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Let me pose this question to all who will respond. Are all Scorpion males cold-blooded?
I fell in love with one recently and he acts, now, as if he can take me or leave me.
I find myself fighting so hard to recover this relationship and him and he simply appears aloof. When I get angry and confrontational he simply makes up reasons why he has been distant.
Please any and all who whould like to offer up advice, please, do! And for the record,unlike Gem Man, I am not kin to any of his relatives! HAHAHAHA!
Thanks to one and all
Tasha

I don't think that is necessarily a Scorpion trait, but a MALE trait. I just think that men are able to have a sexual relationship with women without emotional attachment much better than women are able to do...

I personally hate to play games...but, sometimes I think men want women to, so they can play the "chase" game and experience the feeling of "victory" at the end! (Most men I know are still little boys inside...including my 67 year old father!!)

I realize I wasn't much help...

Good Luck to you!

if you do love him, then ignore him,scorpio men are more attatched to the ones they cant tame or catch.
So let him go and blow him off let him seem that he is loosing, trust me, im one of them..

Does it work the same way with scorpio women too? Do you have to do the same thing to attract their attention?
Let me know..
Thanx..
gem

Sorry Mike I meant to say to Mike not to el paso where you are from.
Sorry man..

Well Mike I know that you are right. But I find it really hard to play these sort of games with a person. I have noticed that when I do not give him attention he seems to call quite often. And I have noticed that when we are out and other men gaze or speak to me he becomes quite upset and sometimes even mad at me.
Do you feel that this is common of Scorpio Men?
I will head your advise and stop pursueing him so actively. Do you also think I should tell him that I am dating many others? Would that bring him near or push him further away?
Thank you for helping.
Tasha

Mike-I am not dating other's I just wondered if you thought it would be a good thind to tell him.And please tell me what you think of this. He just came over and picked up my son and took him out for ice cream/my son is 3 y.o.! Nice thing to do or something else ?

YUCK!!!! I HOPE THAT IS NOT THE SAME GEM MAN FROM EARLIER POSTS ON MADE CONTACT< NOW WHAT!!!!!!!

Scorpio men are known to keep women on a string forever and be secretive. The longer they are single the worse their traits become. They love to control and dominate. I found myself involved with one (52 y. o. bachelor)for the duration of 3 months (seeing each other once a week - never on a weekend) I was only in it for the sex but I was curious to note that this particular Scorpio male had a few personality warps - explosive anger, jealousy, great skill at verbal sarcasm to name a few. Not all Scorpio males are bad, but yours sounds like he's not worth it. Mine was so sensitive he was scared to get involved so kept women at a distance. He was also into dominant/submissive sex which I found to be a turn off eventually. Hope this helps.

Where do you people pick up these men? My husband is a Scorp and has a heart as big as the US. He will help anyone, anytime. He's not coniving, greedy, sexually screwed up, cold-blooded, etc. Maybe you just need to change the pattern in which you look for partners. Sorry, not to sound critical, but just wanting to share a different opinion.

Well u r lucky and he is the exception not the rule! Isn't it funny how all of these posts from women dating Scorpion men say the same thing. Unless we are all dating the same guy my guess is that these personality problems can be directly attributed to them being Scorpion. Maybe your husband is blessed with a good rising sun that influences his behaviors.

Good point about looking at other planets in a chart. My warped Scorpio has a Capricorn Moon (very insensitive)and a Venus in Libra which indicates multiple affairs at the same time and an idealized romantic view of love (he's broken off 2 engagements). He also had two planets which indicated some eccentric behavior but I forget what they were. I have a badly placed Scorpio Moon which I have learned how to handle, however, I understand the extremes and depths of emotion that this sign can experience and I somehow think the Scorpio men have a harder time handling their emotions more than the women. (Maybe that's why they go and hide) I have many Scorpio female friends and they are great except for the single ones - their sarcastic verbal "zingers" get meaner and less funny as they get older.

Well tasha i would not tell him anything, let him believe what he wants to, if my wife were to do this to me i would be wanting to be around her 24/7.
I wouldnt do anything to upset him or anger him becuase it would me and we are very vindictive*i guess you spell it that way*,but the fact he is showing the child some attention is a good sign.

gem,

i have no idea about scorpio wemon,but the are very jealous, try and see.

Tasha,
I used to get very angry when other men looked at my wife,yes sometimes at her,which is the wrong person. I know now that she is gorgous and i take it as a compliment,i even let her dance all she wants with these men,because i know she is gonna come with me. so smile and give it time...

Thanks Mike,
It is so great to hear the perspective of a male Scorpio, and I know you are right about the jealousy and vendictive side of this sign. This weekend, he and I were at a party and a guy came up and talked to me and he almost hit the roof. He accused me of flirting with him when actually I was only having polite conversation. Funny thing is after we fought about it, he told me he loved me and wants us to be a family! Do you find that strange? That this made him realize his feelings for me? Or do you think he is just being territorial and possessive, now?
Tasha

Tasha,
That is not strange at all and mabye he does want to be a family,which is good, i mean he does take you child to do things.I know when i decided that my wife was it i am totally dedicated to her and always will be. The jealousy,well, will pass it took me alot of time to realise that my wife was not out to get laid,or was not looking for someone else, but was only being herself, though feelings do arise from time to time, i wont say i dont get jealous cause we all do,but i have learned to put them down and let my wife deal with other men that do hit on her,she is a dancer so she does get hit on constantly so ,but i finally realised she is with me and if she didnt want to be she wouldnt. So mabye he will also learn to deal with it the way i do,i hope so, but we are dedicated to those once we decide they are the ones though and through would die for dedicated. smiles ....hope it works out for ya!!!!!!!

Tasha
About the teritorial or posessiveness,i think he will get over it, but all scorpio men are this way, i think we try to show our love in different ways than others, and it is mistaken for this...But the jealousy has to go.
bye for now......let me know somethin..

Hi Mike,
I wanted to let you know that your advice helped me out a lot in dealing with my Scorpio man. I have worked on patience when dealing with his jealousy and I have been very reassuring when the situation arises! I think it is working because he seems to lighten-up when a guy checks me out now.
Thanks!
T

YOUR WELCOME TASHA

Tasha, if you act like your usual, everyday self and a male Scorpio doesn't like it, it's HIS problem.