Scorpio Women are Crazy

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by FemmeScorpion on Wednesday, March 30, 2011 and has 26 replies.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Why are we so often misunderstood? I was just reading several msg boards and a pattern seems to be forming.
All ex's of scorpio females seems to hate our guts. They all say how we lied,manipulated,played games,never opened up etc etc.
However its a different story when they are dating,pursuing or married to us. Oh during the honeymoon period,we are described as magnetic,caring,sexy,loyal,thoughtful,beautiful etc.
Where does it all go wrong? Why are so many fellas left feeling hurt or hard done by us?
Dating a scorpio girl will never be a easy stroll in the park...we want our other halves to feel our intensity,we hate lies,we hate false promises,we hate superficial praises,we love honesty,we crave loyalty.
Yes we have a darkside but we try every so hard not to go there. We dont purposely go out to hurt you guys,hurting a love one is our last resort. And as a true scorpio we would hurt ourselves first b4 we hurt a loved one.

PEACE.

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@undeadshaggydoo
15 YearsGemini

I'm dating a stunning Scorpio woman right now who has a crazy ex who's still in love with her two years later. She's strong, passionate and never wishy washy- not one to forget. She will not be disrespected. She's almost always in control to an extent and that makes men (like me) crazy.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Posted by undeadshaggydoo
I'm dating a stunning Scorpio woman right now who has a crazy ex who's still in love with her two years later. She's strong, passionate and never wishy washy- not one to forget. She will not be disrespected. She's almost always in control to an extent and that makes men (like me) crazy.

Yeah thats what we want. A man who appreciate us. All the best to you and ur scorp.🙂

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@michaelfish
15 YearsTaurus

>we hate lies,we hate false promises,we hate superficial praises,>

And yet, i've met at least three Scorpio women who excelled at all of those.

I don't want to tar you all with one brush. There's good and bad examples of every sign, but don't act like Scorpio women as a whole are not capable of the things you say they hate.

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

I don't think scorpio's are crazy. Okay wait, how do I explain this haha. Everyone can call their ex crazy and I am sure it is 1/12th or even smaller portion of ex's not a all scorpio ex's have bad break up experiences.

Why do people get all loud and tell the whole world why they hate or can't ever understand their Scorpio ex? I think because you guys are so amazing. I think it is breakup math. The better the relationship bond and depth of connection that is felt, the more someone might react to the immediate breakup of that.

as long as you guys are rocking your own self-nurturing and growing and can't take the discussion on a forum, so be it.

I don't think you should subject yourself to hate rants on the internet and think that all people think this way.

Hope anyone who reads an online forum about Scorpio doesn't take a black/white view of them or themselves.

I disliked a lot of breakup situations in my life and only one happened to be with a Scorpio, but if believe me I could tear a new *sshole into other zodiac's for their relationship issues as seen in my ex's.

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

Posted by heroic_guy
I don't think scorpio's are crazy. Okay wait, how do I explain this haha. Everyone can call their ex crazy and I am sure it is 1/12th or even smaller portion of ex's not a all scorpio ex's have bad break up experiences.

Why do people get all loud and tell the whole world why they hate or can't ever understand their Scorpio ex? I think because you guys are so amazing. I think it is breakup math. The better the relationship bond and depth of connection that is felt, the more someone might react to the immediate breakup of that.

as long as you guys are rocking your own self-nurturing and growing and can't take the discussion on a forum, so be it.

I don't think you should subject yourself to hate rants on the internet and think that all people think this way.

Hope anyone who reads an online forum about Scorpio doesn't take a black/white view of them or themselves.

I disliked a lot of breakup situations in my life and only one happened to be with a Scorpio, but if believe me I could tear a new *sshole into other zodiac's for their relationship issues as seen in my ex's.

Edit: As long as you can take the discussion

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@scorpdiva
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by undeadshaggydoo
I'm dating a stunning Scorpio woman right now who has a crazy ex who's still in love with her two years later. She's strong, passionate and never wishy washy- not one to forget. She will not be disrespected. She's almost always in control to an extent and that makes men (like me) crazy.

