Need advice from scorpios!

So there's this scorpio girl at work that I just can't get along with. We don't get into fights cuz she definitely isn't worthy of me losing my job I just kinda feel she has some kind of antipathy for me. Idk jealousy maybe? She blames things on me and always thinks her way is the best. She does things on purpose to try to see my reaction which she never gets satisfied bc I;m always keeping myself calm n cool. However it has came to point where I just literally wanna bang my head to the brick wall because thats how much I can't stand working with her. It's like she brings this negative energy. I have lots of scorp friends with whom I have great relationships but with her... GGRRRR Need advice from you scorps; how do I handle my work relationship with such scorpio?

I mean I haven't done anything to her. I'm always sweet n respectful. I just dont understand why she treats me this way. I've tolerated lot of shit from her, smiled nd ignored her rudeness when I didn't wanna provoke serious fightings bc I'm capable of that and when I hit that point...trust me you don't wanna see it. Just trying to find a solution because sometimes it's just human misunderstanding that plays a field.

be genuine and honest, you 2 may become goood friends.

kill her wind kindness....thats what i do to scorpio women. i become really good friend with them

Posted by DapperDon
You've gotta ask yourself a question.

Here is wisdom.

Posted by ellessque


you react, she's in control.
you don't, you are in control.

What is actually happening is a mating dance.
She sees you as a SEXUAL THREAT - in that she cannot phase you - and that is attractive to her.

If you keep your cool, she will eventually

A - Throw herself at you. ( Since Scorpio women DO NOT do this, she will need to use alcohol as a ruse. )

B - Quit ( Run away, cuz she just can't handle her attraction for you anymore without you doing something ***)


*** Note that normal Scorpio females do not engage in the crap that she is, so likely she has a past of instability in her home and will be a TOTAL NIGHTMARE ( would make Fredy Kruger sleep with one eye open ) if she can "win".

Win = You make a move on her or give any notion that you are attracted to her.

lol @ Winnie.


And :O @ you, Bling! Can't believe you used that dirty dirty word.

Moi?

Ahh.

Go to bed.

Posted by pigeonpie
throw in the occasional 'hmmmm, that is interesting', then round it off with another smile and nod, maybe even a calm stroke of the chin, raise/furrow your brow as if to state 'Ooohhhh, I'm reallyreally taking on board what your saying right now!'.
🙂
This applies to most people though, not really a scorpio thing exclusively.

I like this one as I have actually used it along with killing people who don't seem to care for me with kindness. I am basically a very nice person so it is actually easy for me to do that and I have definitely won some people over with it. A number of people have misjudged me at first and after they really got to know me they have even confessed to me that they didn't like me at first.
Now there are just some evil bitches out there so who knows if any of this will work and if that's the case then I agree that you shouldn't let her get away with blaming shit on you and in that case I would talk to a supervisor.

cute photo, dapper 😄

Ok so I'm cusp here, not 100% Scorpio. But my take, she either has it BAD for you, *or* she is like me, half Sagg, and doesn't do those things to intentionally aggravate you, but is just so good at doing it accidentally..

Omg how did I not notice all these comments, completely forgot I created this message! Yeah well, looks like we're getting better here at work. I'm doing me and not really paying attention to her. She's become nicer and talkative. So I guess I'm taking back my words... At least for now lol.

Heyy been okay, here and there. Same stuff, different day. How about yourself?🙂
My ex Ram lives in Brazil now, we talked recently on skype and he said hell be trying to come back here. So far only talk lol

Posted by gya
I mean I haven't done anything to her. I'm always sweet n respectful. I just dont understand why she treats me this way. I've tolerated lot of shit from her, smiled nd ignored her rudeness when I didn't wanna provoke serious fightings bc I'm capable of that and when I hit that point...trust me you don't wanna see it. Just trying to find a solution because sometimes it's just human misunderstanding that plays a field.

Show the bitch you have balls and 'fire' the same 'ice' right back to her. We respect someone who stands up for themselves, at least I do.
Don't let someone treat you that way.