but I'm a scorp/sagg and when I decide I want something, I don't quit till I get it. I mean I *can* quit, but that would require giving up entirely.. and that would be terrible if he truly is interested and I'm just not being patient enough lol.

I'm going to be realistic here...
I don't find Scorp/Sag's and Taurus, nor Witches and Christian's compatible no matter an "open mind".
that's ALOT working against you both,both astrologically and spiritually.
And a Taurus with an open mind is always nice...but keep in mind we only open them {-----} so far 😉

I don't even know if he had a gemini mercury if he could be that open in the long run. *shrugs*

No offense, but that makes me wonder if you don't understand that there's very little difference between chrisitanity and wicca. Unless you happen to be the type of christian that condemns everyone who isn't, just because they don't use the same label. (truly not meaning to offend anyone, it is a very common thing to not understand the similarities. idk if said taurus understands either honestly, but *I* do...)

But still.. not worth it then? So just give up and walk away? Don't try to talk to him anymore? Looking for advice on what I should do..

Yes I'm 100% against imposing my religion on anyone! Sorry if I gave that impression. I just don't like to have others try to impose theirs on me either. Still don't know what to do...

I have dealt with and still I am friends with a bull guy and thats common with them, they will not contact you for days at a time then suddenly re-appear. I would say get use to it if you want something with him if you can deal with it I couldnt needless to say.

Scorpdiva, that is reassuring. He did say he may disappear because he's busy moving. So guess I'll just wait and see.. my bff (cancer/leo cusp) said to try sending him a text asking if he is ignoring me, and if so to just tell me. Its the not knowing that is killing me, its not like I'm in love with him yet or something. Just don't like being ignored/strung along. And obviously i'm hoping for something more. Do you think thats a good idea, bulls?

Katie, heh well although that is a long ways away, I personally would want to raise my kids to respect all viewpoints.. take them to all sorts of churches, mosques, whatever just so they can see all the different possibilities, and then let them decide for themselves.

I wouldnt send him a text asking if he was ignorning you, he might get a little offended. Maybe you could just text him and see how everything is but I bet you anything he will be contacting you soon and when you least expect it that's how it always was with my bull. for example we hadnt talk in a while I had deleted him out of my phone like forget it then that night he text me.

Update for anyone following this.. So I did send him a text. And said if you want me to leave you alone I will but pls don't just ignore me.. (for, or against anyone's advice, I got tired of stressing about it) ...and he text me back apologizing. And now we have an actual dinner date planned. So needless to say, I'm happy 🙂

Thanks cutie 🙂. Does this help?

Sun 27??45' Scorpio
Moon 29??17' Taurus
Mercury 09??38' Sagittarius
Venus 11??58' Libra
Mars 01??19' Libra
Jupiter 16??35' Sagittarius
Saturn 09??41' Scorpio
Uranus 08??39' Sagittarius
Neptune 27??50' Sagittarius
Pluto 00??29' Scorpio

Sun 23??58' Taurus
Moon 01??23' Leo
Mercury 14??39' Taurus
Venus 22??12' Gemini
Mars 19??35' Capricorn
Jupiter 17??51' Pisces
Saturn 07??18' Sagittarius
Uranus 21??25' Sagittarius
Neptune 05??26' Capricorn
Pluto 05??19' Scorpio

