NEED MAJOR HELP!!!

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sugaa
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20 Years

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OK WELL.... I LIKE THIS GUY AND I **KNOW** HES A SCORPIO I CAN JUST LOOK AT HIS EYES AND TELL, HE DIDNT TELL ME HE WAS BUT I FIGURE HE IS.THIS IS THE THING.AT THE BEGGINING OF THE YEAR, I TOLD MY FRIEND TO GO UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM I THINK HES CUTE. AND SHE DID. AND HE WAS LIKE WHO? AND SHE SHOWED HIM AND WE STARTED TALKING AND EVERYTHING SEEMED COOL. BUT I WOULD HAVE TO ALWAYS GO UP TO HIM TO TALK TO HIM AND I GOT TIREDD OF IT SO I WAZ LIKE FUKK IT. IF HE WANTS TO TALK HELL COME UP TO ME. BUT! THAT DIDNT HAPPEN, I MEAN WE DIDNT TALK FOR LIKE 2OR 3 MONTHS. BUT THEN OUT OF NOWHERE HE COMES UP TO ME AND SAY "WHY DO YOU WALK BY ME LIKE YOU DONT KNOW ME". AND I WAS LIKE "WELL,I DONT KNOE YOU". HE SAID OK LETS JUST START OVER, AND HE SIAD WELL I HOPE I CAN SEE YOU AROUND SO WE CAN TALK AND I SAID ME 2. THEN WE WENT OUR SEPERATE WAYS. THE DAY AFTER THAT HAPPENED HE WALKED BY LIKE HE DIDNT KNOE I WASS LIKE WTF. HOW R U GONNA SAY ONE THING ONE MINUTE AND DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT THE NEXT. THAT MAKES NO ABSOULUTEY SENSE.SO IT WAS LIKE AN ON AND OFF THING.AND A MONTH AGO HE WAS WALKIN WITH THIS GIRL(THATS NOW HIS GIRLFRIEND). THEY WERE WALKING BEHIND ME AND I HEAR HER SAYING "GO", "GO". AND IM THINKG GO WUT ,WHAT THA HELL IS SHE TALKING ABOUT. AND THEN HE CALLS MY NAME AND I SAID WHERE ARE YOU GOIND.HE SAID THE COUNSELORS OFFICE" I WAS LIKE OH YOU GOT PROBLEMS. I WAS JUST PLAYING. AND THEN HE TOLD THAT GURL WHILE SHE WAS GOING IN THE CLASSROOM IM GONND DO WHAT YOU TOLD ME TO DO. AND THEN HE WALKED OFF. I KNOE I SHOULDNT CARE BC NOW THATS HIS GF BUT I FEEL LIKE WE COULD REALLY GET ALONG AND IM A TAURUS,BUT I JUST DONT GET WHY HE COMES THEN HE GOES.MAYBE HE JUST DIDNT LIKE ME. ANY THOUGHTS?
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spanish_taurus
@spanish_taurus
20 Years

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sugaa,

I posted an answer to your similar question in the Taurus form...pasting it in here for you as well. Hopefully it comforts you a little.

Stay cool.

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I wouldn't obsess about the little things..."he smiled at me"..."he didn't smile at me"..."he said hi"..."he didn't say hi"..."he e-mailed me"..."he didn't e-mail me"...and so on and so on.

Obsessing about the little stuff will drive you crazy and suck all the confidence right out of you. Just be cool and go with the flow. If he see's you all stressed (making a fuss) about little things it'll leave a sour taste in his mouth. Trust me on this.

Just be yourself, smile sexy to him, be demure and alluring. You're a Taurus, a social butterfly...no? Use your natural skills. =)

Anytime you find yourself fussing over the little things just take a minute to think about those (the) thought(s)...chuckle and squash them !

spanish_taurus
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sugaa
@sugaa
20 Years

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yall wouldnt guess what hapened.Well 1st off. heyyy everybody! How are yall doing—Something has recently happened with that scorp guy i wrote about earlier.i saw him @ a store(he works there)i felt like he wanted me 2 notice him,where i would go he would go.Weird!Then we ran into each other he said where's______?(My friend).I said i dont know why??he said i thought yall were B-friends.I answered No.Then he said he wanted me 2 be his B-friend.Lol,anyways then he asked for my #, then i was like wait, wait, a min. dont u have a gf?? then he stayed quiet 4 a sec and was like yea.Then i said dont ya think its kinda f**cked up that ur trying 2 get my #, then he was like no its not like that i just want 2 be friends.I thought i was done with this boy.I mean he hasnt called me yet, its been a couple of days, but thats not the point i just dont get y he keeps on persisting 2 get my # when he never calls.Im thinking hes just trying 2 see if he can get my # again.Man i dont knoe.What do yall think??

Thanx
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cancerlady
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20 Years1,000+ Posts

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Sweetie,

I think you are taking this whole thing too seriously. When you are in high school, you play high school games. It's to be expected...doesn't mean he is going to turn out to be Charles Manson...just that he is a high school boy enjoying the attention of two or more different girls.

Remember men also mature slower than women, so that's a factor. I am by no means excusing his behavior...I just think you have WAAAY too much to look forward to in your life and most high school relationships don't last past graduation or the first year of college, so why stress over this guy? Find another cute boy and flirt your ass off!

Cancerlady