never... Again.

I never thought I'd say this because I was starting to really get into my virgo (now) ex bf... But he's just up there with my leo ex. He was boring... 😢 and a huge procrastinator. Not that Im not, but he took the award for the year. Worst part...? Was that I had to do the breaking up bc he was too cowardly to do it himself. Now he's blaming me for the break up but doesn't want to work things out?? Is this his pride and stubborness or is he just effin with my feelings? I'm pretty sick and tired of it so I told him to just leave me alone. Now he's pissed off. Anyway... Sex sucked. There was no passion... And it wasn't intense! I NEED excitement!!! At least between the sheets I do... We cld keep the relationship mellow... I didn't care... But he was so afraid of just doing new stuff and so darn judgemental! He was easily influenced by others. It's amazing how easy it was for me to pin point who's advice he had been getting. I'm just disappointed. Anyhow... Sorry, had to vent. I missed being able to be my old scorpio self... No more virgo restrictions.

what?

"But he was so afraid of just doing new stuff and so darn judgemental! He was easily influenced by others. It's amazing how easy it was for me to pin point who's advice he had been getting. I'm just disappointed. Anyhow... Sorry, had to vent. I missed being able to be my old scorpio self... No more virgo restrictions."

Ditto this part^^ with my recent break up with my Virguy of 6 months. As LS stated in a previous thread, I can't do a science project. He could only discuss old movies, old music and what he watched on TV. No affection, romance, spontaneity. He was so moody, depressed, anxious all the time. It started to be only watching TV at his place. ugh...no more. But he was very upset and angry when I told him we were through.

yup! Watching tv... All the time. I love reading current events... But tv and movies just aren't my cup of tea. Everything I had told him I liked to do... He agreed he liked to do. Completely false. He always wanted to drink too... But with his buddies, and he'd act as if it were only a guys thing.. Girls couldn't be invited. What gets me the most upset is how he handled the break up. Like I knew he wanted it... He had become cold over night... And even when I told him 'just say it... I'm expecting it.' he got mad at me?! Honestly, I cld of handled the relationship... But I don't know what his deal was. Sorry... Just venting. Again. All I'm saying... And this is a general statement, if you do or don't want something in your life... Don't let things drag on. Grow a pair and just say what you want to say. You're just hurting others by keeping quiet. Ok I'm done here... Lol

Posted by domino_O

Posted by sweetscorpio84
what?

its the solution to what is going to happen in this thread.

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I'm just venting. Not looking for advice... It is what it is. Lol and that's an odd way of answering a post btw... Waaaay too brainy for me. :1

maybe I'm just heart broken still... Who knows. *shoulder shrug*

I don't get it... Clarification plz?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
It's a turn of phrase.
I you're doing the job right, you don't need to be blaming others when things go wrong.🙂

I suppose you are right... But I did try my best in this relationship. I honestly did... I just feel he wouldn't meet me half way. The sweeter side of me did come out though... Surprisingly so.

@25thdecan: funny you ask if I'm really ready for relationship or not... Been asking myself the same thing. I'm leaning more towards 'no.' As for the sex, he always said it was great... I had no restrictions, but him on the other hand... Had a list of things he would not do... Calls & texts... Always answered them. Family functions... Always there. Got along great with everyone except maybe one couson who was a jerk... And I say that bc no matter what he was always so negative.

anyhow, thanks for your insight decan... Even for as blunt and straight forward as you can be... Lol it's appreciated. 🙂

good riddance it is!

Wow O_O ... i have no idea what kind of virgo you had, but i had a virgo ex too
he was amazing (though he had an Aries rising and Aquarius Moon and both those are very adventurous and expirimental)

Although if it was more into the dirty or overly kinky side i understand. we virgos prefer clean and straight up
intercourse (which my scorpio ex was way too much into some things that were too much for my taste)

though one thing both my scorpio and virgo ex (as well as my gemini & taurus fling) had said was that i did have
a lot of passion.

how long were you guys together? as for me it did take a LONG time for me to be able to express myself as it takes us a while to open up to others, but when we finally do we give it our all.

I have noticed immature virgos do tend to have a very sharp tongue. as we mature (though not everyone does) we do learn to bite our tongues. especially if he's a first born. first borns tend to have control and perfectionist issues as do virgos so it just increases it. in which we need to learn to relax. (read the birth order book for more on this)

I know most virgos even after a break up do the "prove yourself and earn it" thing if you want back.
though sometimes we go back Just to see that If we changed our mind, we could get you back if we wanted.

If you wanna drive him nuts, dont react and don't show him any emotions that anything he does or says effects you. =]

@ virgoladee: we would of been together a year in may. He's the middle child... And yea... Last night he said he was introduced to someone new and how they had danced and she was cool. I haven't replied... I just don't get it though. If it was his freedom that he wanted and to be single and have fun, what's the point of constantly trying to hurt me? I've been patient and haven't said anything but he's seriously beginning to upset me now. It's like he has no consideration whatsoever.

I suppose all I can do is ignore him. It hasn't even been two wks since we've broken up... Such disappointment. He went from being the nicest guy I've ever dated to one of the biggest dbag's. I don't think he could get me back if he wanted like you stated. My door is closing pretty quickly and all of these dumb games he's playing is only pushing me away.

I just need to move on. What's the point of holding on...?