The brief summary was all positive ^.^

Well damn putting myself out there again.. My scorpio senses are SCREAMING at me right now "What the HELL are you doing?" But yeah here is the details, I feel like I can talk here because nobody *really* knows me lol. I can always disappear like a thief in the night if I have to.. (feeling very vulnerable atm) So anyway. I have to move in about a week. Have nobody to help me. Said Bull offered to a couple weeks ago. But he works during the week, and I was hoping to move before the weekend.. give me time to unpack before semester starts. So i said, yeah let me see if I can find another solution. At the same time, this Gem guy is majorly hitting on me.. but I'm really not that interested. (black and white, remember. I picked the Bull). Said Gem offered to help me also, on the weekend. So basically I could have either one do it.. except I kinda told Bull that I'm looking for another solution. So anyway sent him a text this morning (Bull) that said: 'Looks like its going to HAVE to be the weekend, because I can't find anyone who can help during the week. There is someone else who will help me, so its a matter of who I want to spend the day with.. which is why I'm asking you if you'd like to/are able to help?' I don't think I can be a whole lot more direct. Gah, reply already (my Bull)!
Not that moving is especially romantic lol. But it CAN be. 😉 Just depends on what else goes on. My Bull was being a bit of a baby about hurting his back a couple weeks ago tho.. (damn why do I have to be 1000 miles away? Would have loved to have babied him lol) so idk if he'll want to help bc of that. And yeah maybe its too soon to be calling him 'my' bull, but wth, its not like he's hearing it. Mine, because he's who I picked.

I wanted to say thanks dreamer 🙂 You made me smile. I heard nothing for basically all day, so I just sent a brief text, basically just buzzed him.. well he is making sure I don't think he's ignoring me now. ^.^

So.. sorry for reposting on my own thread. But I just had to share with somebody.. all that energy bubbling up inside me. Yep, he definitely is interested. *dances* ^.^

Thanks for all the answers I really appreciate some kind of response. And esp. to dreamer and diva. Thanks for the vote of confidence and reassurance. You're alright in my book 😉

Posted by Skykomish
Yeah, okay, another pathetic Scorpio (/Sagg, 11/20) crushing on a bull lol. And trying to figure out if its worth pursuing or not. I don't need to spend a ton of time and emotional energy on someone who's not interested. So, I haven't met him in person yet, I'm a long ways away at the moment (over the holidays). We've been talking for about 2 weeks.. he is very friendly for sure, and I think I'm seeing some flirting but hell bulls are so hard to figure out I'm not sure. The good things? Well, he seems to brag about himself and said some things that, to me, sounded like he was trying to be what I am looking for.. I am a witch and he is christian, but fe he said 'but I'm very open minded' etc. Bragging? About his physique and earning potential.. we both graduate in a few months. He has told me I'm pretty and that he wants to meet me. And said, fe, 'can't wait to talk to you again' in emails. He offered to help me move when I get back to town.. gave me his phone #. I like to flirt by teasing (but not in a bad way, more.. in a complimentary way) and he doesn't mind for sure, seems to like it.. and reciprocate? Why I'm worried... haven't heard from him in 4 days. It is possible that he is just busy. I sent him a couple texts and no reply.. and an email, which I know he got, and also no response. So now I'm a bit concerned. Mainly, I don't want to keep putting myself out there if he isn't interested. I don't want to look desperate either, that is a big turn off. I'm NOT desperate.. but I'm a scorp/sagg and when I decide I want something, I don't quit till I get it. I mean I *can* quit, but that would require giving up entirely.. and that would be terrible if he truly is interested and I'm just not being patient enough lol.

Then leave this board posthaste, never to return.

Posted by venusianbull
Then leave this board posthaste, never to return.

Okaaaay—

Wait... theres a Scorpio forum—

Apparently. And oh dear, I've posted on it, and oh MY I actually have Scorp friends, and GEE WHIZ I have a problem with someone coming into the Pasture and stirring up shit.

haha Yeah I love my Scorp friends too.. but as far as the highlighted vs. non-highlighted that links do when you click em.. Scorp form is one of 3 signs I haven't even bothered to check out in my year-ish of being on here.... lol

LOL Oh and am I feeling the lack of sleep on your part over it. *looking around confused*

You know, all this time.. I've had this feeling in the back of my mind that I should be doing something, but just couldnt put my finger on it.. You know like when you leave for work, and knew you should have done something before you left but can put you finger on it, only to get home to find the oven on... Now I know what that feeling was, I should have been reading/posting in the Scorp form... Ahhhh now I can die a happy man— LoL

Well by Jove I think you got it! I do believe you can rest your mind about matters now. I have an entire Victorian scene envisioned for you. The man of the house surrounded by his strapping sons, his lovely daughters, his grandchildren. And I'd not like to think you sailing off into that gentle night without a heart at rest. So please, I beg of you. Get over to that board and make free use of it. Sssshhhh, no thanks are necessary. I understand..completely. *wicked lights dancing in eyes*

Ok, I will then.... Meh, maybe tomorrow thou.. lol

ROFLMAO Beautiful Bull.