I agree all the men I have dated in the past will say for sure I gave them a run for their money, but years later they always still seem to be IN LOVE with me. A couple of them will only date scorp women after me.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Dating a scorpio girl will never be a easy stroll in the park...we want our other halves to feel our intensity,we hate lies,we hate false promises,we hate superficial praises,we love honesty,we crave loyalty.

Well you said a mouthful there. People know this about Scorps, but think they are just words. Scorps don't differentiate between "white lies" and "withholding information" from being dishonest and therefore not trustworthy. Blame it on the intensity. And this applies to all of the words you used to describe female Scorps. The problem is how some women deal with it when their partner doesn't measure up. A mature Scorpio will deal with disappointment from her lover very differently than a immature one. The immature one can turn into pure evil . Although it doesn't excuse some of their behaviour, an angry Scorpio woman is rarely angry because she wasn't provoked first (at least in her mind).

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14 Years5,000+ Posts

I thought DG was playing to btw this Scorpio are maniacs bullshit is the land of what the fuck if you don't understand them whem they so no no means no people keep pushing then they get there heart ripped out. They rarely act more like re act as a Scorp would say. Ahem.

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@cbseawind
14 Years

Why are we so often misunderstood? I was just reading several msg boards and a pattern seems to be forming.
All ex's of scorpio females seems to hate our guts. They all say how we lied,manipulated,played games,never opened up etc etc.
However its a different story when they are dating,pursuing or married to us. Oh during the honeymoon period,we are described as magnetic,caring,sexy,loyal,thoughtful,beautiful etc.
Where does it all go wrong? Why are so many fellas left feeling hurt or hard done by us?
Dating a scorpio girl will never be a easy stroll in the park...we want our other halves to feel our intensity,we hate lies,we hate false promises,we hate superficial praises,we love honesty,we crave loyalty.
Yes we have a darkside but we try every so hard not to go there. We dont purposely go out to hurt you guys,hurting a love one is our last resort. And as a true scorpio we would hurt ourselves first b4 we hurt a loved one.

PEACE.

You state that Scorp want peace, honestly and loyalty but you do not give it or show it during the dating phase! Scorps state that they are people of extreme, but this resides in your mind. Your exterior is a cool to cold, unemotional person and most people do not know what is going on. Some scorps say, ask what is going on. Well, how can you ask if you do not know if there are any signs that a question should be asked! I did this to a scorp long ago and the answers I got was, nothing or everything is OK. But there was trouble. I have another scorp at work who is now ice cold towards me. Avoids me at all cost. All I said is that I had feelings for her when we were cubicle buddies. Now the ice world has arrived. This was about 4 months ago.
It is obvious to others where the B word comes from as scorps do not show any emotion. Some can be shown you know. It is not the end of the world and you scorps will not reveal your entire show case of emotions.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by cbseawind

You state that Scorp want peace, honestly and loyalty but you do not give it or show it during the dating phase! Scorps state that they are people of extreme, but this resides in your mind. Your exterior is a cool to cold, unemotional person and most people do not know what is going on. Some scorps say, ask what is going on. Well, how can you ask if you do not know if there are any signs that a question should be asked! I did this to a scorp long ago and the answers I got was, nothing or everything is OK. But there was trouble. I have another scorp at work who is now ice cold towards me. Avoids me at all cost. All I said is that I had feelings for her when we were cubicle buddies. Now the ice world has arrived. This was about 4 months ago.
It is obvious to others where the B word comes from as scorps do not show any emotion. Some can be shown you know. It is not the end of the world and you scorps will not reveal your entire show case of emotions.

Okay, genuine question (lately it seems one has to preface any comment with that first) because you can't understand the actions of one person that happens to be a Scorpio do you think that all Scorps should be hated? I won't lie, some (including myself) can come off cold, unemotional, but do you not think that if you were dealing with someone that was immature that this would speak more to the issue than just being a Scorpio?

I messed up my previous post...

