perfect ?

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18 Years5,000+ Posts

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i was talking to a libra chick(yeah i know my situation is pretty bad these days)
just chatting about how many guys she dated,and could not find any one who was good for her at the end.so now she will wait for mr.right and all that jazz.
i asked what kind of guy she prefered,and she went on with a whole list of things,which i won't even bother about writing here.she said,if she could find all that in a guy,it would be the perfect guy.

i was thinking,well is there such guy at all?
or for that matter,even a perfect gal.

i personally think such a belief is silly,for i think everybody has some or the other flaw.what you rate as flaw might also be subjective.isn't it?

so many variables.

but did anyone of you ever came across any man/woman who came the nearest to this image of a perfect guy/gal?
what was your experience with them?
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20 YearsScorpio

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I think seeing values and ideals that would encompass the "perfect partner" or even finding them is setting an unachievable goal post for that person.

As one persons perception of perfection is very different from the next person.

We all have ideals and certain traits which we either find attractive or repulsive but to specifically have a defined set of criteria is setting oneself up for disappointment and placing an extreme amount of pressure on anyone you plan on dating.

Setting ideals which cannot be met lend an entirely new dimension to an already difficult scene - the dating game!