Do be careful though, I wouldn't want you rushing into anything. Nice and slow man, easy.

Posted by TaurGuy

Okaaaay—

Wait... theres a Scorpio forum—

Posted by Cinnamon Girl

Posted by TaurGuy

Okaaaay—

Wait... theres a Scorpio forum—

Why don't you tell your little bull friends to follow your lead and ignore the Scorpio forum. No more of the bull s***(pun intended) on the Scorpio forum.

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you realize you have just invited us all to your forum for a massive party?
don't worry,we'll bring plenty of kleenex for you to blow your sorry little noses on. 😉

Posted by Cinnamon Girl

Posted by TaurGuy

Okaaaay—

Wait... theres a Scorpio forum—

Why don't you tell your little bull friends to follow your lead and ignore the Scorpio forum. No more of the bull s***(pun intended) on the Scorpio forum.

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Really—?

Posted by TaurGuy

Posted by Cinnamon Girl

Posted by TaurGuy

Okaaaay—

Wait... theres a Scorpio forum—

Why don't you tell your little bull friends to follow your lead and ignore the Scorpio forum. No more of the bull s***(pun intended) on the Scorpio forum.

Really—?

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LMAO!!! And a fine how do you do, to you too! HA!
Interestingly enough, I have a lot of Scorpio friends. Go fig? *shrugs and heads out to pasture to sprinkle more bulls#4t * hahahahha

Mmmmmhmmmm, I do SO enjoy a horn sharpening party. Thank GOODNESS I just painted my hooves. Do you like this wreath of roses y'all? I ordered them especially for just such an occasion, I want to be beautiful when we step out.

has anyone besides cutie seen their bull bashing thread? lol I pee'd a little 🙂
I didn't say anything because I don't want to throw them a drama bone,but ffs are they freaking delusional! woot!

😄

I saw it. It was the most ridonkulous damned thing in written form. All headed by the ( huge round of applause ladies and gents ) fabulous vision you see before you.
Oh aye, she's back. Just like a rash on an ass. I am indeed grateful we are pragmatic and in possession of our intellect. It truly is handy finding just the correct tube of ointment for the job at hand.

Posted by venusianbull
I saw it. It was the most ridonkulous damned thing in written form. All headed by the ( huge round of applause ladies and gents ) fabulous vision you see before you.
Oh aye, she's back. Just like a rash on an ass. I am indeed grateful we are pragmatic and in possession of our intellect. It truly is handy finding just the correct tube of ointment for the job at hand.

LoL I just about wondered over there to see what you all where talking about... But then I remember I really don't care...

Nor should you. Many kudos to you sir, for the restraint you show. It's quite commendable. LOL

No...lol...just..no

it's pretty funny.you're missing out....
they've all either lost a man to one of us,or been rejected by one of us apparently.
did you know we are drama queens?
and dumb and depressed too!

shit,I guess I had us all wrong 😢

and apparently our wrath is not scary,but FUNNY!!!!

for the love of GOD,my life is over.

I say we all go mess with 'em. :p

I could give a squirt of pee in a high wind less if they want to have a hen party. Let them. Apparently we leave quite an impression. Good, bad, mehhhhh. Never forget a Bull now, do you?

ha ha,yeah me neither I've had enough of that whining to last a life time.if I wanted to hear more I'd talk to the ex...
I do feel onery tonight tho 😉
have all day actually,guess I should see what my stars are up to.