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@CapricornSun
14 Years

There's always the two lines of Scorps. You get your really awesome ones you can't live without. They are truly an essence to the meaning behind Scorpio. Or you get the lame brain freakazoids who think it's IT to be juvenile with their insanities. New word! There is one Scorp on here in particular who thinks she owns this forum and I find it amusing she will go as low as contradict everything I say or add something stupid to it, just to make herself tickled for the day. All she really could do to be a real lady is be civil and stop with the charades. But this is the type of Scorpion that gives the good ones a bad name. Food for thought. 😉

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@cbseawind
14 Years

You state that Scorp want peace, honestly and loyalty but you do not give it or show it during the dating phase! Scorps state that they are people of extreme, but this resides in your mind. Your exterior is a cool to cold, unemotional person and most people do not know what is going on. Some scorps say, ask what is going on. Well, how can you ask if you do not know if there are any signs that a question should be asked! I did this to a scorp long ago and the answers I got was, nothing or everything is OK. But there was trouble. I have another scorp at work who is now ice cold towards me. Avoids me at all cost. All I said is that I had feelings for her when we were cubicle buddies. Now the ice world has arrived. This was about 4 months ago.
It is obvious to others where the B word comes from as scorps do not show any emotion. Some can be shown you know. It is not the end of the world and you scorps will not reveal your entire show case of emotions.

Okay, genuine question (lately it seems one has to preface any comment with that first) because you can't understand the actions of one person that happens to be a Scorpio do you think that all Scorps should be hated? I won't lie, some (including myself) can come off cold, unemotional, but do you not think that if you were dealing with someone that was immature that this would speak more to the issue than just being a Scorpio?

I messed up my previous post

No, all scorps should not be hated. So far I have known 3 scorps. 2 females and 1 male. 1 female was very well balanced and I had relationship with this one. The other female and male scorp were/are both young and the male had a egostical attitude and the female scorp is the one that I am talking about. It only takes one to ruin it for the rest. Young and suspecious with paranoid attitude towards everyone who is not in her inner circle. I know she has a big warm heart but right now if is covered in stone and ice.
Maybe someday she as she gets older or maturer she will be more approachable.

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@PhoenixRising46
14 Years

Scorpio Female/Moon in Taurus.

This should make for some revealing reading to those of you confused by the vast differences in Scorpios. Enjoy!

"Scorpio has not just two symbols but three: the Scorpion, the Eagle and the Phoenix. Scorpio fearlessly delves into the darker emotions of the human psyche; like the Scorpion, the Scorpio personality prefers to crawl low to the ground, hiding in hidden corners and is prepared to sting and destroy if threatened in any way. This illustrates the Mars factor of the earth-bound nature of Scorpio: the aggressive intensity of rage and self-protection. The Eagle shares with the scorpion the ability to strike at a moment's notice, but where the Scorpion's journey is low to the ground the Eagle soars above the earth, proud and free. The Eagle has a probing eye that sees what others miss and like the Mars warrior, is very aware of the subtle dynamics of power.

The Phoenix is the transformational symbol of Scorpio. Like the Eagle, in ancient times the Phoenix was a symbol of the Sun that was said to live for 500 years. At the end of its life it built a funeral pyre and burned in the flames, only to regenerate its progeny from those very flames. The Scorpio nature cannot run from the destruction of the fire of its emotional intensity, but within that fire is the secret of immortality and resurrection. Scorpio is a water sign but Mars bestows the essence of fire as well and with it the courage to enter the fire and become transformed."

Read more: http://blog.beliefnet.com/astrologicalmusings/2006/11/the-scorpion-the-eagle-and-the.html#ixzz22WE2Eu9b

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@ZenBear
13 YearsCancer

I love Scorpio women! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being a Scorpio, and don't believe anyone ignorant enough to tell you differently!

That being said, their reputation is not unearned. People get hurt by Scorpios because Scorpios are very powerful, insightful, and aggressive. They know where to hit you that will make you crumble, and they aren't afraid to strike when provoked.

Sometimes, these attacks are unwarranted, or excessive, but that's on the individual, not the Sign.

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@Scorsagian7
14 YearsScorpio

I actually get the total opposite reaction. When Im with them they say I'm crazy, but when we break up they go crazy over me.. One even stalks me to this day (5 years later), and HE broke up win ME for someone else *sigh*