Posted by BellatheBull
it's pretty funny.you're missing out....
:p

I've dated a taurus before. I really fell for him, but he was bi-polar and really messed with my head. That was several years ago, but now pretty much any taurus that comes into my life gets on my nerves. My two best friends are taurus and even they have a tendency to really rub me the wrong way. Pretty much every taurus I've known has some mental problem. I think where the biggest class is is that I find that the things taurus values aren't want I value and I find their views warped. I can't take seriously someone who presents to me information that I know for a fact is wrong...my B.S. meter just goes outta whack when I'm around them. Sorry..

LOL Definitely. And therein and henceforth we shall open the dictionary to the word "class" and write a thesis. *cracking riding crop on desk* Full reports handed in Monday morning and graded accordingly.

Posted by venusianbull
LOL Definitely. And therein and henceforth we shall open the dictionary to the word "class" and write a thesis. *cracking riding crop on desk* Full reports handed in Monday morning and graded accordingly.

yes Ma'am. *hanging head*

Oops 😛 I meant clash. Sagis never check for typos xD

LOL! There now. Beautiful try, but I see the lights dancing in those eyes.

🙂

🙂

I only know one Sag female in real life.
I love the Sag girls of dxp,we get along wonderfully.the one I know in real life is my Scorpio ex husband's sister.she never even acknowledged my existence until I had been with her brother 2 years.never spoke to me for 2 years.
she is a self absorbed,self appointed princess...has a crippling disease and treated her caregivers like trash,because they were hired help,and the state told her she was the BOSS.
then,she came to live with us 😈
she learned she would be treated the way she treated others....we get along fairly well now. 😉
her tiara is in a drawer someplace and she is down here on the same level as the rest of us peasants. 🙂

and that's pretty much my golden rule,treat me how you want to be treated...cuz that's what you're going to get. 😉

since I'm on a roll here...
VB,she once told me my chilli tasted like alpo! every one loves my chili!
do you know how hard I fought myself not to give her a can of alpo next time? 😈
but alas....I did not.

damn... we really ran off with the OP's thread... lol... sorry OP....

Heheheee Bells. You know, I've oft told myself if I ever had a special needs child they would get the same care extended to all my chicks in the clutch. I have time and time again seen instances such as the one you touched on. It really does them a disservice creating a tyrant. People are people, and though I can understand the reaction to take it into overdrive in the long run it helps no one. That was the biggest favor you could have done Princess. By putting a nice dried pea under her mattress.

I would apologize as well TaurGuy, but I like to run with threads in 500 directions. *making cats cradle* Pull the center strings and wind them round now.

Sag..we show our affection with solid proof. Cannot speak for the rest of the herd but romanticism is wonderful in its time. But I would be far more touched by something crafted with ones hands ( or a vehicle repair..smile on a goofy face and filthy hands ) than I would with a dozen roses and a box of chocolates. If someone really knew me, they'd know I prefer something planted in the ground I can appreciate and tend with permanency, and as to the chocolates..wellllll I'm picky. And they'd know that too. Something done with thought and feeling just for me, rather than something hooked with .2 seconds of thought on the way home. You see? Cuddling is always welcome in my realm, as is PDA and other. And I do not run because I meet things head on. And until I'm absolutely certain it's good for me, I observe. I am not out for a power struggle, but a powerful meeting on common ground.

Posted by TaurGuy

Posted by venusianbull
I saw it. It was the most ridonkulous damned thing in written form. All headed by the ( huge round of applause ladies and gents ) fabulous vision you see before you.
Oh aye, she's back. Just like a rash on an ass. I am indeed grateful we are pragmatic and in possession of our intellect. It truly is handy finding just the correct tube of ointment for the job at hand.

LoL I just about wondered over there to see what you all where talking about... But then I remember I really don't care...

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I had a momentary moment of, "Hmm, maybe I should check that out." Which was immediately replaced by, "I dont't really care enough." Ha! So, I guess I'll never know...*trots back out to pasture to get hooves painted as lovingly as VB's 😉 *